The lady in question has acted disrespectfully and no man would take her seriuously if that's a behavior she puts up often. Every man wants to be respected.

Thanks for this great info. You should have just dropped the names of the Korean companies. The link you provided isn't opening.

Ok noted. I'm sorry about that . I said 'interested'. He approached her and asked her out for a relationship that would lead to marriage. She hasn't given him a reply because of these factors...she feels it could work but her fears are stopping her from trying. Is it worth a try?

@ Candy, thanks for your contribution. If u read up the thread, you'd see where I stated that this guy expressed his interest in her. He proposed! When I listen to her, I can hear and see her fears maybe cos I'd feel d same fears too as a single lady. This guy is not a bad person from all I've learnt, but u see fear has a way of crippling one from doing things,which in this case is giving this guy a chance. I do not want to fuel her fears in as much as I understand them, and I don't want to give her any wrong counsel...this is a friend to friend gist that she doesn't talk about much. So, I threw it open here on nairaland, to get some help esp from married people here. I don't think there's any harm in that.

Candy, please throw more light. Things like what?

Bellong, you are not helping either. Of course a woman must support her husband in every way that she can but is d man ready to support d woman in this case? Or will his ego get in the way and suddenly remind him that he's d man of the house? For instance, when a woman brings in more money, it's not an issue but when the man has to help out with some other stuff like say house chores when the woman is not available, it appears on the headlines (big issue). So what would u advise? This person needs help, so if you have any, offer it. Don't be harsh.

Bellong, speaking from a woman's view, I think it may be too much for her to handle. If a woman is going to be the bread winner of a home, carry pregnancies and bring forth children, wouldn't it be too much a load for her? Would it b just as easy to submit to your husband under these conditions?

Jon Tal: NO!!!!!! Marriage is something young people don‘t appreciate how complex it is. An 18yr old who is still a boy should not be burdened or burden himself with the responsibilities that come with marriage. If you insist on marrying him you must wait until he is at least 25 by which time you will be 33( if you fancy that) but, even at that it is still daisy. You also suggested that you intend to carry the family by yourself. Again, this is a tactic by women that backfires most of the time.

The girl is 28 the guy is 10 years older. That means he is 38 but the girl earns more...

What other information do u need? The girl is 10 years younger than the guy. She earns more than the guy...do u think it is advisable for her to consider this guy? They aren't dating yet but the guy is interested in her. Would she be acting in pride if she declines, or will it be foolishness to accept him?

Would you advise a young woman of 28 to marry a man who is 10 years older and who earns far lower than she does?

Be careful what u say of God's servant. If he has failed in anyway only God can judge. Now, even if JESUS CHRIST himself had come down from heaven 2 warn OBJ, he wouldn't have listened. He 's hardened. Abt the man's private jet, u think it's only thieves n politicians dt deserve good things? Those of u talkin abt charity works, u don't do such and blow ur own trumpet. Whether as a pastor or as an ordinary man, Pastor Adeboye is respected and honoured by many because GOD has decided it and ur lying tongues cannot change that. So please, go and be relevant in ur own little world, and stop pulling down others.