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Beloved, it is imperative that topics like this are well discussed and properly clinched. However, a friend in Christ, (Sister Alison) has something to say on this based on her own personal experience. Here is her write-up...
Have you ever heard of parents that teach their kids to save their first kiss for their wedding day? Yep, we are THAT family. Before you run away, hear me out. I have my reasons for this, and you may want to give them a few minutes of your time. After all, you’ll have to face the kissing, dating and courting issue as a
parent sooner than later in your parenting journey.
In my parent’s home there were no rules against dating and kissing. Once I turned 16 I was allowed to date and had an 11:00 p.m. curfew. In fact, many times I remember my family asking me as I returned home from a date, “So…did you kiss?”
My mother taught me some specifics and always warned me about intimacy outside of marriage — it was simply out of the question. But, kissing? That was OK as long as you didn’t take it too far.
My husband was raised with a similar parenting style, except even more lenient.
However, my views on physical relationships before marriage changed when I met one special guy. This guy loved God and sought to follow him supremely. It was so evident. I admired his testimony and walk with God from afar. After a super-sweet love story bloomed, we officially entered “boyfriend/girlfriend” status.
I was honored to be “his girl.” He taught me so many things, through his life and through his words — even though he had been a Christian for a short period of time. But, you know what? One day he said the weirdest thing on earth. Brace yourself, it’s super-weird.
“Alison, I believe God does not want us to kiss until we are married.” Huh? I was shocked.
I had never heard of such a thing. When I told my friends, they were doubly shocked…especially since the guidelines were coming from a teenage guy.
Why would my boyfriend, who soon became my husband, say such a thing? Because he desired to flee fornication. He desired to run away from temptation to sin. He was a super-wise guy because he was simply following what I Corinthians 6:18 taught: “Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.”
And you know what? That just made me love him more. To know that this guy was setting standards for our relationship higher than most because he wanted to keep his heart pure before God was beyond impressive. By the way, he’s still that way today. He takes the high road, and our family has benefited much from his integrity.
Did you know there is another passage in the Bible that says it .....continue reading at http://theiconofpeace..com.ng/2015/11/why-no-kissing-before-marriage.html

Beloved, it is imperative that topics like this are well discussed and properly clinched. However, a friend in Christ, (Sister Alison) has something to say on this based on her own personal experience. Here is her write-up... Have you ever heard of parents that teach their kids to save their first kiss for their wedding day? Yep, we are THAT family. Before you run away, hear me out. I have my reasons for this, and you may want to give them a few minutes of your time. After all, you’ll have to face the kissing, dating and courting issue as a
parent sooner than later in your parenting journey.
In my parent’s home there were no rules against dating and kissing. Once I turned 16 I was allowed to date and had an 11:00 p.m. curfew. In fact, many times I remember my family asking me as I returned home from a date, “So…did you kiss?”
My mother taught me some specifics and always warned me about intimacy outside of marriage — it was simply out of the question. But, kissing? That was OK as long as you didn’t take it too far.
My husband was raised with a similar parenting style, except even more lenient.
However, my views on physical relationships before marriage changed when I met one special guy. This guy loved God and sought to follow him supremely. It was so evident. I admired his testimony and walk with God from afar. After a super-sweet love story bloomed, we officially entered “boyfriend/girlfriend” status.
I was honored to be “his girl.” He taught me so many things, through his life and through his words — even though he had been a Christian for a short period of time. But, you know what? One day he said the weirdest thing on earth. Brace yourself, it’s super-weird.
“Alison, I believe God does not want us to kiss until we are married.” Huh? I was shocked.
I had never heard of such a thing. When I told my friends, they were doubly shocked…especially since the guidelines were coming from a teenage guy.
Why would my boyfriend, who soon became my husband, say such a thing? Because he desired to flee fornication. He desired to run away from temptation to sin. He was a super-wise guy because he was simply following what I Corinthians 6:18 taught: “Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.”
And you know what? That just made me love him more. To know that this guy was setting standards for our relationship higher than most because he wanted to keep his heart pure before God was beyond impressive. By the way, he’s still that way today. He takes the high road, and our family has benefited much from his integrity.
Did you know there is another passage in the Bible that says it ....continue reading at http://theiconofpeace..com.ng/2015/11/why-no-kissing-before-marriage.html

Beloved, it is imperative that topics like this are well discussed and properly clinched. However, a friend in Christ, (Sister Alison) has something to say on this based on her own personal experience. Here is her write-up...
Have you ever heard of parents that teach their kids to save their first kiss for their wedding day? Yep, we are THAT family. Before you run away, hear me out. I have my reasons for this, and you may want to give them a few minutes of your time. After all, you’ll have to face the kissing, dating and courting issue as a parent sooner than later in your parenting journey.
In my parent’s home there were no rules against dating and kissing. Once I turned 16 I was allowed to date and had an 11:00 p.m. curfew. In fact, many times I remember my family asking me as I returned home from a date, “So…did you kiss?”
My mother taught me some specifics and always warned me about intimacy outside of marriage — it was simply out of the question. But, kissing? That was OK as long as you didn’t take it too far.
My husband was raised with a similar parenting style, except even more lenient.
However, my views on physical relationships before marriage changed when I met one special guy. This guy loved God and sought to follow him supremely. It was so evident. I admired his testimony and walk with God from afar. After a super-sweet love story bloomed, we officially entered “boyfriend/girlfriend” status.
I was honored to be “his girl.” He taught me so many things, through his life and through his words — even though he had been a Christian for a short period of time. But, you know what? One day he said the weirdest thing on earth. Brace yourself, it’s super-weird.
“Alison, I believe God does not want us to kiss until we are married.” Huh? I was shocked.
I had never heard of such a thing. When I told my friends, they were doubly shocked…especially since the guidelines were coming from a teenage guy.
Why would my boyfriend, who soon became my husband, say such a thing? Because he desired to flee fornication. He desired to run away from temptation to sin. He was a super-wise guy because he was simply following what I Corinthians 6:18 taught: “Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.”
And you know what? That just made me love him more. To know that this guy was setting standards for our relationship higher than most because he wanted to keep his heart pure before God was beyond impressive. By the way, he’s still that way today. He takes the high road, and our family has benefited much from his integrity.
Did you know there is another passage in the Bible that says it ....continue reading at http://theiconofpeace..com.ng/2015/11/why-no-kissing-before-marriage.html[b][/b]

Do you remember the last time you did something to make your wife feel special? When you married the woman of your dreams, you not only gained a friend and a lover for life, but a confidante, a helpmate and a caregiver. She is someone you know will steady you when you are faltering and will go all out to cheer you up, when you are feeling low. She is the mother of your kids.
So, do something special to make your wife feel glad that she married you. Whether you are a brand new husband eager to make her the happiest bride, or a long-wedded spouse wishing to rediscover the fun-loving girl you married, here are some infallible ways to make your wife happy.
1. Write a romantic letter. Love letters written by hand never go out of fashion. Put your most romantic thoughts on paper, preferably perfumed, and it will surely light up your wife’s eyes.
2. Surprise her with a meal you have cooked. It need not be something elaborate –just a salad, a main course and her favourite dessert should do. But take care to set the table for an intimate dinner, with candles, flowers and soft music.
3. Arrange to go on a luxury cruise. All women love being indulged and what better way to spend a long weekend than go on a luxury cruise in balmy waters and golden sunshine. But make sure that you leave the kids behind, so that your wife can have some time of her own.
4. Invite her family over. Your wife’s parents mean a lot to her, so ask them over for Thanksgiving or any such special occasion. It will assure her that you consider them part of your own family and this will make her really happy for marrying you.
5. Surprise your wife with flowers for no reason. Make her fall in love with you, all over again.
6. Book her a session at a luxurious spa and better still, join her. She will not only enjoy the spa session, but will be happy that you came along with her.
7. Do something she hates. Choose a chore - like taking out the trash or cleaning out the garage - that your wife really dislikes doing and then go on to complete it.
8. Show appreciation for her hobbies. Attend the exhibition where your wife’s craft works are on display, or a flower show where her dahlias have been put up. Your interest in her hobbies will give her a feeling of pride and gladden her heart.
9. Gift her an afternoon at the beauty salon. Offer to take care of the kids and let your wife pamper herself at the salon. She’ll come back glowing not only because of the recent facial, but also out of appreciation at your gesture.
10. A sure shot way to make your wife happy at the end of the day is to pick up her favourite dessert on your way back home.
11. Surprise your wife by dropping in at her office at lunchtime and then take her out for a quick bite. It may not be very romantic, but your wife will love the spontaneity of the gesture and the fact that you took time out from your own schedule for the lunch date.
12. Join a salsa class for couples. Your wife will be glad of the intimacy of the dance and having the chance to do something fun together.
13. Make a bowl of popcorn, when your wife settles down for her favourite TV show or movie. Surprise her with your thoughtfulness.
14. Surprise your wife with a really expensive gift, like a Cartier solitaire or a Gucci handbag. Watch the sparkle in her eyes and hang the expense.
15. Do something fun together. Find out fun ways of spending time together as a family. You could pack a picnic basket and spend a lazy Sunday afternoon at the park, while the kids run about playing games.
16. Recreate your first date. Take your wife out in exactly the same way as you had done on your first date. The romantic gesture will be sure to make her giddy with love and happiness all over again.
17. Put together a gift basket for your wife, with assorted aromatic oils and let her sensuous side feel pampered.
18. Offer to take over, when your wife has to wake up at night to soothe a colicky baby or a sick child. Even if she may not seem grateful at the time, the fact that you have given her a chance to catch up on her sleep will surely gladden her heart the next day.
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50 ways to make wife happy

Do you remember the last time you did something to make your wife feel special? When you married the woman of your dreams, you not only gained a friend and a lover for life, but a confidante, a helpmate and a caregiver. She is someone you know will steady you when you are faltering and will go all out to cheer you up, when you are feeling low. She is the mother of your kids.
So, do something special to make your wife feel glad that she married you. Whether you are a brand new husband eager to make her the happiest bride, or a long-wedded spouse wishing to rediscover the fun-loving girl you married, here are some infallible ways to make your wife happy.
1. Write a romantic letter. Love letters written by hand never go out of fashion. Put your most romantic thoughts on paper, preferably perfumed, and it will surely light up your wife’s eyes.
2. Surprise her with a meal you have cooked. It need not be something elaborate –just a salad, a main course and her favourite dessert should do. But take care to set the table for an intimate dinner, with candles, flowers and soft music.
3. Arrange to go on a luxury cruise. All women love being indulged and what better way to spend a long weekend than go on a luxury cruise in balmy waters and golden sunshine. But make sure that you leave the kids behind, so that your wife can have some time of her own.
4. Invite her family over. Your wife’s parents mean a lot to her, so ask them over for Thanksgiving or any such special occasion. It will assure her that you consider them part of your own family and this will make her really happy for marrying you.
5. Surprise your wife with flowers for no reason. Make her fall in love with you, all over again.
6. Book her a session at a luxurious spa and better still, join her. She will not only enjoy the spa session, but will be happy that you came along with her.
7. Do something she hates. Choose a chore - like taking out the trash or cleaning out the garage - that your wife really dislikes doing and then go on to complete it.
8. Show appreciation for her hobbies. Attend the exhibition where your wife’s craft works are on display, or a flower show where her dahlias have been put up. Your interest in her hobbies will give her a feeling of pride and gladden her heart.
9. Gift her an afternoon at the beauty salon. Offer to take care of the kids and let your wife pamper herself at the salon. She’ll come back glowing not only because of the recent facial, but also out of appreciation at your gesture.
10. A sure shot way to make your wife happy at the end of the day is to pick up her favourite dessert on your way back home.
11. Surprise your wife by dropping in at her office at lunchtime and then take her out for a quick bite. It may not be very romantic, but your wife will love the spontaneity of the gesture and the fact that you took time out from your own schedule for the lunch date.
12. Join a salsa class for couples. Your wife will be glad of the intimacy of the dance and having the chance to do something fun together.
13. Make a bowl of popcorn, when your wife settles down for her favourite TV show or movie. Surprise her with your thoughtfulness.
14. Surprise your wife with a really expensive gift, like a Cartier solitaire or a Gucci handbag. Watch the sparkle in her eyes and hang the expense.
15. Do something fun together. Find out fun ways of spending time together as a family. You could pack a picnic basket and spend a lazy Sunday afternoon at the park, while the kids run about playing games.
16. Recreate your first date. Take your wife out in exactly the same way as you had done on your first date. The romantic gesture will be sure to make her giddy with love and happiness all over again.
17. Put together a gift basket for your wife, with assorted aromatic oils and let her sensuous side feel pampered.
18. Offer to take over, when your wife has to wake up at night to soothe a colicky baby or a sick child. Even if she may not seem grateful at the time, the fact that you have given her a chance to catch up on her sleep will surely gladden her heart the next day.
19. Find out your wife’s favourite perfume and gift it to her for no particular reason.
20. Give your wife a back or neck massage after a particularly gruelling day at work and she is sure to thank her stars that she married you.
21. Ask your wife what she would like to do, before you get ready for an intimate evening.
22. Really pay attention to what your wife has to say, especially when you are in company. This will make her feel respected, even though you may not agree with all her views.
23. Find things to compliment about her. All of us like being praised from time to time, but more so, when the compliment comes from a spouse. However, be genuine in your appreciation, as false praise could make her feel worthless and even hurt her.
24. Take care of your appearance. Nothing turns a woman on as a well-groomed and well dressed man. Become that man and give her one more reason to be glad she married you.
25. Offer to take your wife out for shopping and be honestly interested in what she has to buy. She will be glad that you chose to give your time and effort to her shopping interests.
26. Gift your wife a subscription to her favourite magazine. It'll make her happy to know that you pay attention to what interests her.
27. Go over old photo albums with your wife one afternoon. It will not only bring back warm memories of you together, but also make her want to relive those happy times.
28. Invite your wife’s best pals over for a meal. Making a genuine attempt to know who her friends are, will make her proud and happy to have you as a husband.
29. Kiss her the first thing in the morning. Women love simple displays of love and waking up your wife with a kiss, is sure to set her humming for the rest of the day.
30. Cheer for your wife’s favourite sports team. So what if your wife is a diehard soccer fan while you can drop everything for a game of baseball. Just this once, switch on to her favourite match on TV or better still, root for her favourite team and watch her beam at you.
31. Put the kids to bed. After a gruelling day at work and home, your wife is bound to be tired up to her eyelids. Even if the same goes for you, go another mile and tuck in the kids to bed. Your wife will surely be grateful for your thoughtfulness.
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Doing business in Nigeria is currently viewed as one of the most lucrative business ventures, in today’s global business environment. For the past 50 years Nigeria has been dependent on its valuable oil resources, which have brought great wealth to a select few.
However, as Nigeria’s economic sphere slowly changes, its economic structure diversifies to overcome its dependency on oil. This shift has opened up the playing field for a new generation of entrepreneurs in Nigeria. People, who can identify business opportunities in Nigeria, know that the oil industry is not the only business that you can enter and make money from.
If you are thinking of setting up a business in Nigeria and making millions of
Naira from it, you can choose from a variety of options. Read and find out my Top 20 Lucrative Businesses in Nigeria That Make Millions of Naira.
Top 20 Lucrative Businesses in Nigeria That Make Millions of Naira
1. Fast Food business – You need decent customer service, management skills and capital in order to set up an eatery and make sure that everything runs professionally. You can set out on your own and create your own brand, or buy in to an already established business franchise, such as Mr. Biggs.
2. E-commerce – This is a very promising venture and the best thing is, you will have all the tools and customers over the web. If you do not have the required knowledge, you can collaborate with an established firm to operate your e-commerce enterprise. Benefits are – Low start-up costs, changes can be made instantly, the potential customer reach, and you can easily measure results with cost affective online marketing.
3. Construction business – Business is booming in Nigeria, and so is our population. To support this growth, Nigeria now has a booming construction and housing sector. The range, type and size of projects is huge, so there are plenty of opportunities depending on how much capital you can invest. If managing a construction project isn’t for you, you can set yourself up as a local dealer to supply building materials. The investment is not as huge, but considerable investment will be required initially to buy and stock materials. But you can be assured that there will be no shortage of business.
4. Hotel business – This is a goldmine industry if you can get it right, but the competition in this sector is quite high. To launch and maintain your hotel you will need a large amount of capital. It takes planning, patience and hard work to start a hotel business. A high-level of customer service skills is also required to attract new and returning visitors.
5. Kerosene retail – You can set yourself up as a supplier to make your millions quickly. Kerosene is used in most homes in Nigeria, and Africa due to inconsistent power supply. This is one of the most lucrative business opportunities in Nigeria. . Entrepreneurs have been known to receive 100% returns on their initial investment.
6. Rice farming – Is the most profitable area in Nigerian agriculture. Nigeria has a low local production of rice, but an extremely high consumption rate, which leads us to import the majority of our rice from overseas. Recent reforms in the Nigerian agriculture sector have seen the government open up the sector for more investments to support small, medium and large-scale farmers.
7. Haulage services – Given the poor rail transport system in Nigeria, most of the goods are shifted by road and this makes the haulage business in Nigeria extremely lucrative.
8. Snail rearing – This is one of the business ideas in Nigeria that needs low investment as snails require simple vegetation to eat, and they reproduce at an alarming rate. You will need to invest in housing and protecting them, as snails are delicate, and must retain their moisture to survive. There is not much competition in the industry and you can enjoy making profits without many challenges.
Top 20 Lucrative Businesses in Nigeria That Make Millions of Naira9. Car and machinery spare parts – As Nigeria’s economy grows, so does our manufacturing industry. This has driven a rapid increase for capital goods such as machinery, lubricants, spare parts, ball bearings and other mechanical goods and accessories. The key is to find a good supplier from abroad. UAE-based enterprises have emerged as the leading supplier of these goods to many countries in Africa.
10. Poultry farming – This is big business, and you can begin with around 100 birds, and build it into a large-scale enterprise within a short period of time. You can make money from selling chicken eggs, or chickens for meat. This is a top business startup idea.

11. Transport business – Although a little messy at present, it is a profitable sector in Nigeria and can help you make millions annually.
12. Fruit Juice Making – This is a capital-intensive business, but if you can manage the funds you can grow as big as Chivita or La Carcella given how much Nigerians love their fruit juice.
Top 20 Lucrative Businesses in Nigeria That Make Millions of Naira13. Tokunbo trade – Business of second hand items in Nigeria is very lucrative and many Nigerians want to spend as little as possible to buy second hand items such as clothes instead of buying new ones.
14. Dry Cleaning – Float a professional dry cleaning business and keep your rates low and service quality quite high. This type of business is especially profitable in a big city, or urbanized area.
15. Pure Water Production – Although this business needs some capital investment, it can be worth your effort and money in ...continue here...http://echosbiz..com.ng/2016/01/top-20-lucrative-businesses-in-nigeria.html

1. Letting someone blow air into your vagina.


Or if, for some reason, you take a syringe full of air and pump it into your vagina. If you get enough air, blown at sufficient force, it can result in a fatal air embolism — when air bubbles get into your bloodstream and kill you.
Stay safe: Don’t let anyone blow in your vagina.

2. Dryer lint.


When lint builds up in your dryer, it could cause your dryer to overheat and potentially catch fire. According to a 1998 report from the U.S. Consumer Product Safety Commission, there were roughly 15,600 dryer fires that year, causing 20 deaths and 370 injuries.
Stay safe: Clean out your dryer lint in between each use.
3. Cleaning the bathroom.


Mixing bleach with other common household cleaners can create toxic gases that could potentially kill you. Per the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention: NEVER mix bleach with ammonia or any other cleaner.
Stay safe: If you’re going to use bleach, read the instructions incredibly carefully. And never, ever mix it with other household cleaners.
4. Tylenol.


Or, rather, way too much acetaminophen (a pain reliever that Tylenol is made of, and that’s found in many other medications). Acetaminophen overdose causes about 500 deaths in the United States each year. When taken as directed, acetaminophen can be very helpful. But it’s easy to take more than you should, because it’s in so many medications that you might feel compelled to take simultaneously (like Tylenol and Nyquil, for instance). There are about 60,000 cases of acetaminophen-related liver damage every year, most of them accidental.
Stay safe: Always read the label before you take any medication. If you’re taking a medication that has acetaminophen as one of the ingredients, don’t take any other medication that also contains acetaminophen. Talk to your doctor about what’s safe.
5. Drinking too much water, too fast.

Two tragic examples: In 2005, a man died after a fraternity hazing ritual where he had to chug water from a jug over and over again. In 2007, a California woman died after participating in a water-drinking contest hosted by a local radio station. The cause of death in both cases was water intoxication, which is when someone drinks so much water in a short amount of time that the kidneys can’t process it quickly enough, causing deadly swelling of the brain and lungs. It has also happened to athletes during extreme sporting events; as well as to people taking club drugs, who feel insatiable thirst and end up drinking too much water too quickly.
Stay safe: Don’t ever force yourself to drink when you aren’t thirsty. And don’t do MDMA, Molly, or ecstasy.
6. Pools, lakes, bathtubs — any body of water, really.


According to the CDC, drowning is the third biggest cause of death from “unintentional injury” in the world. In the United States, it’s THE leading cause of death from unintentional injury for children under 4 years old — overtaking car accidents in 2005. Of all drowning deaths, 9.7% occurred in bathtubs; 16.3% in swimming pools; 47.2% in natural water, and 26.8% unspecified.
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I’ve been getting into it recently with some readers who have a slightly different take on when people should get engaged. Hey, different strokes for different folks.
One reader on my Facebook page wrote: “When a man’s in love he wants to propose as soon as he can.”
Needless to say, I disagree with that. Wait. It’s not that I disagree with that. There are MANY men who propose as soon as they can when they’re in love. But are they making the
wise decision? That’s something else entirely.
Another reader – who was attempting to shoot down my assertion that you should ideally wait 2-3 years before getting engaged – sent me a link to a super-informative article. In it, Professor Ted Huston studies 168 couples for ten years. Not a big sample size, but an interesting result.
“Researchers saw some typical changes that take place in all marriages during the first couple of years: fewer overt displays of affection; less sex; and fewer leisure activities together, as the relationship evolves from a romantic, recreational relationship to something like a working partnership.”
This is all normal and predictable, says the married dating coach. If you expect your marriage to be otherwise, you’ve got a big surprise waiting for you.
“The fact of a couple moving quickly toward marriage is not in and of itself a problem as much as what is driving the speed. (The average length of courtships in the study was two years, four months)…Speed can become a problem when it is driven by romance and fantasy because, unless one is extraordinarily lucky, the suitors discover that the partner was not as lovely as they had imagined. Long courtships, Huston argues, are rarely long because the partners are exercising due caution. If a couple is still finding lots of reasons not to marry after four or more years, then that’s usually because they’re subconsciously picking up on problems or even thinking that they themselves aren’t suitable for marriage, ever.”
Makes perfect sense to me. Which is why I’m going to double down on my theory that you shouldn’t get engaged before at least two years (like most couples already do) and you shouldn’t marry when you’re caught up in those giddy feelings. By the same token, if one party is really delaying marriage (going beyond 4 years), then it’s not a matter of being cautious, it’s a sign that he/she doesn’t really want to get married.

Other useful takeaways:
•Happily married couples shared many traits, including courtships that progressed smoothly toward marriage with little drama; their courtships had a quiet, romantic feeling, but as important, they ...continue here... http://virginology..com.ng/2016/02/what-makes-marriages-last-or-not.html

Senate President, Bukola Saraki, said on Tuesday that all public office holders in Nigeria since 1999 were guilty of the mistakes of the past that led the country to its present political and economic mess.
Saraki stated this while responding to a question on the secrecy of the National Assembly budget and corruption allegations leveled against it by former President Olusegun Obasanjo in a recent letter.
The Senate President insisted that it was wrong for anybody to hold an individual or group of people solely responsible for the mess of the past.
He said, “We have all been here since 1999 up to the recent past when things were not done right, we are all part of it. I was there, you were there, every
other political office holder in different capacities was there as well.
“My own view from the 8th National Assembly is that the time for collective participation for the good of all Nigerians is here with us in line with the change mantra of the present administration. We are all on the same page for things to be done differently.
“I think what we need now from all stakeholders, is more of cooperation, encouragement and participation as oppose to trying to hold one person responsible for the mistakes of the past that we are all part of .It is ....continue here http://brainboxofpolitics..com.ng/2016/02/corruption-all-past-leaders-are-guilty.html

The WAY we talk to our kids has a huge impact on their learning and ability to listen to us. We are constantly modeling to our kids how to act and behave and the way we talk to them fits right into this category. The way we speak to them and those around us is showing them how we want them to speak back to us. I have found that there are generally three different ways that parents communicate with their kids. The first one is in an aggressive way. These parents yell a lot, put their kids down and use attacking words. Their children respond in many different ways, mainly by playing up a lot more, feeling fearful, yelling back and ignoring their parents’ constant orders.
The second form of communication commonly seen is a passive form. These parents mutter soft, cautious words and tones to their kids finding that they run riot and
walk all over them. Unfortunately these parents are so passive that sometimes when they are pushed to their limits, they suddenly turn their communication into an aggressive tone. Lastly the third way that parents can communicate with their kids is in an assertive way. This is what I have found to be by far the most effective way to communicate with kids at all levels. An assertive way of communicating is firm, consistent, clear, positive, warm and confident. Communicating with kids in an assertive way is a real skill yet it shows your kids that mum and dad know what they’re going on about and to listen.

Here are my 20 top tips for improving the WAY we talk to our kids:

Use your child’s name. Your own name is music to your ears. Our kids are no different, plus it helps to get their attention before delivering your message. eg “George, please go and get……..”. Young children can often only concentrate on one thing at a time. Call your child’s name until you have their attention before you speak. Eg “Helen”. (Wait until she stops kicking the ball and looks at you.) “Lunch will be ready in ten minutes”.

Use positive language– try not to being saying “no” or “don’t” all of the time. There is no doubt that if we say “Don’t drop that glass” or “No running inside” or “Don’t drag your coat in the dirt” your child has that image and thought imbedded in their mind and more times than not, they will drop the glass!Instead, try to word what you want them to do. Eg “Only walking inside please” or “Hold onto that glass, it is a special one” or “Hold the coat up so it doesn’t drag”. This requires much thought and practice but is well worth the effort.Try to eliminate words you use that may be ridiculing (“You’re being a big baby.”), name-calling (“You’re a really bad boy.”), and shaming (“I was so ashamed of you today”). This type of language achieves very little except leaving your child feeling worthless. Kids will often cut off communication with those who use these words with them and begin to develop a poor self-concept. Positive and kind words give your child more confidence, makes them feel happier, helps them behave better, encourages them to try hard and achieve success. They learn to imitate you and deliver the same respect and praise to others. Examples of positive words are: “I like to way you remembered to pack up your toys”, “Thank you for helping me clean up this mess”, “You tried so hard to share your things with your sister, it made me feel really happy”.
Connect with your child with eye contact. You may need to get down to their level or sit at the table with them. When you are chatting with your kids, this shows them also what they should do. Not only is it good manners, it helps you to listen to each other.Say your child’s name until you get their eye contact, especially before giving them a direction. It is important that they give you their attention, and you should model the same behaviour for them.
Use volume appropriately – When in the classroom teaching, I used to have a class next door to me whose teacher always yelled. The kids used to put in their earplugs and eventually stopped listening at all. The teacher was always trying to yell over the noise of the kids, what a nightmare!The same applies for at home, don’t ever compete with a yelling child. When they have calmed down, then talk. If you use the volume of your voice appropriately for the majority of the time, raising your voice in an urgent situation should not be ignored. They will sit up and take notice because it doesn’t happen all of the time. Yelling orders or directions from another room may also fall on deaf ears after a while, for example yelling “Turn off the TV now please Chad” or “Hurry up and get dressed” from the kitchen gives the impression that you’re busy and not too serious. Walking into the room, joining in for a minute or two and waiting for the commercial break will go down with far more cooperation. You are modeling respectful behavior to start with and you have come to them with your direction, so they know you mean it!
Suggest options and alternatives – When you want your kids to cooperate with you, it is far easier if they can understand why they need them to do something and how it is to their advantage to do so. They need to see the importance of following your directions. For example, “When you get dressed, you may go outside with Daddy”, “Which jumper would you like to put on, the red one or the blue one?”, “When you do your homework, you can then watch tv”, “Which book would you like to read, this one or that one?” “When you are dressed for school, you may then play with your toys”. By adopting words like “when” and “which” makes the child feel as though they have choices, even though there is no room for negotiation. This works far better than using “if” words. Also, try to include your child in helping you solve a problem. For example, instead of saying “Don’t leave your toy trucks out there”, try saying “George, think about where you should store your toy trucks so they’re in a safe place, come and tell me when you’ve decided on a good spot.” Try to offer alternatives rather than saying a straight out “no” or “don’t”. For example “You can’t get the paints out just now, but you could draw with the crayons instead”.
Keep it simple– Young kids have trouble following too many directions given at once. We can probably relate to that when we ask someone for directions to a destination and are bombarded with instructions we later forget. Try to stagger your requests into small blocks. Eg instead of saying, “Helen, go and pack up your toys, but first put your dirty shoes outside and then feed the cat”. Chances are, Helen will feed the cat then go outside to play because feeding the cat is the last thing she remembers you asking. Even though we want to improve our communication with our kids, be preceptive to their level of interest in the conversation. If they are getting the blank stare, call it quits. If you feel as though you’re waffling on, try to use a more direct approach next time you visit the subject.
Keep away from nagging – At the end of each school day, I wanted the children in my class to tidy the room before home time. I felt that they should learn to tidy up after themselves and take pride in their room. I knew that if....continue here http://voiceofoluwaseun..com.ng/2016/02/20-ways-to-talk-so-your-kids-will-listen.html

Doing business in Nigeria is currently viewed as one of the most lucrative business ventures, in today’s global business environment. For the past 50 years Nigeria has been dependent on its valuable oil resources, which have brought great wealth to a select few.
However, as Nigeria’s economic sphere slowly changes, its economic structure diversifies to overcome its dependency on oil. This shift has opened up the playing field for a new generation of entrepreneurs in Nigeria. People, who can identify business opportunities in Nigeria, know that the oil industry is not the only business that you can enter and make money from.
If you are thinking of setting up a business in Nigeria and making millions of
Naira from it, you can choose from a variety of options. Read and find out my Top 20 Lucrative Businesses in Nigeria That Make Millions of Naira.
Top 20 Lucrative Businesses in Nigeria That Make Millions of Naira
Top 20 Lucrative Businesses in Nigeria That Make Millions of Naira1. Fast Food business – You need decent customer service, management skills and capital in order to set up an eatery and make sure that everything runs professionally. You can set out on your own and create your own brand, or buy in to an already established business franchise, such as Mr. Biggs.
2. E-commerce – This is a very promising venture and the best thing is, you will have all the tools and customers over the web. If you do not have the required knowledge, you can collaborate with an established firm to operate your e-commerce enterprise. Benefits are – Low start-up costs, changes can be made instantly, the potential customer reach, and you can easily measure results with cost affective online marketing.
3. Construction business – Business is booming in Nigeria, and so is our population. To support this growth, Nigeria now has a booming construction and housing sector. The range, type and size of projects is huge, so there are plenty of opportunities depending on how much capital you can invest. If managing a construction project isn’t for you, you can set yourself up as a local dealer to supply building materials. The investment is not as huge, but considerable investment will be required initially to buy and stock materials. But you can be assured that there will be no shortage of business.
4. Hotel business – This is a goldmine industry if you can get it right, but the competition in this sector is quite high. To launch and maintain your hotel you will need a large amount of capital. It takes planning, patience and hard work to start a hotel business. A high-level of customer service skills is also required to attract new and returning visitors.
5. Kerosene retail – You can set yourself up as a supplier to make your millions quickly. Kerosene is used in most homes in Nigeria, and Africa due to inconsistent power supply. This is one of the most lucrative business opportunities in Nigeria. . Entrepreneurs have been known to receive 100% returns on their initial investment.
6. Rice farming – Is the most profitable area in Nigerian agriculture. Nigeria has a low local production of rice, but an extremely high consumption rate, which leads us to import the majority of our rice from overseas. Recent reforms in the Nigerian agriculture sector have seen the government open up the sector for more investments to support small, medium and large-scale farmers.
7. Haulage services – Given the poor rail transport system in Nigeria, most of the goods are shifted by road and this makes the haulage business in Nigeria extremely lucrative.
8. Snail rearing – This is one of the business ideas in Nigeria that needs low investment as snails require simple vegetation to eat, and they reproduce at an alarming rate. You will need to invest in housing and protecting them, as snails are delicate, and must retain their moisture to survive. There is not much competition in the industry and you can enjoy making profits without many challenges.
Top 20 Lucrative Businesses in Nigeria That Make Millions of Naira9. Car and machinery spare parts – As Nigeria’s economy grows, so does our manufacturing industry. This has driven a rapid increase for capital goods such as machinery, lubricants, spare parts, ball bearings and other mechanical goods and accessories. The key is to find a good supplier from abroad. UAE-based enterprises have emerged as the leading supplier of these goods to many countries in Africa.
10. Poultry farming – This is big business, and you can begin with around 100 birds, and build it into a large-scale enterprise within a short period of time. You can make money from selling chicken eggs, or chickens for meat. This is a top business startup idea.

11. Transport business – Although a little messy at present, it is a profitable sector in Nigeria and can help you make millions annually.
12. Fruit Juice Making – This is a capital-intensive business, but if you can manage the funds you can grow as big as ....continue reading http://echosbiz..com.ng/2016/01/top-20-lucrative-businesses-in-nigeria.html

Okay. You are now married. Done the honeymoon on Elegushi Beach and you are set for the straight business of settling down proper. Your in-laws! Did your heart just skip a beat like a damaged vinyl record? Calm down. You are too young to have hypertension. Kool ya temper first with these lines from The Mother-In-Law Book by Rosaleen Dickson:

'Lucky the man whose wife and mother

Love him enough to be good to be each other

Happy the man whose mother and wife

Love him enough to live without strife.'

On a serious note, one major factor that will determine the success and longevityof your marriage is the way you relate with and handle your in-laws. Do it correctly, you have the most blissful of matrimonies and get it wrong, you will sign the divorce papers faster than the ring entered your finger!

We have criss-crossed the globe and today, we bring to you and your loving spouse, 12 solid ways on how to relate with your in-laws. Irrespective of your religion, tribe or background, these universal values always work. Ready? Let's roll!

1. Know Them: Yelz. The very first thing you need to do is to know your in-laws. It does not sound too nice of you as a bride not to know the full names of your mother-in-law or what your

Image result for how to relate with your inlaws father-in-law does for a living. Like, seriously? Drill your spouse, know all about her people. This will assist you in relating better with each member. Once you know them, communicate and pick clues yourself. You cannot be aloof and say it is 'me and my husband'. Nibo?! If you agree to marry your spouse, it means you have a new family. Know them, love them and cherish them. That's numero uno.

2. Close? Yes, But Not Extremely Close: Your mother-in-law happens to be the very hospitable type, she cannot but pamper you every second of the day. Oh, lucky you! But there is something you must always know: excessive familiarity will always breed contempt. Be close to your in-laws but not too close for comfort. Give them breathing space even if they show you are the apple of their eyeballs (abi no be so dem dey talk am ni?). You have your family and they have theirs. Remember one of the 48 Laws of Power: create value by scarcity. Do not 'extra cool' your father-in-law at 2.30 am unless your wife is in labor -and he is a gynaecologist! Hope you gerrit?

3. Do NOT Reveal All: Your father-in-law has taken you like a son and one cool weekend, you guys got talking. It all started from politics and before you know it, you started narrating how badly your wife cooks or how good she is in bed (who on earth does that?). Even though your father-in-law knows that you are married to his daughter, do not irritate him with the details of how you give her koboko. It is a no-no! Gist generally, give advice when your suggestion is called for and as for what is between you and your wife -let it remain like that.

4. Never Insult: Remember they are his parents and no one will take it lying low if you abuse their parents. Yes, he loves you but he loves his parents too. Do not run your mouth (like water as Chidinma Kedike would say) about her sisters or brothers. According to the book, The Mother-In-Law Dance: Can Two Women Love the Same Man and Still Get Along? by Annie Chapman, one of the most constructive ways by which a mother can stay within her boundaries is by containing the mighty force of the tongue. And yes! Let me remind you, even when he complains about his parents or relatives, calm him down -or keep quiet. Do not join him in hurling careless words at your in-laws -it will only boomerang later.

5. Your Relationship First: In all that you do, never forget this: your relationship first! This is an instinct that should guide you in all you do. There are times you just have to sacrifice your ego (not your dignity, see below) just for things to work out.

6. Appreciate Their Good Points: It takes two to tango. If your in-laws are trying their best to satisfy you, do not take them for granted. Appreciate that basket of fruits your mother-in-law sends every week for your children and do not say it is just fifty naira orange. Your appreciation and gratitude can sound little but will surely go a long way.

7. Visit Them (With The Kids): Just imagine yourself being a grandparent on nice weekends, with excited kids running all over your courtyard telling you tell them story after story. Nice scene ba? Visit your in-laws once in a while, and carry the kids with you, if you've got any. Do not deny grannies the right of ....continue reading http://virginology..com.ng/2015/12/12-ways-on-how-to-relate-with-your-in.html

The 2015 Headies awards may have come and gone with its thrills and frills with many focusing on the spat between Olamide, the YBNL boss and Don Jazzy of Mavin records.
While the impasse lasted, many did not bother to check out the list of winners from the annual awards ceremony.
Below are the winners:....

BEST STREET-HOP ARTISTE
1. Reminisce – Skillashi
2. Olamide – Bobo (WINNER)....continue here http://melodyofechosam..com.ng/2016/01/check-out-full-winners-of-headies-2015.html

For the typical college guy, girls can seem like human versions of a Rubix cube -- a puzzle that, at times, may feel unsolvable, but understanding how to keep a girl happy is easier than ever thanks to this simple survival guide. There are 10 things you can do that will make a girl smile no matter what. We absolutely love it when you…
1. Smell good.

No girl wants to date a guy smelling like last night’s party, am I right? Studies have shown that women ranked a man’s scent as the most important feature for
determining whether she would be sexually interested in him, so do yourself a favor guys: shower, shave, and add some deodorant and cologne. Avoid the cheap stuff, and don’t drown yourself in whatever you choose, you only need enough to draw us in. Once we are close enough, we won’t be able to resist.
2. Play with her hair.


It can’t be explained, but it is the most magical feeling in the world. All I can say here is please do.
3. Bring her food and/or cook for her.



Food is the way to a girl’s heart and though we don’t generally admit it, we love to eat. So take us to dinner or at the very least, pick up a pizza or some of our favorite treats. On top of that, there is something sexy about a guy who can cook, so even if you can’t make us a four-course meal, either turn on the grill or teach yourself how to make something simple, like spaghetti.
4. Let her wear your jacket or sweatshirt.

Don’t make her keep commenting about how chilly it is outside or how cold she is. Trust me, she is not interested in making small talk about the weather. Just hand it over.
5. Take charge and plan a date.

Ask her if she's free, tell her you’re doing something and what the dress code is, and that you will pick her up at 7 p.m.. It doesn’t have to be anything big or anything expensive -- just make an effort and give her something to look forward to all week.
6. Give her presents.


Girls love surprises and gifts. It can be something small like a cute note you leave on her pillow or a bag of her favorite candy to a piece of jewelry. Let her know you care and.....continue here http://virginology..com.ng/2015/12/the-top-10-ways-for-boy-to-win-girls.html

Nollywood actor Odunlade Adekola is unarguably one of the most popular and busiest actors in the country at the moment.
Despite his busy schedule, the versatile actor still finds time to hit the studio to record songs.
Odun as he is fondly called is set to drop his debut album before the year runs out. The album titled Mori’re is set to be released under Megastar Entertainment.
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The well-loved actor shared the news on his Instagram and captioned it: “Eyintemi MORI’RE ooo.. what you have been waiting for all this while will be out before....read on http://melodyofechosam..com.ng/2015/12/odunlade-adekola-sets-to-release-music.html

1.A PASTOR THAT DOES NOT TALK ABOUT SIN BUT WRAPS HIS MESSAGE ALWAYS ON
HAPPINESS,JOY AND SAYS GOD IS ALWAYS MERCIFUL TO FORGIVE SINNERS.

2.A PASTOR THAT 99% OF HIS MESSAGES ARE ABOUT THINGS OF THE WORLD-PROPERTY,MANSIONS,CARS E.T.C.IF HE WANTS TO GIVE TESTIMONY ABOUT PROOF OF HIS MINISTRY,IT IS ABOUT THE LATEST CARS,HOUSES,CLOTHES OR PLACES HE HAS VISITED.

3.A PASTOR THAT DOES NOT
TALK ABOUT HEAVEN AND DOESN'T DIRECT PEOPLES HEART TO GOD AND ONLY PREACHES GOD AS A FATHER CHRISTMAS.HIS MESSAGE IS ONLY ON WHAT GOD CAN DO FOR YOU AND NOT YOUR OWN RESPONSIBLITY TO GOD.HE DOESN'T TELL YOU TO REPENT AND GET OUT OF YOUR UNGODLINESS AND DO WHAT IS RIGHT.

4.A PASTOR WHOSE EVERY SERMON ENDS IN OFFERING AND....continue here http://theiconofpeace..com.ng/2015/12/1.html

The good girl is going extinct. Many valid explanations are thrown about: upbringing, society, TV, music, peer pressure, etc. But one important cause of her death is the men she encounters who take her and destroy her, so let’s take a look at those responsible for her tarnishment.
The womanizer


Some men are strong and powerful, some men are smart and rich, but some men are love engineers experts at finding the code to unlock girls stiffly shut legs. There is nothing inherently wrong with these men, but just like there’s honor among thieves, there should be honor among heart robbers: virgins and good girls shouldn’t be messed with.
Nowadays however, seducers are ruthless, and if the exploration of the far west was a time of free killing and gun slinging, the new millennium is an age of rampaging hymen perforation and innocence spoilage.

 His mix of boldness, good looks and suavity gives second thoughts even to the most traveled and seasoned woman. When a good girl meets him, everything feels magically perfect, as he appears to
be above the mundane rest of the human race. He is all she ever dreamed of from the time she was a little child reading romance novels; when he takes her hand to tell her she is the love of his life, butterflies fill her stomach, excitement invades her face and moist forms inside her thighs.
Easily the number one predator of good girls, with his harmless looking face and his heart of wolf, the womanizer likes to disarm his prey with and strike effectively when her guard is lowered. When he gets what he wants, he dumps her in the wild, leaving her with her lacerated heart bleeding in the open, sometimes with an unwanted child or an incurable STD. At this point in her life, the good girl wished she had someone who’s done it all and seen it all, someone who....continue here http://theiconofpeace..com.ng/2015/12/3-kind-of-guys-who-turn-good-girls-into.html

Hi people...I got this article from a blogger friend and it actually worth reading....here it goes....
"We walked out of our wedding reception holding hands as the crowd was cheering for us. Our car was decorated with balloons and streamers – so much that we could barely get inside. The back window said “JUST MARRIED” and I felt like I was floating in the car with my big wedding dress taking up 90% of the seat. My new husband got into the car, looked at me and said, “WE DID IT!…. Now let’s get out of here!”

It was just the two of us. Me and him. A MARRIED couple. It was so surreal.
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A few days past and we were flipping through our guest book from our reception. It was full of great advice on how to have a successful and happy marriage. One note said, “Don’t fight. And if you’re going to fight – fight naked.” Another note said, “Forgive and forget.” A few said, “Never forget how you feel TODAY.” And the last one said, “Keep no
secrets.”
Keep no secrets.
I always knew honesty and communication were two of the most important keys to a happy and successful marriage – so I made it a goal that day to tell my husband everything. When something funny happens, he is the first one I text. When I hear exciting news or gossip, he is the first one I call. When I need advice or to make a decision, he is the first one I ask for help. And always in my mind I think of the great advice we were given on our wedding day to, “keep no secrets.”
As the years have gone by, I have realized that there are a few things that women don’t tell men. It’s just the way we are. When we are upset – we say “we’re fine.” and when we are sad – we say “it’s okay.” So gentlemen, today we are going to keep no secrets and tell you a few things your wife probably hasn’t told you.

1. SHE LOVES YOU, EVEN WHEN SHE DOESN’T LIKE YOU: There are those days when you drive her absolutely crazy – those days where you are getting at her every nerve and she doesn’t exactly want to be around you – But she still loves you. There are going to be those moments where you say something wrong or don’t react exactly how she wanted you to – But she still loves you. There are those times where you may have not noticed she got her hair done, you forget to compliment her on her new dress or failed to recognize all of her handwork she accomplished around the house – but she still loves you.
2. SHE KNOWS SHE ISN’T PERFECT: She wants to be the best for you – but it’s hard to be perfect. She makes mistakes and gets confused, but she hopes to be everything you need. She may not have gotten everything done she wanted to, because the baby just wouldn’t cooperate today. And she may not have dinner on the table tonight, because time just went too fast. But she is trying. And she is doing her best – for you.
3. SHE FEELS A LITTLE JEALOUS: She’s jealous of your x’s. She’s jealous of your co-workers. She’s jealous of her friends. And she may even be jealous of your friends. Maybe jealous isn’t the right word, but she feels the need to be the more beautiful thing you have ever laid your eyes on even no matter how many years you have been together. Want to make her day? Tell her she’s beautiful and mean it. It’ll mean the world to her.
4. SHE KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT SHE WANTS FOR THAT SPECIAL OCCASION: You know that time she told you she needed to go buy her friend a gift for her birthday? She may or may not have walked out of the store with something for herself and completely forgot about the gift for her friend.Sometimes she finds the perfect dress that she knows she would look amazing in. If you catch her hints she drops near birthdays or Christmas you may just be able to buy her that perfect gift that if it were up to her, she would have purchased on the spot.
5. SHE WOULD HAVE RATHER GONE TO HER FAVORITE RESTAURANT: Marriage is about compromise – so that time she went to that boy movie for you? She would have rather gone to a chick flick. That Mexican restaurant she took you to? She would have rather gone to Chinese. But she loves you and wants you to be happy – so she gave a little, with hopes she will get a little.
6. THE SEXIEST THING YOU CAN DO – IS THE DISHES: To come home to a clean house might be the best thing you could ever do for her. Need I say more than this picture?
7. SHE REALLY DOES CARE ABOUT ANNIVERSARIES, BIRTHDAYS AND HOLIDAYS: She may have said, “Oh, I don’t care if we don’t do anything to celebrate.” But really – she is hoping you will surprise her with flowers. She is hoping you have a romantic date planned. Anniversaries, birthdays and....continue here http://virginology..com.ng/2015/12/11-things-your-wife-wont-tell-yougreat.html

Sexual harassment is one thing many agree has come to stay in Nigeria’s education sector. It cuts across all ages and it happens at all levels, from primary to tertiary institutions. There have been several cases of teachers abusing their underage students. Primary school students have reported teachers handling them, touching their private parts and performing other acts. Same goes for secondary school students.
Tertiary institutions are the worst hit. Incidentally, sexual harassment is not a new thing in many institutions of learning. Several years ago, tales of a Reverend gentleman who lectured in the University of Ibadan who had formed the habit of sleeping with female students in exchange for marks circulated in the institution.
A few years before then, a certain Department that has roots both in the Faculties of Arts and Science was enmeshed in a scandal after a female undergraduate was reportedly caught with question papers of an examination that was yet to be written. On interrogation, the student made a startling confession that
she got the “live expo” from the Head of Department, who incidentally was known to be a strict, no nonsense man.
By the time she was brought face to face with the HOD, she recanted and mentioned the Department’s Examination Coordinator as the source of the leaked questions. Another senior lecturer in the department was also indicted over the compromised examination. It was eventually discovered that the three men had slept with the....continue here http://voiceofoluwaseun..com.ng/2015/12/latest-sexual-harassment-cases-in.html

Myth: Sexual Assault is caused by lust or uncontrollable sexual urges and the need for sexual gratification.
Fact: Sexual Assault is an act of physical violence and domination that is not motivated by sexual gratification.
Myth: Once a man gets sexually aroused, he can't just stop.
Fact: Men do not physically need to
have sex after becoming sexually excited. Moreover, they are still able to control themselves after becoming aroused.

Myth: Women often lie about sexual assault or falsely accuse someone of sexual assault.
Fact: Statistical studies indicate false reports make up two percent or less of the reported cases of sexual assault. This figure is approximately the same for other types of crimes. Only one out of 10 rapes are actually reported. Sexual Assault by someone the victim knows are the least likely to be reported.
Myth: Women provoke sexual assault by their appearance. Sexual attractiveness is a primary reason why a perpetrator selects a victim.
Fact: Perpetrators do not select their victims by their appearance. They select victims who are vulnerable and accessible. Victims of sexual assault range in age groups from infants to the elderly. Sexual attractiveness is not an issue.
Myth: Sexual assault is a topic that only concerns women, and men do not have to be concerned about sexual assault.
Fact: According to recent sexual assault crisis center statistics, men, both straight and gay, suffered 10 percent of the sexual assaults reported in the United States last year. In addition, men have wives, friends, sisters, mothers and daughters who may someday need assistance in coping with sexual assault. Sexual Assault is a concern for ....continue at http://voiceofoluwaseun..com.ng/2015/12/myths-and-facts-about-raping-issues.html

Beloved, it is imperative that topics like this are well discussed and properly clinched. However, a friend in Christ, (Sister Alison) has something to say on this based on her own personal experience. Here is her write-up...
first kiss saved for wedding day
Have you ever heard of parents that teach their kids to save their first kiss for their wedding day? Yep, we are THAT family. Before you run away, hear me out. I have my reasons for this, and you may want to give them a few minutes of your time. After all, you’ll have to face the kissing, dating and courting issue as a
parent sooner than later in your parenting journey.
In my parent’s home there were no rules against dating and kissing. Once I turned 16 I was allowed to date and had an 11:00 p.m. curfew. In fact, many times I remember my family asking me as I returned home from a date, “So…did you kiss?”
My mother taught me some specifics and always warned me about intimacy outside of marriage — it was simply out of the question. But, kissing? That was OK as long as you didn’t take it too far.
My husband was raised with a similar parenting style, except even more lenient.
However, my views on physical relationships before marriage changed when I met one special guy. This guy loved God and sought to follow him supremely. It was so evident. I admired his testimony and walk with God from afar. After a super-sweet love story bloomed, we officially entered “boyfriend/girlfriend” status.
I was honored to be “his girl.” He taught me so many things, through his...read on at http://theiconofpeace..com.ng/2015/11/why-no-kissing-before-marriage.html

bettercreature:
The fact still remains i can not propose to a girl i have been fucccking for a very long time
It doesn't make any sense to me
why not simply fix the introduction and wedding date instead of this bullcrap

5 Signs A Woman Is Flirting With You 1. It’s all in the eyes: Does she have eyes? Bonus bro! Science tells us if a girl makes eye contact with you, she’s down to clown. Is she avoiding eye contact with you? Do you keep staring at her and she’s refusing to meet your gaze? No worries, eventually she’ll have to look up from her drink. She’s just being coy with you player, so keep staring. Is she rolling her eyes while talking about you to a
friend? Dude! You’re in!
2. Mona Lisa Smile: She can’t help the curve of her lips when you’re around her. Is she laughing and having a good time? It’s obviously her sexual attraction to you and not the many other things that could be causing her enjoyment. Not smiling? Uh oh! Seems like you’ve got a Sylvia Plath on your hands. Make sure to keep cracking jokes to her, because it’s on. Your goal: make that fine lady smile. If she seems uncomfortable and gives a shy grin of confusion, bam. You’re in!
3. Talk, talk, talk: Is she making conversation in your general direction? Hope you’re ready for a night of unbridled passion, because she’s ca-learly into you. Hopefully she’s not one of those chatty chicks though! If....read on at http://virginology..com.ng/2015/11/5-signs-woman-is-flirting-with-you.html