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I think the reason is because guys are decietful. They have become so decietful that girls don't know who to believe anymore. They cannot defferentiate the good ones from the bad. They don't do it intentionally. While trying to avoid the bad guys, they fall directly into their arms. It's a pity, may Jah help us (Girls).

This situation can be changed, or girls can be helped to pick the right guys only if they, stop decieving girls. In so doing, when someone that is real comes around, she'll know what to do with him.

Thank you

mbazunu, you are right.

Bibi:
oh boy, I don't think this needs to be argued. This is a thin line between blasphemy and glorifying the devil.

Bibi, this is no blasphemy, neither is it a way of glorifying the devil. It's obvious that the world lying in the power of the wicked one (satan). In the portion i quoted earlier (John 12:31, 13:40, 16:11), the ruler of the world is to be cast out. That same ruler has no hold on Jesus. Isn't it obvious that Jesus is not talking about Jehovah here? Think about that Bibi and some others who think the ruler of the world is GOd.

dablessed:
I believe there is life after death.

Layi has practically said it all! Welldone!

If there is life after death, how would you explain what is said in these Bible portions? Ecclesiastes 9:5 and 10 and Genesis 3:19?

Many people would answer the above question with a single word—God. But significantly, nowhere does the Bible say that either Jesus Christ or his Father are the real rulers of this world. On the contrary, Jesus said: "The ruler of this world will be cast out." And he added: "The ruler of the world is coming. And he has no hold on me."—John 12:31; 14:30; 16:11.

There is no need to guess at the matter, for the Bible clearly shows that an intelligent, unseen person has been controlling both men and nations. It says: "The whole world is lying in the power of the wicked one." And the Bible identifies him, saying: "The one called Devil and Satan . . . is misleading the entire inhabited earth."—1 John 5:19; Revelation 12:9.

Let's consider a few points which shows that satan is the ruler of this world.

Point one, In the Bible book of Matthew 4:8-10, Satan the devil showed Jesus all the glories of the world and promised to give it to Jesus if he worship him. Think about this. would Satan had offered Jesus "all the kingdoms of the world" if the world is not his? No, he would not.

Point two, in the Bible book of 2Corinthians 4:4, we were told that the "god" of this system of this has blinded the mind of unbelievers so that they might not know Jehovah

Point three, Remember that Satan had been an angel created by God, but he became envious of God's position. He challenged God's rightful rulership. To this end he used a serpent as a mouthpiece to deceive the first woman, Eve, and was thus able to get her and her husband, Adam, to do his bidding rather than obey God. (Genesis 3:1-6; 2 Corinthians 11:3) He also claimed he could turn all of Adam and Eve's yet unborn offspring away from God. So God allowed time for Satan to try to prove his claim, but Satan has not succeeded.—Job 1:6-12; 2:1-10. With him ruling the world today are some of the angels he decieved from heaven down to the vicinity of the earth.

Do you believe Satan is the ruler of the world?

Well, it's a kind o weired to date someone I'm taller than. At least let us be of thesame height instead of me being taller. I hate the thought that I'm going to get married to some I'm taller than.

It wouldn't surprise you that tall guys also go for tall girls, I wonder what they want with tall girls when they are already tall. What has somebody got to say to that. I mean, isn't it supposed to be mixed up, (tall guy short girl)?

[right]One thing about these guys is that they use the same set words all the time. Some of them even go as far as promising marriage when they have no intentions to do so. Even in their first year in school.....so funny huh. Can anyone tell me how possible this could be? Sometimes I wonder, what do they take us (girls) for?

keep it coming please, i'm enjoying all your posts. I like being myself shah......

Do not be hasty in these three: Marriage, Business and Travel. Do not waste these three: Time, Money, Energy · Like these three: Kindness, Sympathy and Cordiality · Hate these three: Injustice, Pride and Unfaithfulness · Love these three: Bravery, Gentility and Affection. Leave these three: Laziness, Too much talk, Hurried Judgment · Value these three: Intelligence, Ability and Happiness · Control these three: Temper, Desire and Tongue...

thank you hot-angel. more post please

Which level...............

Be cool............. guys, I just wanted to find out if there is any Jehovah's Witness in the forum, I didn't say you should question me about my believes. In any case, you can send me a private message if you have any question(s). I'll answer them with the aid of the Bible. Thank you

hello people,

Take it easy with me. I didn't say my definition of flirting was correct, did I? That is how I view it and I expected you to give your own opinion.

Well.................hmmmmmmmm I think to flirt means to date someone when there is no intention of getting married to such person. It can also be reffered to as 'fling'. To toil with someone's heart, knowing quite well things will not work out between you and such a person.

That's what I think.

Ladies and Gentlemen, what is the meaning of Flirting?

Should I start?

Jehovah's witnesses, please introduce yourselves. I am one of Jehovah's witnesses. Ask me for more information. Hope to read from you soon.

Cheers!

"Pinky":
So they say, but ejiro listen, when one starts to think like that, it's called selfishness. Most ladies say it because they think they will be comfortable in a relationship where the guy cares for them & they don't. It's all because they think they can easily drop the guy when we're fed up without being hurt

Dont be surprised guys also say it's better for the girl to love the guy (when he does not love her) all this re said as a result of selfishness & insecurity on the parts of males & females.

Pinky, in this case, who is said to be selfish among them? Is it the person that Loves or the one that doesn't love

Dablessed, thanks alot for cheering us up. It's really nothing to worry about.

I'd like to read your own story, do you mind?

Seun,

I honestly cannot tell you why i did that. I was not experienced, besides, someone once told me that it is the love of the guy that matters (it's better for the guy to love the gurl than for the gurl to love the guy when he does not love her) Like I said, I thought my feelings for him would change as I got to know him.

You are right about something here Seun, I know have lost so many chances of meeting my mr. right but I'm sure by the grace of God that it's not too late.

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laide, i feel so much for you oooo. Cheer up gurl. If he can tell you that, then he doesn't deserve you. Why cry over him, he's not worth it. I know you love him but you have to move on, it's not the end of the world. A guy like that is not deserve to be loved by any woman. He's so cruel. Forget him please........think about what you are doing to yourself.

I pray that Almighty God gives you the strength to move on. cheers!!!

Read......................and say something

We started quite well. The first few months were worth the sacrifice. It was my first relationship. I didn't love him at first, but because I wanted the relationship to work out, I gave my all, I believed I was going to love him someday. My family knows him, they know his intentions as well.

Premarital sex was completely ruled out. After about 15 months, he started requesting for sex, I politely turned him down. Then comes suspicion, distrust. He thought I was cheating on him. He watches every step I take, he checks my mails, chat with my friends to see if there is anything serious going on between me and my chat pals. I was still holding on thinking he would grow up.

You know what his problem was? Because I refused to have sex with him, he thought I didn't love him, he got too wild for me to handle. He pushed me to the wall. He called me names on a particular day; that was the day I decided to put an end to this hell of a relationship. Afterall, I'm not crazy about him, why should he push me that far? I told him to keep off me, that I needed sometime to figure out some things, that was how I ended it all up.

He still wants me back, even uptil now, but if you ask me, Hell No!!! Going back would mean ruining my dream of having a happy family life.

I'm very much afraid now to go into a relationship because I don't want to come across some body like that in my life again, ever ever........

Any advise for me...............

hi felas, it's good to get connected with you guys. The name is E-j-y-r-o. I joined this forum for about a week now. I have really enjoyed my stay here, keep it coming. I can be reached on blakbuty4luv@yahoo.com. Seun, I want you to welcome me.

dablessed, those are wonderful tips. What if he/she passes all the text and dumps you at the end? I know some go extra miles to get what they actually want, it's usually common with guys.

What I have to say is that love is sweet and bitter at thesame time. When you don't make the right choices of who you love, you end up in so much pains, although I will not dispute the fact that good relationships still have pains sometimes.

I think we all are matured enough to make the right choices and not give in to any 'jerk' according to shockreaction.

Guys also feel the pains of love, everyone does, except the love isn't there in the first place. Anyway, this advise goes to both girls and guys, "BE CAREFUL" watch out, look before you leap. Spend alot of time with a guy/girl, know the kind of person he/she is before going into anything serious with him/her. so that at the end, you don't blame anyone! ciao

Ejyro - well, i don't see anything wrong in dating a colleague. As rightly commented by tayotina, one's life partner can be found anywhere, even in a bus while travelling. If it leads to marriage in the end, then praise be to God, and even if one of couple have to loose his or her job, it's ok. Provided you already have a good gift from God.

Hi, This is Ejyro!!! I think it is abnormal for a girl to ask a guy out. You know why, it's because a solid relationship can not be built in that way. Its thesame thing as a girl going to ask for a guy's hand in marriage and that is not done in our society today.

If a guy loves a girl, it's better for him to walk up to her and be the man. That is exactly why he is the man. He shouldn't expect the woman to make moves before he does. I for my part will never, ever toast a guy no matter how much I love him. That's what I think.