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Politics / Tinubu, Emilokan And Nigerians by eclatante: 11:07am On May 31
One year after being elected, what have you benefited from this government?
Family / Re: Giveaway For Families by eclatante: 7:35pm On May 13
gbegemaster:
I would like to send financial gifts to families here, but I don't want my name to be revealed. Does anyone know of a way to accomplish this so we can begin the process?
I'll recommend you use POS sir.
Business / Re: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 18 ➜ ➜ ➜ by eclatante: 5:32am On May 06
eseka12:
So guys am about to win my first million ticket of d season if Atlanta scored 2 goals today. Remember after i divided my 30 picks into 5 tickets of 6 games each, i also divide it into 2 tickets of 15 games each as my million ticket, d second ticket is about to boom cos all d cuts came from d first 15 tickets. Though i didn't post it here but u can check d booking codes here..... MASSIVE GIVEAWAY LOADING

300+ oods
DB7C43
AE010D5F

Congratulations sir. Please and please let this massive giveaway touch my life too sir.


Congratulations once again.
Business / Re: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 18 ➜ ➜ ➜ by eclatante: 7:09am On May 04
goldenval:


If 20k is okay by you please send your details

I have Faith.
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by eclatante: 4:38pm On Mar 24
Smartb0y:

You don fvck up.

First and foremost,stop taking advice from that your friend,he seems blue pilled.

Sex first , relationship second
This is non negotiable.

If you do relationship before sex you will lose more trust me.

A woman should be the one vying for a relationship,a connection, security because basically that's what relationship is for . It benefits Women more.

No sensible guy should chase after a relationship.
Chasing after a relationship is a feminine drive..

A man that chases is a man that loses.
Men with value and options don't chase,they attract.

Give her less attention,if she comes running afraid she's in a state of losing you,only then will that show a little inclination that she's invested or ready to invest in you.

If you lock up and she lock up too, thank your stars, you just dodged a bullet.

Make sure you hit her as soon as possible to get her invested in you. A woman that you haven't fvcked won't be emotionally invested in you .
Understand this.

But don't be pussy focused just to get her.
Instead use less attention to get her to open up.

If at this point she doesn't open those legs,she was never into you.

Move on with the speed of lightning else you'll sign yourself up for games and manipulation.


2. Better don't get tired. As far as associating with women goes, they'll always play games so better be on guard else you get used. There's no good woman anywhere just woman.
How you associate with them is what brings their different flavors.

3. You were pussy focused. She knows you're hungry for sex. She'll use that against you.
Right now , she's got the upper hand

4. Stop rationalizing simping. Fvck her and find out

5. You acted needy and beta. No woman wants a needy guy. Ever. You've messed this one up really bad. How you start with a woman is how you'll end it.
She already sees you one way. Trying to form the hard guy now will seem almost laughable. She won't take you seriously. It's better to cut your losses and get a new one grin

6 &7. She doesn't give a fvck if you call her. You failed to attract her. Her pussy isn't tingling for you because you acted needy.
You didn't make her work for your attention.
In her eyes, you're already conquered. She did nothing to deserve a relationship.


I don try for you.
Bye grin


Thanks for your analysis. I'll update the house in 10 days.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by eclatante: 1:33pm On Mar 24
Rizzputin:


Sometimes (few cases) girls make age a big deal for relationship.

She most likely won't have ever thought of this if you hadn't brought up a relationship. If you had gone the hook up route, you'd be fùcking by now

However, age doesn't matter much most times if you're coordinated and mature enough.

Also, you not telling her will make it now look like a big deal cuz she'll now feel like you're hiding something.

Don't tell her yet... at least before you fùck her. Cuz if you tell her coupled with all the wrong move you've been making... she'll mentally check out of the relationship and use your age as the excuse. You'll probably receive a talk or text on how "you're too young for her"

So just get her to fùck you first before any other thing. Of course, remember to be chill and not act desperate for it

Alright king

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by eclatante: 10:44am On Mar 24
Rizzputin:


Most guys will solve a lot of their problems by 1) Never asking a girl out AND 2) Fùcking a girl before dating her.

Your instincts were right. You should have gone the normal route and fùcked her before dating her. That's how it's done.

Anyways, let's dive in once again. I'll quote your post in italics and reply to each one


"We started talking, she didn't give me the stress typically of Nigerian girls. She responds to text and calls well and also calls to check me up."

Yeah, this is where she hooked you. You're having seducer's oneitis. That feeling when a girl seems so different from others you've been with or come across she starts looking special. So you start treating her way too differently

No girl is special. Remember that. Yes, allow yourself to have those feelings for her. There's nothing wrong in those feelings.

The problem is the actions you do out of those feelings. Which I'll address as you read on.

Also, a girl responding to your calls and texts then calling you back is NOT a hallmark of a special girl. That is a normal thing an experienced seducer has in his life. It is literally the bare minimum

No girl receives any special treatment or consideration because you reply my text or call me. I will only take not of it if you start leaving me 8 missed calls almost every day.

So what I'm saying raise your standards of what different or special means to you. This is your first mistake. Because if ordinary things like this move you, she won't respect you because you're too easy.


"Normally, I would have gone for the normal route and get sex and we'll all be cool. But my guy advised I don't do that, that I should make her my woman".

Yes your instincts were right. This is what you should have done.

She will now be the one chasing you for a relationship.


"All my life, I've been single. I've never been in a real relationship, so I had took this decision to make things different with her."


You probably also told her this or hinted at it. How you want things to be different with her because she's different.

Wrong decision. Because she hasn't done anything of note that makes her different.



"She feels me, just like I feel her. But after I started the relationship idea, her response and vibes is that she doesn't wants to hurt me."

Of course her vibe has changed. She has gotten the ultimate goal of a woman in manipulation mode. Which is to lock down a man into a relationship with, use his resources. And to do it without little to no effort and without sex.

Once she does this, her goal is achieved then she'll manipulate you completely. Dictate rules in the relationship, cheat on you... spend all your money... give you another man's baby. Now, in your case... this girl may not go that far with you. I'll tell you why in this section but before that let me tell you the two modes that exist in every woman.

Now each girl has two modes constantly running inside her

The first is the desire mode. The ultimate goal of this one is to chase a man she likes, confess her feelings to him and then he fùcks her deeply, intensely and passionately. Women love the chase. They like a man that's mysterious and challenging.

The reward she gets by fùcking you is sweeter. The more different and intense the adventures she experiences while chasing you also makes the sèx sweeter.

When you confess your feelings to her or ask her out you Rob her off this experience. You've denied her of her number one fantasy and desire... and she will resent you for it

This is why immediately you Rob her off this desire, the next mode takes over...

Her manipulation mode. Contrary to what red pillers and alpha males would have you believe, this is the weaker of the two.

Girls are not walking about looking to manipulate men. That is why books And movies like 50 shades of grey that explore a woman's deep, sexual desires are popular among women. And these are the things they spend time on the most.

Her desire mode is stronger but the manipulation mode is strong enough to put up a fight. Each time she meets a new guy, the two modes are present.

Whichever mode wins, depends on the girl, the situation, what point she is in her life and the type of man.

So for example if she meets a man that let's her achieve her desire goal, the manipulation mode remains dormant and inactive. It never goes away. Until something wakes it up like maybe the man starts fùcking up terribly.


"Because I'm going to fall so hard for her, and I'll get my heart broken"

I had to break up the last section because it was getting to long


Now, when a girl tells you "I don't want to hurt you because you'll fall so hard and get heart broken" it's one of two cases depending on when she tells you

Remember I told you that she won't go for with her manipulation with you? The reason is because girls that say these usually have a good conscience OR they genuinely like you.

However, in your situation you're in the bad case.


The first case a girl will tell you this (which is the good one) is when she first initially meets you and you guys are vibing

She'll tease you as a way to test you and say she'll break you heart or she doesn't want to hurt you. This is usually before you've fùcked her AND before you guys are in a relationship.

Mynresponse is just to smile and ignore.


The second case is the bad one. This happens during a deep heart to heart talk, a deep convo OR when she's already in a relationship with you

If you hear "I don't want to hurt you. You'll get heart broken" in any of those situations, you have fùcked up somewhere.

You're the man. You're the seducer. You're the one whose options matter (because she might have but because of you, they wont matter)

She should be worried about getting her heart broken or getting hurt. Not she being worried that you'll get your heart broken . LMAO

What she just said is womanese.

This is the translation: "I like you. You're such a good, nice, sweet guy. And yes, I'll manipulate you / I already manipulated you / I'm currently manipulating you. But I don't want to hurt you too much"

Another translation (which is similar to the first or related): "Im not as good or special as you think I am. You love me way too much already when I haven't done anything worthy. This makes me feel you're easy to manipulate and I don't respect you for it. Since you're this easy to manipulate, I'll just end up hurting you. Cuz you love me too much already over nothing much"



We've shared a kiss, I've caressed her, but no sex yet

Have you fingèred her or has she given you a blow jób ?

If no, start from there... Though I doubt the blow jób will happen if you haven't done that by now but read on, we can fix it


it's almost impossible to get my heart broken.

Lol, you're saying this because the girl actually likes you as a person. So she will hold herself back or think twice on certain things

If it was someone who could care less and she's experienced, things would have turned out differently


"After sex, the probability that I'll still have the urge to be in a relationship with her, is almost zero too"

Why should sex reduce the urge to date her?

Then you're not ready to be in a relationship then. And that's a childish way of thinking

You should fix your internal mindset before reading the first way I'll suggest to fix your situation



<<<<<< Your Next Moves>>>>



Continue with everything as normal. Don't act angry or disappointed. Once those 3 days has elapsed just call or text depending on how you do your thing in a calm or chill way.

Though my guess is that she'll hit you up before the 3 days reaches.

Vibe with her normally but do NOT over do the caring, romance thing. Key phrase is: DO NOT OVER DO.

Invite her over whenever you feel is convenient.

Now your first choice is this:

Make out with her, caress her and finger her... make her give you blow joob. Make sure you finger her well.

Tell her that making love to your woman (that is fùcking her) is something you enjoy and it deepens your love for her. And it makes it more genuine

Say that while you're doing pre-intimacy. Listen to her objections and take note of them. That is if she resists sex... there's something she'll tell you. Take note of it. Normally, you'll address it there. If you can, do it and she'll end up fùcking you. If you can't, just post what she says here... And I'll reply you what you'll tell her next time or probably if she's still there


The second choice is the longer one...

Of course the shorter one is easier to fùck up. Which is why most people avoid it. But with experience, you'll be able to navigate around it easily

The longer one is typical red pill advice.

You simply act like the sèx is not a big deal like sèx isn't important. Start talking to other girls... in a way she notices it...

You want to increase your value back up. And nothing does that better than she seeing other girls around you. Not too much Tho (like you kissing them or overly hugging them)

This will set her back in chasing mode... you continue acting like sex isn't a big deal then you run your game as you initially intended to do before your friend gave you that useless advice


● To end this, girls chase relationships more because it's an opportunity to lock down a guy

That's why you must never want a relationship more than a girl does Especially if you haven't fùcked her. You just look desperate and naive

That's why she's saying all those I don't want to hurt you cuz she believes your naive and will manipulate you tire till you fall hopelessly

Secondly, these are your resources: time, money, attention, dìck, validation.

Never give them out cheaply or to a girl you haven't tested that meets your standards.

They should be given as rewards to girls that pass your test, meet your standards or have invested significantly in you or your relationship

When you're quick to give up your resources to a girl, she loses respect for you

Cuz in her mind you're weak and you don't value what you have

And if you don't value what you have, why should she

Thanks king for your reply.

I'll update the house within 10 days.

To add, she been dying to know my age, I don't know why. She's 23, I'm also 23. I don't want to tell her my age.

Idk why it's much of a big deal to her.

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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by eclatante: 8:16am On Mar 24
Good morning kings.

I'm met a new girl. We started talking, she didn't give me the stress typically of Nigerian girls. She responds to text and calls well and also calls to check me up.

Normally, I would have gone for the normal route and get sex and we'll all be cool. But my guy advised I don't do that, that I should make her my woman.

All my life, I've been single. I've never been in a real relationship, so I had took this decision to make things different with her.

She feels me, just like I feel her. But after I started the relationship idea, her response and vibes is that she doesn't wants to hurt me.

Because I'm going to fall so hard for her, and I'll get my heart broken. Personally, I'm this kind of guy that doesn't really give AF about getting my heart broken. The possibility of a woman breaking my heart is almost zero.

We've shared a kiss, I've caressed her, but no sex yet. All I wanted was a woman of my own.. because it isn't normal for a guy of 23, not to have tried a relationship for once.

Highlights: 1. it's almost impossible to get my heart broken.

2. I want her to be my girl (I'm tired of playing a hard guy bullcrap)

3. I wanna smash this babe. Haven't had sex in months. (It almost happened, but she stopped half way, telling me I'm rushing things.

4. After sex, the probability that I'll still have the urge to be in a relationship with her, is almost zero too.

5. I bleeped up bringing the relationship crap. (My friend adviced me to get a woman and stick with her) Which I actually wanted but things isn't going as planned.

6. I've decided not to call and text her for the next 3 days.

7. Please how do I fix this? It's 3 weeks since we started talking and no sex yet.

Rizzputin, pukkalolo

I need advice. Thank you kings.

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Business / Re: Naira Rises To N1,580/$ In Parallel Market by eclatante: 9:32am On Mar 20
What exactly is the problem with this naira sef.
Romance / Re: 200,000 Naira Gifting For 20 Guys On Nairaland by eclatante: 12:45pm On Feb 18
Politics / Re: Are We Still Teaching Peter Obi A Bitter Lesson? by eclatante: 8:43am On Feb 06
haffaze777:


We're not teaching him anything, we just can't allow his clueless head to be Plesident. I know it pains his mob

I don't know how some of you can be so comfortable with this government.

To feed is a problem but you people are still defending bad government.

I pray to God everyday so that I'll make money and leave this country to a saner country.

Back in the days, 5k can sustain me for a week+ but right now, just 1kg of gas is ₦1,300. Talk less of other items.

I'm tired of Nigeria, God please help this country.

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Politics / Re: Are We Still Teaching Peter Obi A Bitter Lesson? by eclatante: 8:39am On Feb 06
haffaze777:
Rest Ogbeni, petee Obi is clueless and nobody need him

Yes, let's teach Peter Obi a bitter lesson.

Edit: everybody must learn in this country. Next time we will use our wisdom to vote wisely.

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Politics / Are We Still Teaching Peter Obi A Bitter Lesson? by eclatante: 7:28am On Feb 06
The news the protests in Minna and Kano made headlines yesterday. Why did the north wait up till this moment?

How were they able to endure 8 years of Buhari's government induced hardship but can't endure less than 10 months BAT government?

Since we voted due to religious affiliations, we should all bear the consequences.

Any group of hungry crowd caught protesting, should be arrested.

Let's teach Peter Obi a big lesson.

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Sports / Re: Sadio Mane Constructs A Stadium In His Village, Bambali In Senegal. by eclatante: 10:40pm On Jan 06
I hope our current footballers will learn from this.

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Romance / Re: Helping A Man Vs Helping A Woman by eclatante: 12:58pm On Jan 05
Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain.

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Family / Re: Deleted by eclatante: 12:57pm On Jan 05
I didn't read your post. But I find your topic interesting.

Let me read your post now.
Politics / Re: Soldier Reacts To Video Of Governor Sanwo-Olu Arresting His Colleague (Photos) by eclatante: 1:09pm On Jan 04
Wouldn't be a surprise if this guy is made a scape goat.

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Politics / Re: Phase 2 Repair Of The Port-Harcourt Refinery Will Be Completed By Q4, 2024 -Kyar by eclatante: 10:12pm On Dec 23, 2023
Nawa embarassed
Politics / Re: Remi Tinubu: 2024 Will Be Glorious For Nigerians by eclatante: 10:12pm On Dec 23, 2023
I pray..
Business / Re: Ebonyi State International Market On Fire (Picture) by eclatante: 4:29pm On Oct 18, 2023
Ebonyi on FP for the second time today for wrong reasons.
Politics / Re: NLC: Nothing Has Changed, We Are Ready For Our Strike Action - Benson Upah by eclatante: 4:19pm On Oct 01, 2023
ASUU. embarassed
Romance / Re: Is This Home Or Away Match? by eclatante: 11:27am On Sep 30, 2023
Vinnie2000:


HOME Match. cool

PREEK Fc vs TOWTOW FC.😊

For the Guy to EJACULATE, Over 1.5
For the Girl to CUM, Over 2.5🙂

Boogyman 🤣

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Education / Re: Why Men Don't Tell Their Spouse About Their Real Salary by eclatante: 11:27am On Sep 30, 2023
JohnnA1:
Because most women (particularly our Nigerian women) would start internally, subconsciously calculating how to SPEND the man's money on liabilities rather than on how to SAVE and INVEST the money in assets.

Flesh and blood didn't reveal this to you.

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Agriculture / Re: My Trap Caught A Big Bush Rat (video/pictures) by eclatante: 11:24am On Sep 30, 2023
GanagiBitrus:
Kindly release that innocent animal.
You'll be in big trouble if I report you to Animal Welfare Board.

Kindly report to stomach infrastructure board. grin

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Education / Re: ABUAD Student Shares Story As He Graduates After 12 Years From University (photo by eclatante: 11:22am On Sep 30, 2023
JASONjnr:
He probably had issues after few years in school and had to hold on.....to complete it later....


He won't be paying for the years he wasn't receiving lectures. If he notified the school of his situation.

Did you read the caption before commenting?
Politics / Re: Lola Ade-John's Health Condition Sparks Confusion by eclatante: 11:18am On Sep 30, 2023
zolajpower:

Omo no b small my wife who is an African American any time I tell her I Ve malaria ,Omo her reaction is always dramatic, it's as if my enemy's condition is irredeemable grin
Come see shout , I will tell her madam . Malaria isn't a death sentence for us here , it can only be when u don't take care of it but calm down I will b better .
To them malaria can be transfered from person to person is contracted like HIV aids grin

Malaria is deadly. Just that Africans have kind of slightly adapted to malaria. It is still very deadly if left untreated even for Africans.
Politics / Re: Lola Ade-John's Health Condition Sparks Confusion by eclatante: 11:15am On Sep 30, 2023
She has not been in the country for years, yet she was given a ministerial appointment.
Romance / Re: Replied His DM - Nigerian Lady Marries Man She Met On Twitter by eclatante: 9:54am On Sep 30, 2023
Pauldollars:
Every Woman has a story to tell about where she met her husband.
These days many women see their husbands on
Facebook
Twitter
Whatsapp
Church
School
Bank
Place of work
Weddings
Youth programs/get-together
Neighbourhood
Commercial Buses etc

grin

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Romance / Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by eclatante: 9:53am On Sep 30, 2023
I won't allow my girl to join the kitchen on the first visit.

But she can help out with a few things. Like setting the dishes for serving.

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Education / Re: UK Female Student Kicks Out Male Nigerian Flatmate For Asking If She's A Virgin by eclatante: 9:50am On Sep 30, 2023
The6thAustralia:
they just want to use Nigeria to trend. And for a fact, you can't have your flat mate to be moved

Fact. She wants to gain some followers.

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Education / Re: UK Female Student Kicks Out Male Nigerian Flatmate For Asking If She's A Virgin by eclatante: 9:49am On Sep 30, 2023
Artiiclebeast:
What a disgraceful ambassador.

You dey support all this whitee? With her plastic ass face and boobs.

Fear and trust no woman. Even if the guy comes out to tell his own part of the story, him go just dey explain tire without no evidence.

No sensible man, should ask a woman if she's a virgin or not. What do you expect her answer to be? No? Hahaha.

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Politics / Re: Osun Government Cancels Independence Day Celebrations by eclatante: 9:45am On Sep 30, 2023
You go pray reach 600 years and no changes might be recorded.

Vote out all these unscrupulous elements in the government and watch Nigeria flourish.

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