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Ever wondered why some responsible ladies end up being with a man with bad attitude towards marriage?

Ever wondered why some good and responsible men end up being with irresponsible ladies with bad attitude towards marriage?

Can I hear you say love? or do you think it is because of money or connection? Perhaps you feel such men or ladies weren't careful enough, otherwise they would have end up being with a suitable man or lady. Whatever your answer is, you can as well end up being with a man or lady with an unhealthy attitude towards marriage.

So to help you have a better chance in being with a man or lady with a positive attitude towards marriage, I suggest you take note of these points before going into any relationship,

1.) Try and understand yourself, your likes and dislikes at least to some extent

2.) Know the good qualities you have, and also the bad ones

3.) Make a list of the attitudinal qualities you are looking for in a man or lady

4.) Encourage social relationship, especially with the opposite sex

5.) Discourage all form of sexual relationship, as this may affect your judgement which ought to be sound to be able to make correct and sound decisions that relates to marriage. Because a mistake in the choice of a marriage is a mistake for life.

As you take note of these and many other points I believe you know, be rest assured of meeting and having someone with the right attitude towards marriage. Even if you are already in a relationship you can still apply these.

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Hello lady, did you know that as a woman you have what it takes to make a man really love you?

The truth is that a lot of single ladies believe that by using just sex they can get a man to commit to them. Of course, because many men are naturally irresponsible, they will definitely agree to go to bed with such ladies. But committing to them is one thing a lot of these men will never do.

Fine! Let's just assume you succeeded in making a man to commit to you by using sex. Do you thing that such a man will end up being a responsible and committed partner? Just think about it.

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HOW TO KNOW IF A MAN TRULY LOVES YOU

‘Growing in love’ with an opposite sex is one thing, and ‘falling in love’ with an opposite sex is another. A lot of people, especially men are good at ‘falling in love’, but only a few actually grow in love.

To ‘grow in love’ with an opposite sex is to truly but gradually love that person. While to ‘fall in love’ with an opposite sex is to only ‘fall out of love’ with that person as time elapses.

There are many ladies today who have actually accepted to date or marry a man, simply because they believe such a man truly love them. However, in the long run, many ladies painfully realized that what they thought was love was never love.

Have you ever found yourself in similar situation?

If no, congratulation! If yes, relax and cheer up!

Sometimes in life unpleasant incidents happen so that you and I may learn. Though some of us may learn after the first incident, many others may not learn, except after the second, third or even the forth incident. Only a few of us may never learn.

But can’t we learn without actually going through a particular incident?

Of course we can!

So to help you know if your guy truly loves you as he says, here are 5 signs you should look for…

SIGN 1: Does he really respect you?

By respect here I mean does he give you the opportunity to express yourself, your views and opinions as a person? Or does he always expect a yes from you whenever he says yes and a no from you whenever he says no?

If he treats you this way, then it is very obvious that he never truly loves you. The truth is that to truly love someone is to really respect that person.

SIGN 2: Does he demand for sex?

Having just a social relationship with a guy you love is a wonderful way to know if truly such a guy loves you. However, having a sexual relationship with a guy you love can destroy true love, if at all there is any in the first place.

A man who is not your husband but demands for sex doesn’t truly love you. He may be physically or sexually attracted to you, but this on its own is not true love. What this means is that he lusts you, and perhaps you too lusted him if you are really quick to say yes to him.

So if your guy does this, you don’t need to be told that he is only interested in your body and not really in you as a person.

SIGN 3: Is he really concern about you?

Many ladies believe that it is only when a guy buys them gifts that such guy truly loves them. Buying of gifts can be seen as a sign of love sometimes especially when done by a responsible guy, but many guys do employ this belief to lure ladies into going to bed with them. So buying of gifts can not be a true proof of love.

A guy who is really concern about you is a guy who truly loves you. For such a guy, your well being and happiness is his priority.

A guy who is really concern about you will strive to always add meaning to your life.

A guy who is really concern about you is not really interested in what he will gain from you, but what he can do to put constant smile on your face.

A guy who is really concern about you is a guy who really wants you to be the best you can ever be, the best God has created you to be.

Such a guy as this truly loves you.

SIGN 4: Does he womanizes? Or does he double dates?

A guy who womanizes or double dates doesn’t really know what it means to truly love someone. And if your guy is in this group don’t ever believe him when he tells you that he loves you. The truth is, if he truly loves you he won’t play around with sex.

To truly love someone is to be contented with that person. To womanize or double dates is not to be contented with anyone. However, to be contented with a particular lady is to truly love that lady.

So if your guy womanizes or double dates, he is really not contented with you, which means he does not truly love you.

SIGN 5: Is he really proud of you?

There is a saying that a man in love is a proud man, but let me extend this further. A guy who truly loves you is a guy who is very proud and confident to introduce you to all his friends- females as well- as a woman he truly loves.

A guy who says he loves you but sometimes find it difficult to introduce you to everyone, especially to those that are close to him, may have a skeleton in his cupboard. And most times when you look at it closely, it will be glaring that he never truly loves you. One simple way to check this is to know if he is very comfortable with you going through his mobile phone. But this is not to say that he truly loves you if he is not uncomfortable with it.

So how really proud is your guy of you? Hold it! You don’t have to tell me yet. Just take a moment with yourself and look into your relationship, and then I believe you will have a better answer…

Wishing you success!

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