illicit:
U wanna Japa to Canada.

something in that area, abeg you know??

So guys I was wondering where one can get vocational training in say, plumbing, carpentry or mechanics in abuja with a certificate , and the duration shouldn't be more than a few months. Preferably in abuja. Any ideas guys, abeg help a fellow Nigerian!!!!

Georgekyrian:
I’m just seeing everything from Lesbo perspective but in absent of that, you have to be dominant. Why I don’t like been in people’s lane is because I don’t like wasting time in kicking people outta my lane.
She won’t waste time to snatch any of your way to do guys she had opportunity to meet ✌️

Iol There's no sextual tensions between us, it's just how you are just in awe of someone because they are pretty and all. That's all.

Foodqueen:
You av low self esteem.

You see her as the best thing that could ever happen to u, she saw through you and she's acting on it.

Start by telling her that u want her out of your space.

Now she is the worst thing that has ever happened to me!

Nemesis0147:
Lol
You have a very low self esteem and the lady is banking on that. You see her as someone you are looking up to or something.
Her porch lifestyle maybe.

Yeah I've always had a crush on her, nothing sextually per say, but I was just in awe of her.
And living with her showed me that the babe is more broke than a church rat, all na packaging

Justbehave:
Your shame dey shame me walahi

Nna even me saf, attimes I wonder if na jazz, but I feel its just crush I had on her, and it made me blind to her nasty character.

So I've been friends with this babe, are we even friends? Sha since 2021, we met at a neighbours shop and honestly how we became friends still eludes me. Initially the friendship was turning my head na, as she's a fine babe that knows how to dress and all, while me I was just an okay person, make up, dressing wasnt and is still not my thing.
Anyways I overlooked so many things because I wanted to be her friend, like how she talks down on me and the rest, and lest I forget this hanty is among those eude people that guise their rudeness on I am a very straight forward person, my landlady then chased me away because she spoke rudely to her( sha the woman has her own issues sha)

Fast forward to 2023 this babe is living with me, how she came to stay with me eludes me because I can't remember giving my consent, I just saw her one day with her load ( sha I fit talk am because I don't pay attention to what she says most times)
This babe is a torn on my flesh, dictating how things would be in my own house, throwing shades that she thinks I don't get. I'll cook, wash plate, clean , I practically do everything in the house, she doesn't even contribute money for food( though she doesn't work) oya wash plate, arrange house, story!! Only to complain the house is this, the food is that, are we eating beans again.

So a couple of weeks ago I sent aunty messages if I should buy things we would use and make stew for dinner, she said yes, I now said "sha you'll cook because I'm tired o" this babe sent me message that " is that why you offered to buy things, so I'll cook? As if I knew when I saw your message" I got pissed and sent a message back telling her if she cooks is it wrong? And that me I've eaten so na she sabi, I bought food for myself and went home

The babe don day carry face for me, so I'm thinking was I wrong to scold her? Should I have ignored her? And e be like say this friendship don reach the end of the road. You guys should just tell me what you think.

For clarity sake o : I'm a lady, so the sex part is out of the question.

So I'm in a similar position but it's the other way round. The thing day burst my head, it's so bad that attimes I wonder if I'm going nuts!! So I have this friend of mine, abi na person I just know. We've know ourselves since 2021, the whole discussion that led us to being friends I can't even rember. Since I've know this babe it's from one trouble to the other, the house I was staying at then, the landlord chased me away because of this babe. She be this kind of person that uses " I say it as it is" to be very rude and all. So fast forward to 2023 she said she was going to be staying with me, honestly speaking when she was presumably asking for my permission to stay in my house for a year I wasn't listening so according to her I.gave my consent.

This aunty doesn't work, but dictates what goes on in my house, I feed her, do the chores basically everything, she get mind use her money buy bone straight and even had the mind to tell me. Anyway few weeks ago I sent this babe a message from work that I'll buy ketchup and egg for the yam at home though na she go cook am o. This girl come say no wonder I ask her if I go buy egg, that I had it in mind for her to cook. I sent her a message and asked yes and so? You don't want to do anything in the house? Sha me I Don chop na you sabi. Na so the babe day carry face for me. And I'm like this is so weird!! Water we drink would finish I go jack two bags and she go day look me, i will wash toilet her own na to day gist me yeye gist as she watches me. So me I want to ask was there a way I could have cushioned the blow, because she can't give me atitude in my house, the house too small. How can I even make her leave but salvage the relationship. Abi make she kuma go friendship and all?