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Family / Re: Tired Of My Marriage by Efughu: 8:11am On Jun 14, 2021
Relocate far away from them so that it won't be easy for them to stop by frequently. For instance, if you are staying in Surulere, and they live around that environs, you can relocate to Lakowe, Ibeju Lekki. You'll be able to reduce those visits by 85-90%.

Also have a discussion with your wife on the impact of the whole family influx into your home. You should be strategic so that it doesn't cause a civil war.

Good luck!

Ninobraw:
No need for a long story, I got married 2 yrs ago, during our friendship I mean courtship it was very sweet and lovely, we got married 2 yrs ago and I have 1 kid.

The problem I have is that, the girl's family come to greet almost every time and when they come they eat like elephant, anything eatable they eat it, they don't use eyes to see bread tea or butter in my room, they will finish it within a day, I will end up spending a lot during the time, when I noticed that it becomes offen i started telling my wife that I am broke, I don't have money. Although my wife is very nice she earns salary of 40k a month, and do funds and cook many times with her money.

Before now I was it okay, we are like a family, now i just realized that it is making me not think straight within a week oil and cooking things we bought will just finished the cartoon of indomitable that last the 2 of us before 1 month or month plus will just finish within 4 days of thier stay, some time 3 of her family will come once and another set will come again, my wife is the first daughter, the poor parents gave birth to 9 kids all in the name of looking for a boy, so she said although the 2 boys are number 7 and 9 position, her parents should be around man 60s and the woman 45yrs old. so now I am tired of the marriage, I don't know how to talk to my wife about it, that I don't like how thier family do come offend since we got married, my families has never come to sleep over in my place for a night talkless of spending holiday in my place my parents gave birth to only 3 of us 2 boys 1 girl.

Now i am just tired I can't be responsible for someone else burden why give birth to many kids and unable to train them, i plan to have only 2 or 3 kids only, and her family want to make me be like thier father sitting at home doing nothing depending on pension for survival, i have realized that I can't achieve what i should have achieved if i continue life this way.

Before our marriage, we agreed no family members is coming to stay with us, the issue now is they don't stay but come to eat and go, it's a big cheating to me I am tired for real, even if I say I don't have money and she use her own. The money should have be able to do other important thing . She spending is also affecting me a lot, we should have been able to buy land or car or live well, not feeding battalion. I am tired please I need advice on what to do.
Travel / Re: New Drone That Allows Humans Fly Launched (Photos, Video) by Efughu: 9:41am On May 23, 2021
The person on the drone should have some kind of a parachute
Manq:
hope the battery doesn't die anyhow. Like having a flat battery in air! The fall go dey funny.. like falling like a stone
Educational Services / Re: 2011 Utme E-registration With Fingerprint/biometric Scanner by Efughu: 7:45pm On Dec 01, 2010
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