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Politics › Re: Workers On GL 12, Below Should Not Resume – FG Warns Ministers, Agency Heads by ellamines(f): 9:47am On Feb 02, 2021

CORRUPTION!

Lol!

tivereegega:
Mathematics questions.

If C is found in
CBN,
NNPC,
PHC,
NDDC,
NCDC and
APC
what is C

Politics › Re: What Is The Security Situation Of Things In Your Area Today? by ellamines(f): 12:32pm On Oct 23, 2020

jumper524:
kuje abuja has always been peacefull except difficulty for workers going to work. protesters blocked the way.

don't know the situation for today .

Even today? Please what part of the road was blocked?

Family › Re: My Wife Won't Cook For Our Guests. Please Advise Me by ellamines(f): 9:52pm On Sep 03, 2020

@Op, I honestly don't think your wife is saying no without a good reason. Were her efforts appreciated the last time you hosted? Are there some unresolved issues between you two currently? Find out and address them.

Family › Re: How Did You Feel After Your First Child? by ellamines(f): 11:35am On May 27, 2020

I couldn't sleep! I was so full of joy and kept looking at her..."Gosh! Is this flawless beauty mine huh

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Family › Re: Wife Trying To Ruin My Career Within A Few Months Of Arriving Abroad by ellamines(f): 7:14pm On May 23, 2020

God bless you!

[quote author=Luckymama
post=89558267]@ OP, a lot of women endure maltreatment from their husbands in Nigeria because they have no choice I.e they are dependent financially and have to take it. That they continue to accept maltreatment doesn’t mean they have no feelings. The macho inconsiderate way a lot of husbands treat their wives kills whatever love the women may have had. A lot of them are just waiting patiently until situation change.

That’s why for example you will find old couples where the wife has abandoned her husband and is permanently living with one of her children. Now when he is old and needs his wife’s company she has no feelings for him and doesn’t need him anymore since her children can now take care of her.

Same situation you are in. You killed your wife’s feelings for you with your behavior in Nigeria and now she feels she doesn’t need you and so it’s payback time.

The only thing you can do is explain to her that in the first place you don’t have your papers yet so she has not yet “arrived.” Secondly, sincerely beg her forgiveness and make efforts to make amends for your behavior. We women are still quite soft. You won her heart once, you can win it again. Set to woo her the way you did before you got married. Hopefully she will forgive and forget and be ready to build a home with you.

And in case it’s a fake story, well men should note that we never forget the maltreatment. We just bide our time. So always treat your woman right.[/quote]

Family › Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by ellamines(f): 11:08pm On Sep 29, 2019

GOD BLESS YOU REAL GOOD!!!

frozen70:
Every one will feel she has gotten some one that does it better

I feel that staying away for so long would have killed the urge and maybe you guys have been having arguments about certain issues that need to be solved and you are not heading there

That aslo can kill the urge

Until you get home, taken it gentle on her and she will come back to her normal self

Women attach emotions to sex and unti its slove, your desire to sex means nothing to her

Foreign Affairs › Re: Donald J Trump Declares Second Term Bid! by ellamines(f): 8:18am On Jun 19, 2019

May her soul rest in peace... It'll take a while but you'll be healed. This is the 8th year since my Mum departed and I still remember her so fondly. Still see her in my dreams... We were so so close.

starbuck:
Their business we have our own problem to deal with here in Nigeria

Fellow landers, please say a prayer for my mom as today made it 8 months she departed , I was so attached to her that I still can't let her go

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Jokes Etc › Re: BankyGee's Funny Jokes And Riddles Thread by ellamines(f): 10:34am On Jun 04, 2019

NOISE

BankyGee:
RIDDLE ME THIS

What is that thing that when you remove an eye is left with only a nose?

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Jokes Etc › Re: BankyGee's Funny Jokes And Riddles Thread by ellamines(f): 10:30am On Jun 04, 2019

"NOISE"
quote author=BankyGee post=78959567]RIDDLE ME THIS undecided

What is that thing that when you remove an eye is left with only a nose? undecided

[/quote]

Crime › Re: We Had Sex But No Penetration - Doctor Accused Of Raping Patient Says by ellamines(f): 10:43pm On Mar 27, 2019

Inconclusive Sex.

Bewiseedet:
What kind of sex is that.

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Politics › Re: Nigerian Aircraft Overloaded With Cash Collapses by ellamines(f): 9:10pm On Feb 20, 2019

True, that's only a picture and doesn't give off enough details. This happened last Friday at the airport, just behind my office. It may be hard to believe but sadly, this is very true. It's really embarrassing.

Olawalesmarter:
i'm not that stupid, and only an idiot will believe that picture. Many people have think too low of Nigerians and believe will lack sense of Reasoning, that's why they throw every cheap things at us for Propaganda.

Politics › Re: Nigerian Aircraft Overloaded With Cash Collapses by ellamines(f): 11:00am On Feb 20, 2019

Bros, I'm telling you authoritatively that it's cash. That is Nnamdi Azikiwe International Airport,
Abuja. This happened a day before the previously cancelled election.

Olawalesmarter:
How did they know it was Cash that was inside the Plane? Are Nigerians really this stupid ?

Family › Re: Ethnicity Difference: Should I Stay Or Just Move On Already?? by ellamines(f): 10:00pm On May 22, 2017

Hello fellow NLs, am at a cross road here....I have been dating this Igbo guy for over 5yrs now, am Yoruba tho but we both didn't see it as a barrier what matters to us is the love and connection between us.....he is well known by my family and accepted too but the problem is his parents...his brothers and sisters are indifferent about it...but his parents frowns against any of them marrying outside Igbo...his kid sis is over 30 and still single cos of this issue.

[b]
Wont I be treated like an outcast?? [/b]My kids?? Whose MIL or FIL doesn't show up for their son's wedding?? She won't show up for my 'omugwo'??

A part of me thinks I can handle the situation, but then another part is asking me to move on.

Words of advice pls....I really love this guy

Hmmm! It's really funny how I stumbled upon this thread that is just a exactly what I experienced too.

My dear, I hurt like mad and thought I was going to die cos I loved him too.

Our stories may not end up the same way but I'm still going to share with you what I did:

1) I moved on after dating him for 5 years
2) I prayed for divine Healing and Grace to move on
3) I told myself I wasn't going to put him under any pressure of having to choose between me and his family
4) I didn't want to end up being a desperate unhappy daughter in law who would seek tirelessly to please her inlaws. I deserved better than that. Every good woman deserves happiness in her home.
5) He (my ex) wasn't exactly a 'fighter', his Dad was headstrong about it and told him point blank he would not be a part of it. Now, did I really want to strain his relationship with his family? NO!
6) I had to tell myself some truth... There are many good men, infact better men. If after praying and crying for this one, we're still 'jamming rock' from his end, then GOD must have far better plans for me.
7) I ensured I harboured no bitterness against him or family. Forgiveness is key if you must move on.
cool

I didn't let their rejection tamper with my self esteem. I am a strong beautiful Igbo woman. If Benin will not accept me, it's by no means my headache. My Creator did the best job on me, no one was going to make me think different

Few years down the line, I am married to the most wonderful man in the world. Honestly, words can't describe.

So Sweetheart, fight till your fist bleed, give it all you got but when push gets to shove, pick up your wonderful self and prayerfully move on to where your Man will pick you without hassles. And when you do, don't be in a haste to date again. Take time to heal, pray, work on being a better woman.

God bless you.

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Celebrities › Re: Banky W And Adesua Etomi With Their Twins On Set Of "The Wedding Party 2" by ellamines(f): 4:37pm On May 22, 2017

ShawttySoFyne:
When bloggers have finished giving us info on the best part of the movie
What is there to watch again?

Nne ehn, I was just wondering the same thing here. Hia!

Celebrities › Re: Joe Praize Gets Engaged To His Girlfriend (Photos) by ellamines(f): 1:24pm On May 22, 2017

RealSleek:
Please someone explain to me. .why do they alwys act surprised. .liked they dont know whats coming??..why always this acting now..cant they act normal and just accept the damn ring without any drama..

its either they cover their nose asif somebody mess or they turn use their hand to fan their face..copy copy drama queens

My brother, God bless you o! Same thing I ask myself?

Politics › Re: Deola Sagoe Designs Halima Babangida's Wedding Gown (Photos) by ellamines(f): 3:18pm On May 18, 2017

One word for this gown - UGLY!!!

Romance › Re: Women!!! Watch Out For These 6 Types Of Side Chicks That Steal Husbands by ellamines(f): 2:04pm On Apr 18, 2017

Joavid:
What's up with that attached picture op?

^^side chics will read this and still comment.
Side chics are women not ghosts.

Don't be bothered about side chics. a man that will stray, will stray.

That is just it!

Family › Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by ellamines(f): 11:42am On Apr 12, 2017

ellamines:
Very sad. She is taking out her bad experiences on you. Very sadistic momma.

Very Sad and sadistic indeed. I just weak.

Family › Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by ellamines(f): 11:41am On Apr 12, 2017

ellamines:
U want another strong lady to be cooking for her husband? What is making her weak 2 days after delivery? I am a Doc and i know thats an embarassingly stupid excuse! [/b]What happened to employing a helper as part of preparation for the "challenges ahead"? [b]The only problem here is the attitude of ladies of nowadays. Apparently the real women are long dead. Our grand mothers wer never like this.

Doctor, are you a male or female? If you're female, have you had any baby? Do you know how it feels to bring forth a child? Have you had or seen an episiotomy? Even without an Episiotomy, doing any work 2 days after delivery is rather harsh. Haba! Did you see your grandmother 2 days after delivery? Or you're speaking based on gist you were given. And oh! There are still real women. I am one of them.

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Family › Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by ellamines(f): 11:41am On Apr 12, 2017

Very sad. She is taking out her bad experiences on you. Very sadistic momma.

Very Sad and sadistic indeed. I just weak.

Family › Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by ellamines(f): 11:39am On Apr 12, 2017

U want another strong lady to be cooking for her husband? What is making her weak 2 days after delivery? I am a Doc and i know thats an embarassingly stupid excuse! [/b]What happened to employing a helper as part of preparation for the "challenges ahead"? [b]The only problem here is the attitude of ladies of nowadays. Apparently the real women are long dead. Our grand mothers wer never like this.[/quote]Doctor, are you a male or female? If you're female, have you had any baby? Do you know how it feels to bring forth a child? Have you had or seen an episiotomy? Even without an Episiotomy, doing any work 2 days after delivery is rather harsh. Haba! Did you see your grandmother 2 days after delivery? Or you're speaking based on gist you were given. And oh! There are still real women. I am one of them.

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Family › Re: What Are Your Major Challenges As A First-time Parent? by ellamines(f): 10:20pm On Apr 11, 2017

It feels like almost everything in my life revolves around the child. When I hear her let out even a small cry, all of my all my senses are on alert. After all I go through to keep her satisfied and comfortable, her smile is my biggest reward. It's worth it. kiss

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Celebrities › Re: Beyonce & Her Twin Boys, 3 Years From Now (Edited Photo) by ellamines(f): 8:52am On Feb 03, 2017

:l love this song like kilode!

[/quote][quote author=femi4 post=53372966]Lol...Beyonce singing to the kids:

Hold up, they don't love you like I love you

Slow down, they don't love you like I love you

Back up, they don't love you like I love you

Step down, they don't love you like I love you

Celebrities › Re: Omotola Blasts Lagos Government And PHCN by ellamines(f): 7:13pm On Apr 02, 2016

She said it is "One of " the biggest frauds NOT the biggest like you have misunderstood.

TippyTop:
I beg to differ, the biggest fraud in Nigeria is not PHCN but APC.

PHCN didn't promise 24hr electricity, APC did, get your acronyms right madam.

Ngeneukwenu come and see IPOD madam blaming PHCN..

Fashion › Re: Rate This My Picture And The Tailor That Sewed the cloth? by ellamines(f): 9:54am On Feb 12, 2016

skarlett:
All d sun wey full the material sha

Sunshine Morrocco! grin

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Family › Re: His Mother Said His Fiancee Is Not Beautiful And Classy by ellamines(f): 7:51am On Feb 09, 2016

Not true. I agree Women have wahala, but when you jam a man with wahala, you go just "hands up"! I am speaking from experience.

jejemanito:
Sigh

In the whole of mankind's history, never has it been heard that a father-in-law is against his son-in-law

Live and let live

Women, una wahala too much

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Politics › Re: Caption This Picture Of Adenuga Greeting Buhari by ellamines(f): 7:11pm On Feb 02, 2016

takoi:
Who's this man that won't shift for Adenuga to have enough space to greet PMB

I just tire for the man. Na this one dem dey call stumbling block.

Celebrities › Re: Foluke Daramola Never Looked This Beautiful (photos) by ellamines(f): 4:31pm On Jan 28, 2016

Ah!!! This is embarrassingly HIDEOUS!!!

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