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Smoothgio:
Those issuing threat to Ebuka and his wife are cowards

I wont speak on this issue again cus the more i talk about it,the more i get angry cus everybody already pinned the threats on cregxforce

AT this stage,we have nothing more to do than vote and pray for a change of heart for biggie cus no matter how hard we try to defend or make people see that its a conspiracy and manipulation from other people,they wont

so please cregxforce,keep the voting coming.topping the polls should be the goal

It’s even weird to know and visit Ebuka’s wife’s pages, no? Ohkay

rainluv:
😂😂🤣

Lol

rainluv:
wow.. Tsatsi has a nice body
Her body is bodying

Her heart is not hearting unfortunately for mily sha

Amya:
Stigma is a strong word for what you might mean.

Stigma meaning- a mark of disgrace associated with a particular circumstance, quality, or person.
"the stigma of having gone to prison will always be with me"

Yes I know the word I used- stigma
There is stigma associated with having hypertension. That’s why a woman or man in a relationship would not tell their partner about it🤷🏾‍♀️
HIV
Even acne
Internal stigma
Then there is also external- albinism is associated with both. Some people do not want to do anything with them. In East Africa they get killed for being albinos.

My first academic essay was on stigma sha

Amya:
An overweight person is prone to blood diseases and stroke. That they are prone to this doesn't make them less or different.

Different people are prone to different things. People have allergies that are hereditary or caused my genetic mutations. Does that make them different.

Albino might be prone to somethings because of their lack of melanin but their entire self isn't centered on their skin. If you've ever been friends with an albino before, you'll know that skin colour or whatever is something you never see. It's like seeing a very light-skinned person. To you they only become the person they are. People are what they are on the inside and not the shell of the outside.


[b]I don't know of Albino's having any stigmas. [/b]People may gawk at them same way they'll gawk at a white person because they have a different skintone, but i don't know if that can translates to stigma. Stigma is synonymous to shame and disgrace and in my society, there's nothing shameful and disgraceful being an albino.

So no, I don't agree with you that albino's are not normal.

Arguments wear me out but, maka gini ka I ji kwuo this, this untruth? Chim!
I would love for you to be the one in the right about this bolded. Unfortunately you are not

Geezeem:
Please stop it!
Just stop!!

Some people here can be unbelievable

Sanqa:
My problem with kanaga speech to ebubu is that he has done it before. He did when he came back from the hospital when he was addressing housemates,talking about him representing the community. Why repeat it yesterday? Is there nothing else he can say about him?

This is fair enough then

Amya:
Ebubu is not disabled. He just cannot produce melanin, there's nothing wrong with him. That he skin lacks the ability to produce pigment does not make him different from the rest of the others. His condition is only skin deep at best.

When you tiptoe around these people or treat them as special because of a skin condition, it does more to exclude than include.

Kanaga shouldn't act like a white knight and defender of pigments. No one cares. When he keeps pointing out how someone is different, it does more to further isolate that person. Kanaga failed woefully by talking about Ebubu's albinism. If he had sense, he would have talked about Ebubu's personality and ended it at that. Out of everyone there, not a single one mentioned about the Albinism but Kanaga. In trying to come out as caring and nice, he committed even a bigger faux pas.

An albino is more prone to skin cancer than the rest of the population
They are more likely to have difficulty seeing
They have stigma (self and societal)
So it is not true to say they are just regular
They live with albinism, cannot produce melanin (absolutely or relatively) so this is a disability as it affects how the skin treats sun rays
My point is that Ebubu and people like him are vulnerable, so we can’t casually place them as “regular” or “normal”

Beorn:
Miracle annoys me constantly, but deep down, he's a good person. Top, top, top man, he is.

We connect at Miracle
When you started bashing him as with Frodd, I knew it was a matter of time lol
I like him, something about him draws me
When he starts about Khosi I want to smash his head

Beorn:
What if Tsatsii had talked to Ebubu in private after Kanaga told her to do that? Maybe she had done that and didn't feel the need to speak on it again unlike Kanaga who's just getting the chance to do that coz hun and Ebubu are not close.

I like Tsatsii sha. Most times, I always like the love interest of my faves. Probably why I like Khosi and Blue Aiva majorly coz of Yemi.

The emoji wasn’t meant to be there, and I obviously meant shout out…

This is the first time I do not like the love/romantic interests of people I like- Thafang o, Tsatsii o, Khosi oo, Blue oo (I like Blue a lot, but not as Yemi’s shipmate at all)
My season is hectic yhoo lol

I adopted Esther, Nina, Kidd, Cross, Selly my love, Bally etc sometimes would even end up liking them more than my initial fav

Beorn:
I don't think Kanaga was extremely insensitive, he'd have worded his speech a bit better but it came from a place of good.

The root of that speech emanated from weeks ago when they first got paired and Tsatsii came to him to complain on how Ebubu feels left out and isolates himself because of his skin color and how people doesn't want to be close to him growing up. So, Kanaga told Tsatsii that he understood where Ebubu is coming from, having heard and had experiences with people like him. He encouraged Tsatsii to talk to Ebubu and be more close to Ebubu so he doesn't feel left out. That she'd tell him that they are all one and he deserves to be there as much as anyone.

He also told Tsatsii that he'd have talked to Ebubu about Ebubu isolating himself (Ebubu) because he feels the HMs don't want to associate with him, but it'd be like Tsatsii came to reveal to him (Kanaga) what Ebubu is going through and it'd amount to betrayal as Ebubu confided in Tsatsii in private about it.


Here is an excerpt from that discussion. The discussion was very long but this is like few minutes.

https://mobile.twitter.com/blahbiddiboop/status/1617623289979080705/mediaViewer?currentTweet=1617623289979080705&currentTweetUser=blahbiddiboop


So, Kanaga used last night to encourage Ebubu as he couldn't say it to him personally so it wouldn't feel like Tsatsii had told him of the struggles which Ebubu confided in her. So, he might not worded it very well, but he meant no harm.

I watched it too, and feel he meant absolutely no harm
He also said other nice things about Ebubu

My grouse is with Tsatsii who knew all of that, who got confided in, and could not give a shout out to Ebubu last night.
I legit don’t like that Tsatsii
I have moved from being totally uninterested in, and bored by her, to disliking her👌🏾

Onyi99:
To think my boring fave got y'all wailing since last night😂😂
I can excuse that werey Geezard because she has always been senseless every season😂

But for Yemi fans coming for my general is hilarious.

Stop these unnecessary personal insults
Why must you insult a person for slamming your fav with her voice/truth/device?

She has never called you a bad name, hardly refers to you. But year in, year out you throw personal insults. What’s this about?

Senseless for not being a KJ fan?
Some real boombo

My Oli bangs👌🏾

Omalicha Yemi

Restless tribalists everywhere
Yikes👎🏿

livelymatilda:
Hmmm...So you set love "Strong thing"..

It is good for you sha..Continue enjoying strong thing madam.

SMH

switlily25:
I finally voted for my baby girl!
My Zulu princess!
The clout!
Odogwu nwanyi!
My ogbanje!
Khosisochukwu!!!
Kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa

Heheheheheehehe

Sending Love and blessings to everyone here- may life deal you good “cards” and may Love dwell within and around you
Happy Valentine
❤️

Abeg, join The Livhive and vote our Olivia o, Oli my ❤️
Vote Olivia and Juicy Jay’s pair- their pair name is a challenge for me to type or say lol

queenemelda:
The same Blue that was discussing with Olivia and Miracle yesterday that they will all be angry if they come out and find out that someone they trusted nominated them or gossiped about them. Yeah you have a point. Nana should have let Thabang save the moment she saw Royals and Juiolva, because Thabang will never put up his Tsatsi. But it's all good sha, at least she saved Juvonne, so we can go all out for Olivia this week. And Olivia go get sense, make I no see her flirting with that yeye boy again oo.

There was a look I couldn’t read in Blue’s eyes when Olivia said this. I had a fleeting “what if Blue nominates Oli?” thought that I shook off…

…also, what if the the passion with which Oli said that may have been misinterpreted to mean that she was issuing threats? - dunno what else to say

queenemelda:
As in eh, I was so pained yesterday that Olivia was quarreling with her true friend Nana, while hugging and laughing with her wig friend that nominated her and Yvonne for eviction. Hopefully, we'll hear her reasons today.

Nana tried honestly
Oli is too emotional- me and people like that smh

HotMiracleJuice:
Meanwhile e be like na only man man full mama blue skull I go like hear her reasons for putting up Olivia and Yvonne her supposed friends!!

That Blue sef smh

HotMiracleJuice:
Juicy u can't win BB with this oversweetness
I expected u to have pounced on ur brother thabansi dealt with him worse than what Marvin did to Kanaga sef while Olivia was giving it to Nana!!
Yes it's a game but why try to push someone again when they have been used as replacement before!! I see why Olii was mad at u

Like, yhoooo
Juicy had some extra sugar added and I don’t like it, he should have gotten some ginger or pepper instead, something, any spice, not sugar

Zihno:
As an educated boomer, she can’t claim not to have heard this phrase or even Banky W’s would you be my lover song. This phrase is everywhere. Call a spade a spade abeg.

Gbam
Deaddd
I have never heard the phrase, and only know Banky W’s “strong thing” (love it to bits but that’s the only song of his I know)

livelymatilda:
Make una free Eeghe bikonu.. I think she is over 50 and might now have been to Lagos or south west where the slang is popular.

But Mama Eeghe, they way you reason and draw conclusions times can be very annoying.
Calm down, everything no be fight with kwa

I had never heard the expression before, and I have certainly been to Lagos, and I am 62 even.
Thank you, for this sweetness lol but I am fine

I am calm, but can’t promise I won’t be annoying sha☹️

Sanqa:
He is being polite. He told her they need to be cordial from now onwards.

EXactlyyy!!! (in Erica’s voice)
He is being diplomatic and tactical is all
Someone said they are sure they
would date outside? From JoBurg to Lagos o du egwu

safarigirl:



Omo, the PR dey really PR. Everytime defense dey for all the actions. Voltron no do pass like that

My God, after hectic hours of saving lives I come to read calculus? Howww

Smoothgio:
Next week should not pass them by

No eviction next week oo

DOptical:
You're not even making sense with your half rant. I repeat use your brain and realise they're a pair! Not one person.

I read this one- short
But you see those rants of yours? Reading them would be a never, when I am not being paid to
Leave my slice of a brain for me, it has gotten me to places you can only get mad about👌🏾

Nana tried tbh
Oli sorry but suck it in
I like that your Tabang dealt with you, twice
Lemme see you near him again🤡

DOptical:
He didn't. Thabang said something last week that he didn't know about Nana nominating Maya while saying he was the one who nominated Yelisa!

Yemi didn't nominate Kaniva. He said it yesterday that he wouldn't evict Kaniva. It was Nelisa who was adamant about evicting them. It's Nelisa who's got grudges with Blue because first, according to Blue, Nelisa told her that she(Nelisa) had a problem with Blue because she's got a crush on Yemi and Blue just waltz in like that and overtook the spot. Secondly, Blue agreeing with Mmeli that Nelisa an instigator. She doesn't like Blue. Last week, Yemi gave Nelisa sole right to nominate.

Twice?
Lol, and a half
Still not reading

DOptical:
He didn't. Thabang said something last week that he didn't know about Nana nominating Maya but he was the one who nominated Yelisa!

Yemi didn't nominate Kaniva. He said it yesterday that he wouldn't evict Kaniva. It was Nelisa who was adamant about eviction them. It's Nelisa who's got grudges with Blue because first, according to Blue, Nelisa told her that she(Nelisa) had a problem with Blue because she's got a crush on Yemi and Blue just waltz in like that and overtook the spot. Secondly, Blue agreeing with Mmeli that Nelisa an instigator. She doesn't like Blue. Last week, Yemi gave Nelisa sole right to nominate.

Didn’t read, won’t read, thanks👌🏾😂