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kingreign:
Mbok ka ke se ete awan mfo.
MMeh tang ake mi.

real akwa ibom Man.
Once they tell you . "Mmeh tang ake mi" just know say na wise word.

Tonnyray:
Very deep but this is what I'll say in a nutshell: To prevent you being the side-lined father-in-law in another 25-30 years' time, (cos trust me these things come in cycles) tell your fiancee your parents insist on having a brief meeting with her biological father as your family tradition entails but assure her that all marriage rites and obligations will be to her step father.

You have a nice point Bro, but I'm not really comfortable with your last paragraph, I "think" pride price should belong to the biological father unless he reject it for any reason best known to him. In some culture, if you did not pay the pride price of the mother, you have no right to eat anything from your son in-law, if you do, it will result in a very big issue. You fit die sef or untreated sickness.

Ufuka:
Iam so shocked by many people's comment here, I hardly comment but I have to do so cos this's a matter between life and death. In Akwa Ibom State, there's no amendment to custom and tradition, don't allow your fiancee or your future mother inlaw to lead you astray, for the sake of your fiancee's life. Listen very well, go and get the marriage list from your fiancee's biological father, the bride price and every other thing should be paid to him,
his kinsmen & your fiancee's mum alone. The marriage should be done in his hometown and he's the one to sit as a father that very day. Any amount of money you can afford, give it to the man that took care of your fiancee. If your fiancee and the mother refuse to accept it, please and please cancel the marriage. A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE.

You should say "A WISE WORD" you are truly knowledgeable about about tradition.

MetaBroadband:
Good morning mature men and women in the house. Please I need your help on this topic.

My Fiancee told me about how her biological dad abandoned her and her mum after getting her mum pregnant.

Her mum later married another man who adopted her as his child.

Now she's grown and I've proposed to her, I wanted to go for her official introduction and list collection.

Would it not be nice to hear the biological father's opinion? Should I just ignore the fact that the man is still alive and proceed with the marriage arrangement?

Although she said I should not bother about that, but this is Nigeria and as an Akwa Ibomite I don't think it's proper. Although she's against me trying to find out about the man's opinion. Should I care?

What can you say about this?

Note: she only told me that the man abandoned them, but what if it was her mum that actually took her away?

is the step father dragging the the Bride price?? Is he really concerned about the pride price and the traditional right? ..if no. Please locate the father. It a respect. Let the father now feel guilty of what he did, he might decide not to show face if he was actually the cause of the problem. You know how some part of akwa ibom behaves, like Etinan, ikot Abasi, mpat enin, onna,.. they are so proud, if the girl mother Was a proud type she might be the one that refused to settle everything with the dad or she refused her daughter from even relating with the man because of ego. That biological father might be a nice man, just that the daughter and the wife refused to come close to him.

Soccrates:
So you want to use style to pepper our brothers who earn minimum wage of 30k and those searching for non existent jobs.

Continue.

I dey here dey fine 30k work I no see

tetralogyfallot:
If it's handwork I would have advised you to go for solar inverter installation technician. That's the most lucrative handwork in vogue now.

all the hand work need connect bro. I will say all handiwork are lucrative, but without connection nor matter your level of expertise, you will still struggling More than someone that have connections

Thank you Op.
Are you learning design too and machine fabrication or just cut and joint

diogo23:
It's a normal thing, All you have to do is just ignore them and the feeling don't go close to that

what is Normal to you? It can never be

You must be one of those social media Pepper them gang and Validation seekers

Zonefree:
It depends on your bargaining skills.

LoL, some go wan play smart. Them no go wan reply you again. If you double text, she don win you already.

Epistle of a SIMP.

Zonefree:
Beginner, the 100k is asking price.

yes. But she won't go less than 30k

DDayve:
Hi bro.
Sincerely, I don't think I have gotten to that status of mentoring people. Mentors are those who have started using software to put food on their table daily. Software is yet to start paying my bills so I can't start mentorship as at yet.
Check through programming comment section, you will find the big guns therein.

thank, I will appreciate if you could recommend, video resources and books for me .

DDayve:
www.okafordavid.com

Bro. I will like to work with you, I'm also From mechanical engineering background, without a job yet, so frustrating. currently learning javascript. Please can you mentor me, my area of specialization in mechanical engineering is also air-conditioning and refrigeration.

That feature to me is useless.

Vinnie2000:
God Bless you, Sir!👍

That February 2012, Many Nigerians were Struggling Financially and Jonathan's Timing was Wrong.
Nigerians were right to go on that Occupy Nigeria Protest.🙂

Jonathan was just Weak as a Leader and he was a CHRISTIAN SS President.

Tinubu (Yoruba Muslim) and Tambuwal (Hausa/FULANI) who were Unhappy with that situation
Took advantage of the Situation to plan for 2015.!😒

is there anytime that Nigerians don't suffer financially

Mikekan30:
According to you. Is only a fool that will deny that. Akwa Ibomites don't deny their heritage anywhere. We are everywhere in the world not only in Nigeria....

i know many of them Sha, they sometimes feel ashame of their language and name.. , I'm From Akwa ibom, I know how most of them used to form wen we were in school

Raskimonojendor:
"Immediately"

Tinubu rush to copy from him. He should have asked P.O to elaborate on his planned solution to the disadvantage of it.

bummyla:
I wish it was that easy, I would have gone down to 95kg

My clothes are no longer easily available in the market, I have to sew all the time!

Shoes, I have to make them!

When there was a time, I was the best dressed guy in town, always shopping for my wardrobe!

Now na story story story!

what 95kg? Omor! The last time I checked I was 50kg. Now I think I should be 48kg because people have been talking about my weight lost. I just need flesh for body.
You need to keep exercising , burn more energy.

Tobedated:
Well if someone is studying JavaScript and want to learn dsa he should check out codevolution on YouTube the guy is amazing teaches you all the basics you'll need


If you want to prepare for interview

Then I'll recommend Blind75 it's the holy grail of leetcode you'll find it and solutions at neetcode YouTube channel or neetcode.io

That's my own 5cent I have to offer good luck to all of us

please guide me on javascript

JimmySwaggart:
Don't waste your time alaye.
If weight gain no dey for the configuration of your DNA, all excess carbohydrates and fatty foods will be cleared off from your system by an autoimmune response. Only the minimal nutrients required to maintain and keep your tiny build in shape will be left in circulation. I have seen obese persons exercise and lose weight, 6 months after she lowered down on her 6am every morning jogging routine, hoping dat if she watches her diet strictly, the new stature will remain permanent. But to her surprise she gained all the weight back, that's what DNA will do to you. Although few exceptions exist, those whose build is tied to what they eat, and those whose body Dynamics changes with regular exercise. Exceptions don't make the rule.

you don shock me ooo, that means I won't Gain weight Even wen I start to see money because my dad dey slim?

Zonefree:
Are they all not rotten

all rotten, but with grades. I saw one last week wen 3 flies dey Perch on the girl nyash as she was standing. But some, you no go see any fly ontill she remove clothes

Zonefree:
Kpekus in streets of Lagos is 1k per nut.

2,000,000M / 1k = 2000 nuts
2000nuts / 365 days = 5.4 years.

With 2 million, I'll nut Lagos girl every day for 5 years and approximately 5 months. That's a fair deal.

1k.? Those kind kpekus for don rotten

Finnese001:
I don see sege for her hand, she doesn't care anymore, I don't think I exist to her, she's been acting up and can't apologize, I'm watching [b]once a sweet lady [/b]became a total different person, still a wonder to me

you are still calling her a sweet lady, you never ready to let go of her. For you to unlove her v, you need to remember "only" the bad side of her. Never you remember any sweet memories of hers, erase it, and remember 9f the bad side, if possible start hating that part of her body you dislike, maybe her leg, her smile, the way she eat , her Black mouth, her Black nipples and everything you dislike about her.

Finnese001:
this is a very big mistake from my side, I loose guard big time, I'm just trying to be strong because this lady do me strong thing


I'm in severe pain boss

I can bet my two ball that you go still go beg that girl

Next time, don't love but lust so that when there is issue you will easily forget her

Hmmm. Immorality, why do people love sex.

Ebenezer2021:
Same with you.
Though mine is Bsc Ed and I'm 30.
Edidiong by name.
God shall see us through.
If your immunity is strong get Xasten sha e dey work but side effects dey

oh! I'm Edidiong too

Ebenezer2021:
what's your age and qualification?

29+ , B.Eng

diogo23:
It's very easy to gain weight than losing it

because you are not tiny like us. If we miss a meal in a day, the next day people will begin to ask us if we were sick. And it will take us 6months to recover what we miss that day. But for fat people, just be mindful of what you are eating. Exercise , have something to think about, sleep moderate.