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emechib:
FVKING SHYNESS LOW SELF ESTEEM


I love God and Everything He's created.

I love humans etc.


But I don't get to enjoy them owing to. those anomaly.

I am extremely lonely. I don't have friends.

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I get blanked whenever I am asked questions. I am not a dullard neither am I physically challenged. but I just get blank at impromptu moment.


I get tremors whenever I am under pressure.

I can't hold simple convo with people. I feel I am less human them. I have tried so many way to overcome this. but it persists.

Please help me. I am tired of being frustrated and depressed. Things I can do I don't do them. help

kunleweb:
When did i critic you or advertise a franchise? I'm spwaking to people who have such similar concerns your Post addresses and in no way spite you Sir

kunleweb:
Lol @ always sweing problems at every oportunity. Gid bless our fountain of wisdom.some weeks back a huy needed help here on a venture, ii asked him to come which he did,i spoke non stop for close to an hour,no the folks on the tales surroung ours in the eatery weee filled with admiration about hiw uispoke and where intrigued about what the discussion was.do you know in the end the guy only saw problems and.obstacles regardless of how i poured free deep.information to him? What took me seven years of research. He came on here the bext week still seeking counsel jumping from.oneend to another and everything i already addressed durig our meeting. Bor many people are mentally and psychologically crippled

tripplephi:
lol TYPICAL AFRICAN.... always seeing PROBLEMS in every OPPORTUNITY.

are u not on nairaland here. can u not find importation classes on whatsapp groups to learn, or exportation and other free training that hold on whatsapp which are frequently advertised on nairaland business section?

YOUR PROBLEM is your mind and no one is responsible for it.... NO ONE CARES ABOUT YOUR MIND if it is not able to solve problems.... YOU ARE SOLELY AT FAULT for leaving your mind empty or without any resourceful info

GET BOOKS FOR FREE ON THE NET AND STUDY... ATTEND FREE CLASSES.. here u are thinking about friends when you have NO MONEY... its sad, your priorities are misplaced

NEVER SEEK TO GET BUT RATHER SEEK TO BE, THEN WITH WHAT YOU ARE YOU WILL ATTRACT WHAT YOU WANT TO HAVE

Stop coming online to get partners to sympathize with you then you want the whole world to KNOW a problem you caused for yourself and are too lazy to get out of by asking it to be ON THE FIRST PAGE.... my brother the bitter truth is YOU ARE NOT READY TO BE SERIOUS.


If we clone you or you were a female EVEN YOU would NOT BEAR TO HAVE A FRIEND LIKE YOU. So stop foooooling yourself and start changing your life with the points I already made.

since YOU ARE YOUR LIMITATION, no one has the POWER to help you OVERCOME YOU.... only you can think OUTSIDE your BOX.... in this case YOU ARE THE BOX.

Get a book, learn a skill, teach your skills for free on whatsapp and you will have friends.

YOU HAVE NOT EVEN READ A BOOK ON EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION OR PUBLIC SPEAKING, Then you are here saying you have limitations, YOU ARE NOT SERIOUS. You just want PITY.... you want someone to say they will be your friend out of PITY.... you are not serious at ALL.

kunleweb:
Can you call me.lets discuss your situation?

Oyindidi:
You created the limitations, fight those limitations now and free yourself. You need help

tripplephi:
you are NOT shy, or INTROVERT...
you issue is simply ABSENCE OF VALUE.

You need to know that NO ONE HAS TIME FOR A PERSON IS NOT PROVIDING VALUE when they communicate.

also GET A SKILL, if you are an INTROVERT or EXTREMELY SHY then at least be very skilled at something that people NEED.

Make people come to you because of your skill, your expertise can force people to talk with you even if they do not have intentions of being your friend then when you OPEN YOUR MOUTH ensure YOU ARE MAKING SENSE and they will get interested.

Value shifts.... Value is NOT money or good looks... It is simply PROVIDING SOLUTIONS to outstanding problems.... it is also how you make people feel when they are around u....

FROM WHAT YOU SAID ABOUT JOB it is clear you lack any other lucrative skill for self employment... so kindly get skilled and you will understand that BUSINESSMEN always have friends.

I hope you learn from this.

waleyp:
You No Go De Use WhatsApp Be That, If You De Use Am SeF ABeg Tell Us Who You De Follow Talk Nor WhatsApp,