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All those father of three na be youngest squad?..naija don't start to de mumu demself again. By the way where chrisantos?

baralatie:
sorry but you can't nail a hot chick

Lol ..OK..u win! ..I can't.

baralatie:
describe a woman beautifully!

Sorry son! CNT help you with that.

That's the job of your literature teacher.

baralatie:
once again you can't describe a woman's body.it is a big issue,be frank do you have problem hitting on hot chicks with assets like glowy skin,bosoms that catch your eyes and a back side that make you swerve!

You can describe a woman's beauty without conjuring sexual imagery.

And no..i dont hav problem hitting on beautiful women.

baralatie:
once again you can't describe a woman's body.it is a big issue,be frank do you have problem hitting on hot chicks with assets like glowy skin,bosoms that catch your eyes and a back side that make you swerve!

You can describe a woman's beauty we without conjuring sexual imagery.

And no..i dont havr problem hitting on beautiful women.

baralatie:
don't tell me you have a problem describing a woman's body.
it proves a lot why you have a problem with beautiful women.

I don't have problem with beautiful women!
But go back and read ur post, but this time very slowly. Take time to study the areas of the body you subconsciously mentioned, you will see why I called you out as a "perve"

baralatie:
clear!

what is gloowingly clear,is that you have an issue with women!

that is hoooot,very beautifuuul,young looking women with those hot cup size breast,tasting tongues and baaad bakassi.

na woman she be!like I told a colleague,it is either you can nail her or you go making stories why you can't nail her.(talking marriage wise)


it is no big deal!


I think you are afraid you can't step up to nail a hot 25 year old outright damn hot and gorgeous Lady with assets.

Nothing is "glowing clear"!

What's is glowing clear is that you are a "
"perve"

That's why you cannot make even a simple example without reference to body parts!

baralatie:
this guy is beefing a hot girl getting married!
this guy just blow lie about beauty!
wwwhhhaaaaaaattttt!

oooooohhhhhhhj!
you jealous dude!

seriously!!!

No broda not beefing or lieing.

I sit with my father every now so often. He tells me stuff, and whatever he tells me about life and women always seem different from what I hear whenever I sit with my age grade. Difficult to reconcile both.
Its difficult to criticise this day without coming off as an hater.

This are public figures now and whatever they do have social consequences. If you do not criticize it someone else will pick it up..and another... And so on...

Before you know everyone is doing it, and suddenly its OK!

Am critizing the act itself, not the persons involve please let's be clear.

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Moana:
you called me an old lady so i don't see why my comment become a problem again?

and some women will not settle for porverty, they would rather be in love and still afford trips to Paris the same way you would rather be in love and still have someone flaunt by your side.

A mature man is not always looking for a beautiful woman to flaunt. A real woman gains her beauty as time pass by. Once you understand what a woman is to you or has become to you, you would flaunt her anyway no matter weather she is ugly or not.

Permit me to add here that to me, Beauty is a much more abstract concept to relate to. It can be expanded or contracted depending on the context. Hence we say beauty is in the eyes of the boholder. If one is to relate to beauty, its advisable that one does not only do so from a physical perspective. It speak volume of one levels of reasoning/spirituality when they can only relate to the material(outside).

That's why we say most men/women are not mature (mentally/spiritual) for marriage because they tend to relate more with the outside.

This might surprise you, but marriage is a much more spiritual affair than it is a physical thing. That's why we say it a joining of souls. Again not everyone is ready for it.

Moana:
would you marry the most ugly girl (with a great personality) in your area just to prove that marriage is about love?

Love is not one of the things a relationship needs, its the only thing a relationship needs..money becomes boring, looks fade..but love...

Now abide this is three things; faith, hope and love_but the greatest is love.

I won't marry an ugly girl, but I certainly won't set out looking for a pretty one either. I think am way pass looks for ssrz relationship.

Moana:
would you marry the most ugly girl (with a great personality) in your area just to prove that marriage is about love?

Am glad you were the one that brought up the age thing. For making 35_38..what more can I say ..but amen.

I won't set outrightly to look for an ugly girl..no!
But

Moana:
you look 35-38 and that would make me 11-14yrs younger than you Uncle Ekemini let girls marry whoever they want to marry. It is not your cross to carry. A poor man marrying a rich woman is not seen as greed, rather u will say that the woman knows the real meaning of love but if a poor woman marries a rich men you will bash her till kingdom come. Why cant you mind your own business? Or you want these women to marry you instead and leave all these ogas to sleep alone at night?

I see now why am struggling to get my point across.
Thanks.

MizMyColi:


Beyond the fun we caught chanting those parlances.

With the recent turn of events, I am forced to reckon with Madam PEJ.

Her voice re-echoes.
Could it be that there was a clandestinely planned attempt by the elite forces behind the terrorist org to drown this woman's voice, and the salient irregularities she uncovered that day?
Through a massive smear campaign on social media as it pertains her choice of words and mannerisms?

Could we have been willing puppets back then?
Heu!
I weep for Africa.


Hate her.
Love her.
Like her.

PEJ can be likened to a rock of Gibraltar.
A Forte.
An Amazon in a class of her own.

Blaze on ma.
Get better.
Posterity never forgets.

Bros wetin be all this na..what if I struggle to sleep because of all this your grammer eh??

Moana:
issokay shame will not let you admit it.

You be very funny old mama!..lol

Y i go shame to admitted?
Even Chris brown was at one point rejected by what's DT craze girl name sef?...riri!

na come me_ ordinary mortal.
Abeg no let me laugh, I de turn soup.

Moana:
th same way they have been doing it since

Eya! Poor you!
Well I CNT say I have not been rejected..but then again I can't say I noticed!

Moana:
Make they keep rejecting you and keep marrying those your father and grandfather's age olodo!

Reject me..How?

ceeceeuwa:
Remove Your Pics From Your Profile First, So You Wnt Lose The Woman You Claim You Love. How Sure Are You She Is Not On Nairaland?

Forget the pic!

He's trying to come out. He's not the one that needs to feel ashamed but that devil!

If that woman truel loves him, now is the time to prove it.
#stand by her man#

Its purely spiritual. Nothing natural about it from a christian angle. I recommend you go to the scoan.
That's were I got my deliverance.

This modern church are too busy with intellectual stuff to know that people are struggling with of spirits lust, pornography/masturbation.

How many times do you see people giving testimony about being free from the spirits of masturbation in all this modern churches?. But check their handset....

That's why I worship here..cus this spirits are constantly shame here by testimonies.
Sometime all you need is a true testimony of a fellow addict that your spirit can relate to and your free.
Try it! God be with you.

Moana:
wait so, these women are greedy because they are the ones who ask the men to marry them abi? Arent you the same people who always tell women not to dismiss their suitors anyhow? When they do you call them foolish! When they are over 30 and single you call them old cargo, but when they accept Oshiomhole's proposal you shout greedy!
Leave them alone and face your own life

I CNT argue with you, cus it will be sought of like parking in an handicap spot. Just wont feel right!

I guess all I can do right now is wish you all the best in this mental/ psychological challenge that has place such a huge demand on you.

pinkiberry:
what if the woman rily loved him? is it cos she is white,pls lets not encourage racism

Their is no racism there. To me the main reason she was not tag the name a action truely deserve d was because of Cheer curtsey Of her foreign status.

Trust me if it was one of our own, it would have been worst

pinkiberry:
what if the woman rily loved him? is it cos she is white,pls lets not encourage racism

Did you just ask that in all honesty.
I think love is gradually having a new meaning.

Can you for once pretend not everyone in society is stupid?

To think oshomole further rub insult on our collective sensibility by calling her out as a virgin.

To me how do a principle lady like that save up her virginity for an old man like osho, lol it must be really love.

Don't always give into your greed; for in trying to gain more, one might actually be selling themselves less.

sylaz:
The only thing I find disturbing is that not a single girl finds it disturbing compared to guys where some are for and others against.

If it disturbing you, its a gud thing..it means your sense of morality is still in tact.

This whole event reveals further where we stand as society
Morally.

Z8:
You mention "wrong" twice now! Yet you can't explain what is wrong in what she did

OK since you want my explanation here it is.
Assuming you understand that we live in a "society"
And in a society, even though we are free to make our own decision, those decision/our choice we make tell a story of some sought that people read thereby informing their own decisions/choices.

Her personal preference allows her to make her own decisions, but because of the kind of message it send to young adult in society, it will be better to condem it. If you say nothing is wrong with that, then ask yourself in all honesty would you give out your sister to an older man like oshomole in marriage?
Governor or not.

Chew on this also.. cases of "aristos" Dating young ladies, why do you think this Phenomenons keep gathering momentum by the day?. Well its simple, because by not condemning an act openly, we are indirectly collective approving it. Of course one can take the easy road, by arguing that its her body and its his money. But that does not stop it from being wrong morally.

Finally their is something called collective conscience which every member of society shares. It tells us what's right from what's not.

On a lighter note sha, if you fail to see anything wrong in this act, then don't be surprise if it soon become a trend in your society.Trust our money miss road politicians and desperate girls.

Z8:
In the words of a wise man.. "Why you dey vex, why you dey vex, is it your money, is it your money ?" .

I never said that's is love, I said she did nothing wrong. Would you marry a girl face like burnt tyre? The gal don find "financial security". As a man you look for a "good" wife so you have a "secure family" How is that any different?

Who come tell you say I de vex?
Naija no de ever see anything wrong weh money involve.

[quote author=Z8 post=33935433]In the words of a wise man.. "Why you dey vex, why you dey vex, is it your money, is it your money ?" .

I never said that's is love, I said she did nothing wrong. Would you marry a girl face like burnt tyre? The gal don find "financial security". As a man you look for a "good" wife so you have a "secure family" How is that any different? [/quot

Z8:
Bros that girl did not nothing wrong.

De here make pant de wear u!
Whenever "money" is mentioned ur likes of couse would loose their sense of sound judgement

If it was western press, they would have had the courage to tag it for what it truly is..because of the massage it sends out to the society.

Unlike you and your media who seem to be deficient in all things that lends character and sound judgment

#celebration of love indeed#

I just de imagine all the guys weh done pluck this chick banga before, omo! Dem Go laugh drink pour for their white.

190theclown:
This Oshomole is one of the MOST foolish man to ever grace Nigerian soil

I wonder why people still regard him as a govenor

after he don finish benin girls he stands there saying his wife is a virgin

what or who is he trying to brag to.

I just dont understand people at times.

And finally why on earth would he buy a private jet for his wife family with which money?

The roads in edo state are not safe, No Jobs, No water, No light!!

yet a private JET

Make God just don come sef cos this world don tire all man

No mind the old hag! Him de there de preach corruption like clown, forgetting say action speak louder.

mirexxx:
hian! so no grown up female can be a virgin anymore I hate the way some of you reason jare

Lol they can, but not this kind one weh fit marry him papa Age for money.

What's the use of saving up your virginity for an old man?

Z8:
Please what is wrong with her action? educate us oh biko

There's nothing to educate. At certain age is either you know or you don't.