masterpiecer:

yeah, true, but if he lies about it you wouldn't know

If he's pulling all kinds of crazy moves, lasts long or just seems like he knows what he's doing/not as nervous as you. Then yeah. You would know.

Erm your own virginity? I might be wrong here...just a guess.

Oh and being "real" is saying what you know NOT what you feel. It's also not an excuse to be an a**hole.

Maybe you should have made a new years resolution to not be d*ck...

It's really fine and dandy to have your own opinion but if you know that your opinion is going to hurt someone else you should most likely keep it to yourself...just a thought. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. Here's are my reasons why black women are attractive:

Black ages well (everyone knows that)
Natural curves (hips, breasts...ASS)
Natural teeth (white)
Inner strength (You're right historically the black woman has been looked down on...have they cracked? No.. they keep it stepping...if it was a white woman they'll be on all sorts of pills and antidepressants...they have a tenacity that is unparalleled.
Black skin hides imperfections (compare both races with or without makeup)
Ride or die (the good ones will be there no matter what.. they are used to adversity they will push you to the top...shoutout to Michelle Obama one time
Ambitious (In reality..In US they are more successful than their make counterparts).
Good mothers(discipline, morals and most of all love)
They can cook
They put in down in bedroom (I don't know you're talking about..I doubt you've slept with every single black girl out there)

With all this being said..I'm not discounting the white woman's beauty. . I see beauty in all races..i'm not small minded or racist.

I have to say I'm really disappointed...I mean like I said..everyone has their preferences but you don't need to tear other people down who don't fall in line with that. Especially black women who have historically been looked down on and treated as animals...many of whom have self esteem issues...hence the trying to look like a white person. Why won't they when their own men don't support and stand up for them..they call them bitches and hoes and portray them as whores in the music industry.. why won't other races be turned off. Your mother is a black woman I mean that's just downright disrespectful. Clearly she did a shitty job raising you. Let me just finish in saying that black men are the only race that do not defend their women...not only that they are the only ones that tear them down. It's a real shame..the other races do notice. It makes you look like fools...then again that's what they wanted disunity prevents progression doesn't? Just wanted to give you a piece of my mind since you have so clearly lost yours.

Now hang your head in shame because it's close minded people that make this world a darker place.

I think she's funny, lmao

Truth is we all have our own struggles and demons we face daily. Don't be so hard on each other...

Errmm. If that happened a divorce would be the next thing. Why would you allow him to break the marriage covenant, lol. That makes no sense and its very stupid to excuse it..he signed a marriage contract, once that is broken the contractis now null and void. Also, why would I expose my self to the various STDs and skn diseases that are going around..when I'm not mad. What kind of an example does that set for your children...they see...they judge. Absolutely ludicrous! If he can't understand how sacred marriage is then there are more serious men out there.I wonder what would happen if it was the wife looking or an escort or fling..hmm?

I'm not surprised. They;re just messing around give em a couple of years...months even..teenagers..its not that big of a deal as long as they dont actually go through with hurting anyone..its just a phase