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Brimstone77:
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The issue is that I'm scared of being too attached to people..

I'm too emotional and will feel hurt if eventually the person leave..

I have always maintain a kind of distance when relating with people (both gender) so I don't miss them when they leave tomorrow..


I don't think I'm proud or have low self esteem...

I will say you are almost like me here, infact it's like am the one writing this. At a point I thought I have problem., Chai.

Ade3131:
Your submissions above says a lot about how much you've experienced in life than it says of the 30+ guy living with his parents.

Lemme ask you why you think everyone above 30 that still lives with their parents can't really afford to rent his own place?

And who told you that most of them don't have a job? Ifeel your perspective on life in this regard is so narrow and bereave of wisdom.

They're people that decide to stay with their parents due to their parents' health condition. I guess you didn't factor that into your submission.

They're also guys like Seyi Tinubu who's born into wealth. His parents live in mansion and they have a lot of them littered around the world. Whichever one he chooses to stay, it still won't change the fact that he lives with his parents.

Then lemme also ask you what economic or logical gain is there in renting your own house (even when you can afford it) and your dad owns an estate and they'll only sleep in one or two rooms while they're lots of vacant rooms available?

Or you just want to go out for the society to see that you're truly a man?

And if we're being realistic, the realities of the present day Nigeria is not in synch with whatever fantasy any of us have had growing up. Renting a room and parlor at Orile, in Lagos state now goes for as much as half a million for a year and landlords are demanding 2 year rent upfront in addition to agent and commission fee. Total package is 1.3m. That's a room and parlor. Tell me how your 20k of 2 jobs can afford that.

Let's not pressurize the less-privy men among us. Yes, it is expected that at certain age you should be financially stable enough to stand on your own, but if you're reading this and you're above 30 and still stays with your parents, and your reality says otherwise to the expected norm, pls don't go into crime bcuz you want to size up with your mates.

Life na turn by turn. You might be a late bloomer, and there's nothing bad about it. What's bad is knowing that you're down and still be digging. If you're down don't dig. Instead, stand up.

There is this guy that is very close me. He was still leaving with his parent until their landlord gave them 6months quit notice for renovation. They father rush and roof their uncompleted building that the starter, furnished about 2 room as his money reach, do you know what this boy did? He went and rented a self con of about 170k Furnished it. I confronted him to why I didn't Used that his money to furnish their own personal house. He said he can't live with his dad at his age.(he his about 24yrs) Now his rented house will soon expired while their own house is still not completed.

Sirchiboy:
I am 40 and still living with my parents.
No.job

God will bless you with a job.

Supremos:
If you think you can placard Akwa ibomites into hating Igbos, then you're on a very long thing.

The bond between us are inseparable by your pettiness

I personally cannot hate the Igbo because they have not hated me as a person, I don't know if they have hated other of our people. I schooled in Igbo land, they didn't hate me. The only problem for some of them which I don't consider to be anything was downgrading other tribes, thinking they're higher than others or wiser than others, but when they come closer to you they see that you are not what they told them or what they portrait you as. That is wen they become your friend and started revealing what they thought you are before to you.

Wickedfacts

Wickedfacts:
Seems you're new here. Search the moniker Ilaumoh, open his threads promoting Akwa Ibom and see how ipobs denigrate Akwa Ibom.

Start from here
https://www.nairaland.com/7522590/4th-longest-bridge-nigeria-ready

That animal called Owobokiri is an ipob pig

I have seen. Character of people differs., I have seen so many Igbo people praising our leaders over theirs in public.

JinxBreaker:
See another Hater from the pit of Hell.
So you're so blind to see the roads constructed,
na only the fountain that you see abi

This project is a complete Urban Renewal of some parts of Eket Urban,
which include remodeling of certain roundabouts, expansion and dualizing of some major roads,
fixing of some Streets,
Erosion and flood control projects(under ground drainage systems),
construction of a 600-seater Amphitheater,
fixing of street lights and beautification, etc.

are you in akwa ibom, please where can I go and apply for job.

fkj950ax:
All the 36 States and FG since 1999 are guilty of the points I made.

Lagos State imposed BRT lanes and took over 33% of some roads in the State. Did it improve traffic and caused socio economic growth we can measure today?

Akpabio built a stadium some years back in Uyo. What has been the socio economic impact of that stadium on the people that live in a 10km radius of the project?

Nigerian government (Fed, State and LG) need to have a long term plan to implement projects with results.

Every year we commission roads and renovate classrooms and import medical equipment.

Has there been any improvement in transportation, education or healthcare for members of the public across the 36 States?

You think I am attacking him because he’s probably your governor, but I see above all these tribal blindness around NL. It’s irrelevant to me because it doesn’t achieve anything or add to you.

you are right. Road, flyover, stadium and traffic light no dey put food for table, akwa ibom need human capital development.

Wickedfacts:
They see non-Igbos of the South South region as lesser than them and that is why they are against any developments in that area. They were against CR in the days of Donald Duke, they were insulting Akpabio when he built the Stadium, they are now insulting Udom for the infrastructure. Even the launching is Ibom Air, they said he was jealous of Air Peace.

Ilaumoh used to post pictures of projects in Akwa Ibom. Open his threads and see how they insult him because he's just posting progress pictures.

It is Wike that fits them. They fear him because he is capable of knocking sense into their heads.

not really Bro. I have never seen the Igbo been against akwa ibom project before. They are always happy about it and praise our leaders for it

ObongBassey:
Eket but this is online faceless forum, I don't give out my details

I'm not asking for details o

ObongBassey:
Chief Lalasticlala, nlfpmod, Obinoscopy I'm inviting you guys to my home state

where in Akwa ibom are you Base

Exmilitant:
They stop sending me on such errand when I came back home two days later. Dem no see money, dem no see sugar.

I masturbate with that Joy soap like mad. Joy, Lux and Imperial leather soap was so creamy.

My father likes Imperial leather soap maybe because of the scent but, when he calculated the amount he spent on the soap every week, he switched to Tura soap.

my father's favourite soap too

Oizee:
Lol, I was a victim many times, our old folks no get joy at all, if they sent us that kind of msg they would still spit on the ground and tell u to return back before it dries up.

you are above 30 , abi??

Willgates:
These are pictures of a newly completed rural road project in Akwa Ibom. The project was also handled by an indigenous contractor.

which Road is this??

FRANCISTOWN:
It's the truth bruv. Here in Nigeria, we just like mounting unnecessary pressure on people , because we are too egoistical and dumb.

That's why you'll see some people come out to say "If you've not made your first 1million by 25, you are a failure" , "if you are 25 and you don't have your own house , you are not a man enough", "if you are 25 and you are still in your parents house, you are lazy and weak".

So what happens to someone who makes his first 1million at 25 and blows all his money before 30? And someone who makes his first 1 million at 30 and later goes on to be a billionaire?
I know when I made my first big money, and how it went all off, because I was too young to understand the principle of money.

What happens to someone who moves out of his parents' house at 19 but returns at 40 because he no longer has shit goin on for him, and someone who moves out at 40 and later goes on to own estates and malibles.

In India, most of the family live together. No matter how rich you are, you'll live with your extended family.

As a man, if you are still living with your parents at 40, you are not a failure. If you've still not made your first 1million at 30 you are not a failure.

Just be sure within yourself that you are doing something to change the situation. As long as you are not idle. You are a champ.

thank you sir. I have been feeling so depressed this days. Because I feel like I am a failure. This your comments will and me get better, and I will strive to succeed.

It depends on the family. In my family Case my Dad prefer us to move to our own house rather than paying rent, my dad lives in another house outside the city. While I lived in is house in the city. My father doesn't allow us to move out, his reason his that " if we don't stay in his house, who do we want to come and stay" I and my brother has been living here because it's a 3(2bedroom flat) since we came back from service. But This your topic has always made me to feel bad about myself for not having my own house, not only your topic wen I see my mate paying for house rent.
My senior Brother is using the money that he should be using to pay rent to build his personal house.
I also know one guy that is 40, he stays in his father's house because his father has so many houses and land, note: the guy has money to rent his house and he is earning big.

Adewale1603:
It is okay but The question is What are you still doing in your parents house at that age?

what if the parents are not living there, the parents has two to three houses in different cities.??

BigDickProblems:
Creating a new PayPal account as a Nigerian is just like a waste of time. After sometime, even after creating with a Lesotho nationality which most Nigerians do, your account will be flagged. At that point in time, your money is just like Gone. I was lucky to have created mine about 2 years ago. I got to the limit, I think $3k, and my account was flagged. And some money I had there was just there cos I couldn't withdraw it. So I left it there for about a year while using another new account. After about a year I decided to use my NIN CARD to try my luck on the first PayPal and till this day, PayPal has done nothing about that. That was how my account was verified.

You wouldn't take that risk. Other accounts which I created have all been flagged and verification to no avail.

Find other means to withdraw your fund. Or if you have someone you can trust, you can use their PayPal and tell them to send you the fund in Naira.

ok. Thank you

BigDickProblems:
Ok Bosses in the house. I know there are many of us who do freelance here and most of you will agree with me that most of these remote gigs pay through PayPal.

Normally my Withdrawal goes this way:

PayPal ➡️ Dollar Card ➡️ Skrill ➡️ Binance ➡️ Bank Account


However, I loose about 18% of my money all through the whole process.

Now could you please let us know the best way to make withdrawal from Paypal without loosing this much?

Thanks in anticipation for your feedbacks.


MODIFIED: While I go through this process, don't forget I end up selling at Binance rate, Wich was #750 to a $ the last time I did withdrawal

please how can I open paypal account

BigDickProblems:
Oh ok thanks. That's Great to know I can easily open that.

Pls no Dm for reasons best known to me.

Email marketing and copywriting are not too familiar with me. However if it's a service you can render to clients, then you need mediums to find clients that needs your services.

One popular Medium is Upwork. Very easy to set up. You will find jobs related to your specialty.

please teach me how to settl up upwork

sonature1:
Open a Payoneer account and they will automatically give you a US checking account.

Then, you can link your PayPal to the US checking account.

Once the money drops there, you receive it on your Payoneer account. You will then withdraw to your Nigerian account.

South African PayPal account works well for this.

please how can I open paypal account

Nurudeen06:
You're welcome

It's as easy as opening a Payoneer account...just follow the instructions and steps

please how can I open paypal account

You need write what I was expected. I thought you are an expert in cyber security

Akwa ibom are commissioning project, people are calling Obi. What is The relationship between obi and akwa ibom project

accordadoga25:
Akwaibom is really developing. God bless SS.

God bless SW, NC,NE,NW.

Unknown Gun Men no allow one region develop

we The SS people still prefer SE to whichever region you come from. You guys want to force yourself on us.

I have applied for more than 100+ jobs since i graduated, nothing come out yet. I still believe that one day , I will no longer be poor, I will move from grass to grace to a place of prosperity. I'm 30 with nothing to show,. But my blessings is coming.
My prayers is that God should take away this frustration / depression am passing through away from me

DCmaverick:
he was even active at the moment

I meet a girl there that told me she us not for hook-up but only chat, she told me she is ready for relationship.

UYEMDO35:
I lve my life d way it pleases me...... I can't come and kill myself for dis wicked so call good for nothing Nigerian girls and that's why I would prefer to marry Korean girls and lve my life peacefully.
The Fear of Nigerian Girls is the Beginning of Wisdom

ALL NIGERIA GIRLS ARE HARLOTS. NEVER SHAKE NIGERIAN GIRLS BECAUSE THEY'RE ALWAYS STROKING DICKS AND FINGERING THEIR SMELLING PUSSIES EVERYTIME, JUST WEAR PROTECTION AND FHUCK THEM. NEVER SHAKE THEIR HANDS, YOU COULD BE SHAKING THE HAND THAT JUST FINISHED STROKING AN OLD DICK, HOMMIES BE WISE, NIGERIA GIRLS ARE SCUM SLUTS

omor. I find it difficult eating food prepare by a woman because of this. E.g A peel groundnuts. And many other food

akube34:
him resemble ur papa?

no.
Because of 50k you called it small money, that's why I asked. Sorry about that.

Brukx:
The script below are the instructions an online casino uses in generating random floats. I don't understand J's, but with my knowledge of python I have an idea what's going on in the script except for the hashing (SHA512) part. Anyone with good js knowledge should come tell us what's happening here

// fill client seed, server seed and nonce with values from your roll details:
const clientSeed = "ZOujisvXvVe7fBedsQkWQaHwi5GiBFTz";
const serverSeed = "Wgh5dqFCnKihl07hluONRzs8wkDJSaBMuAwuviWNlQjPrFsonsYYNe0irlz0ld00";
const nonce = 127;

console.log(roll(serverSeed, clientSeed, nonce));

// ------------ don't edit below this line ------------
function roll(serverSeed, clientSeed, nonce) {
const crypto = require('crypto');
const text = clientSeed + ':' + nonce;
const hash = crypto.createHmac('sha512', serverSeed).update(text).digest('hex');
const hashLength = hash.length;
const step = 5;
let index = 0;
let rollResult;

do {
const start = index * step;
const end = start + step;

if (end > hashLength) {
rollResult = 9999;
break;
}

rollResult = parseInt(hash.substring(start, end), 16);

index++;
} while (rollResult >= Math.pow(10, 6));

rollResult %= Math.pow(10, 4);
rollResult /= Math.pow(10, 2);

return rollResult;
}

omor. Looks like something that vi should know but I don't know it

miketayo:
Most languages look the same, algorithm is mostly the same only syntax is different.
I started with C in 2007 den c++, Java , php and C#, every language I have learnt till today is similar to it, expect python to some extent which I find very boring.
C++, Java(my fav), JS, php, C# are object oriented but are very similar to C, what you are learning is just the new syntax.
I learnt kotlin basics in less than a week because it's just an easier Java.
I will just advice u to pick a language and stick with it. Build many things with it, then u can try another language.
And if u haven't built any working app or website with what u have learnt, u haven't understand it yet

please be my mentor

Dipsaint:
It's a matter of choice...
I'm learning C++, Cloud Computing and Cybersecurity

please are they related?

Samcent:
Good plans.

But to be an expert in both Java and Python by the end of this year is impossible!

Just take them gradually and do projects with them to test how well you have mastered the language.

boss . Please be my mentor