Masturbation has been a viral problem among youths and married couples that find it difficult to leave the act. Also, it has caused alot of harm on the minds of people. Some say it can not be controlled, while others think it can be cured.

The Truth Is:

It can not be cured but can only be controlled by one self if really they want to leave the act of masturbating. However, it can cause alot of damage on ones life and can be harmful in the future of ones lifestyle. Most people sees it as a normal act of sexual needs, while others sees it as a torn on the flesh.

CAUSES

Masturbation is the act of sexual pleasure to arose ones organsm through the use of intimacy gadgets, exposed to pornographic pictures, and browsing through the internet. However, it is a connection between the mind and the body receiving a message of sexual needs through the eye sight down to the mind feeding the body, some are addicted to it for a year and. The act of masturbating is likely to affect those in the circle of it.

For Example:

- It prevents the mind from expressing its feelings publicly.

- It prolongs ones life in the delay of any needs.

- It weakens the sexual urge from having sexual feels.

- It discourage the opposite sex from explaining its. feelings openly.

- It weakens the spirit, mind and the body.

- It also cause delay among youths and married couples.

Note that, the effect are feelings that opposite sex can't see nor notice while in the act of feeding the body, it may take longer time to fix for those that are addicted to it for a very long time.

SUGGESTION

The act of masturbation is possible to be overcome through the support of self control. It may take longer or a while to get over shadowed. now, one needs to distract its mind, emotion and feels to tackle the situation.

First, you will need to understand its source of energy that triggers the emotions from passing its feeling to the body. Secondly, you need to limit and control the mind from speaking unwanted content to the body like avoid your self from been distracted on the act of watching pornographic images, reading contents cotaining sexual tagged subject, and also blocking the mind from hearing unpleasant sounds. Finally, get a job by doing something that will distract the mind to think something else.

EXPLANATION

When having visual contact with the sexual content, it commands the mind to send its emotion to the body which makes it sexually active. In other words, the feeling makes the organsm rise in other to release a reproductive cell from the body.

Now:

We all know that masturbation occurs mostly on lonely times of the nite even in the day, its source of power that triggers the emotion is the human flesh. The human flesh is one of the most soft part on the body that has it own function. However, it is usually meant to be on the bed which gives it a soft, free and comfortable form of relaxation, due to the situation of masturbation you wont be lying on the bed, so as to reduce the the step one problem of masturbating.

STEPS

During bed time or when you are about to sleep, your bed space should be on a flat piece of material like a mat covered with some clothings like wrappers while lying your body on it moderately.

Reason - it seize a connection between the brain and the spinal cord allowing the body to be at rest to avoid any emotional arose feelings. Note that, you are in control of your own body to tell it what to do and what not to.

Minimize the use mobile phones or anything related in other to avoid browsering the internet, viewing pornographic videos and reading books containing sexual affairs. If possible, it will be more better to burn or hide them where you can't locate, find or see them to avoid distraction.

Reason - the object serves as a weapon against the body, giving it a strong weakness during sexual intercourse taking ones strength and feels in exchange of sexual pleasure. Also note that, the more you get addicted to it, the more weakness it generates, which also weakens the spirit from the body.

Without carrying any form of objects with you, get the mind busy with daily activities or events like getting a job, going for panics, visiting friends or even blogging to distract the mind from using the body.

Reason - it generates a sense of free mind to the body, spirit and soul regaining its urge, emotion, and wants for sexual needs.

IN CONCLUSION

It may take a very long time for one to leave the act of masturbating because the mind is a storage space that keeps and store every information the body offers either good or bad. In other to overcome masturbation, one needs to introduce the mind to something new that will rewrite and change its state of reasoning and what it does, and it is only by the grace of God you will leave it when you ask for his help and support.

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There's no manual or guide for a happy marriage...

Smiles!...my dear, there are guides you can come up with, and if you stick to it, you marriage will be one of a kind.

Marriage is the joining together of a man and a woman to become one union. Nowadays, marriage has turned into something else in the sight of every living being, where some believe and put it into practice, while others take it as a not compulsory courtship.


The Truth Is:

Marriage is compulsory and should be acknowledged. Even in the bible, it was stated that Jesus attended a wedding feast at cana. Read John Chapter 2 Verse 1 to12. For More Clarification.

Marriage can also be a bound between two couples in agreement to become one soulmate,

In the other way round, marriage can also be a complicated situation along the line, but at the end, you will find peace and unity within yourself, depending how you go about doing it.

Many people today have abandoned their marriage life for one reason or another, while others continues to remain patience, faithful, and loyal to themselves in the courtship of their marriage life.

Before taking a lip of faith into marriage, you should prepare your mind for any incoming task and also read its description before jumping into it. Please note that marriage is meant for mature and responsible people who are ready to take responsibilities of it.

80% percent of men today impregnate a woman, give her a place to stay in his apartment and later claim he is married to her!, is that marriage?, to me, I boldly say no.

At least, it will better for the man to go into a little process like paying for her bride price before thinking of taking her, and later on, if he is mature enough, you can allow marriage into the courtship.

Marriage has never been easy to tackle with, even from its word, it may sound simple, and if you have no clue of how it works, you will be tripped in the middle of nowhere and may end up calling it a day. Like i said earlier, it is only meant for mature and responsible people.

The courtship of marriage can be over emphasized due to its requirement for one to bare. marriage is all about you having the patience to understand, love, and support one another at any point in life, either in good or bad condition.

Generally, it is well known that every marriage applicant pass through a trail called - Dating, before thinking about getting married. This trial serves as a proof to show how mature and if they are really meant to be soulmates.

Normally, marriage can be processed in different ways, the common ones are: white, traditional and court marriage.

In some cases, before and after the marriage, there is always a conflict between both couple and their families in a disagreement between a matter arising situation on the bride's price, insufficient funds, or fighting for other related issues in other to spoil the name of the marriage in one way or another, and at the end of the conflict is either the couples go their own separate ways or call it a day with a divorce.

Here Is What To Do, In Other To Tackle Your Marriage Life.

First, invite the presence of God in other for him to guide you on what to do, so that your marriage can go well.

If you know that the relationship is going well and you think the both of you are compatible, make a step forward by asking her hand in marriage, believe me, she will be waiting to hear those words, and her answers is a YES. as a responsible and mature man, you should know its about time to take a second step by paying for her bride price, and make sure you settle every bills be for anything else, in other to avoid any further problems within the day of your marriage.

If you wish to take more further step, create time for the both of you to sit and discuss about how the marriage will be, and if possible, you can get the attention of those who has passed through the process of marriage and let them council and guide you about how it is and what to do in other to tackle your marriage life. You can also hire a counselor or someone you know that can guide you on how to start the marriage, you can also get the attention of your parents to guide you on it, because they were the one that knows how it was when they started theirs.

After that, make a list of what will be needed on the day of the D day, and also make a budget of how much will be needed for all the products and requirement, in other to avoid any incoming problems.

After the marriage the parents of both couple should assemble and give the couples all the blessings they need to live a happy married life and be prosperous in life and for the betterment of their union to be bound as one.

Note That:

On the D day, there is always a moment when some unexpected event occurs in other to spoil the marriage, so it is advised to hire some security service, in other to avoid any further problems.

In addition, it will be better to get married in private without notifying the public. because it is the only way to find peace, love, and unity within you and your to be married wife. because there are those who don't want to see you happy.

Most people don't know about this way of marriage, because it is not common. but it will be better to conduct your marriage life in your own way.

In Conclusion:

A marriage without the blessings and presence of God is totally useless, because with his presence, no form of confusion will come your way and it is advisable to put God first before taking any step into marriage.

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Blogging today has grown rapidly fast where thousands of people are so passionate of sharing their creativity. 

Blogging is an open source for sharing ones knowledge on a specific reason, it can be sharing true life stories, one's hubby, entertainment or either for fun. 

Nowadays in the sphere of blogging, 95 percent of bloggers focus their attention on making money from their blog, while others focus on the sharing aspect of useful information in other to help solve certain problems.

Globally, thousands of people today in the world are rapidly joining the community of bloggers, increasing it's size and growth so fast.

The daily increase of new bloggers has changed and also affect the weather climate of blogging poisoning the mindset of upcoming bloggers to give their attention for money leading them to exchange the creativity they posses for the love of money,  without notice, it has destroys and  affect them.

Blogging is a free platform of sharing ones mind freely. It requires passion, patience, attention and time. impatience, laziness, and lack of hard works are seen as a waste of time in the sphere of blogging.

One needs to apply the format of passion in other to build a relationship between the readers giving them the very possible attention they require to get from you, within a short time your progress in blogging will grow well. 

Note That:

Anything that will last longer, takes long. be patience in all what you do, Even a true farmer understand the needs of being patient supporting it with the laws of growth in knowing the time for seeding and harvesting. 

Growth is in inches and not in meters,  the higher it wish to go, the deeper down it must get. don't be in a hurry to see instant growth because you will all be disappointed. 

Have the patience to watch things grow, if you cant, it means you lack understanding. Even if you want profit, be patience, it's a principle, and never be decide or let anyone rush you into their own timeline of success, it destroys. 

A true blogger zero off his or her mind from making money on their blog. Instead, they take their time on writing something informative to heal the wounded part of the world, please note that.

Upcoming bloggers should blindfold the negative thinking's of their mind from getting the attention of making instant money from blogging. Instead, share out your knowledge of creativity in other to become a scriptural features in the sight of your own kinds.

Nothing is more greater than telling the truth you speak, it's like bringing out the original copy of your true self for others to capture the structure of you in becoming useful creatures in the future. Doing that alone will rewrite the history of man and the things within him.

Take a look at the era of blogging today, you will notice it is mostly crowded with entertainments and has risen lots of false messages among individuals. Some focus on the sharing gossips, gist, trending music and videos, while others focus on the sharing of news, stories, and educational information.

The Truth Is:

People nowadays are searching for transformation in other for them to grow, imagine someone reading your blog contents with the hope of feeding their minds with something to enlighten them of becoming useful beings but later realized that your content added no value in them, believe me, in t will pollute their sense of reasoning leading into a confused state. Why do you think people suffers today? it is the lack of support that prevents them from growing and has made them remain where they are today. 

When you cook a blog with informative contents it will help build a strong foundation within your readers and also spreading your messages around the world.

Suggestion

The only way to better up the community of blogging, one needs to generate the habit of writing something unique in other to share it with their readers and also help in solve certain problems among individuals.

Today, i urge every site, forum and blog owners and also online content writers to be original in writing and sharing informative topics that may help in one way or the other. my reference is to those who are popular and has been into online writing for years, other bloggers both new and old should take note of it.

In Conclusion

If this act is been conducted, believe me, every living being will have a story to tell and the future of the unborn ones will be in a perfected state, living in a world of free men.

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