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Seriously Let's Face It: What Will You Do?

What if you never own a car?
What if you never become rich despite how hard you try?
What if that sickness never heals?
What if you fail?
What if........

You have dreamt it, your Prophet prophesied it, your Seer saw it everyone around you can testify to it even though it has never happened, but I want to ask you what if it never happens?
Many times we stray away from reality. It is very good to have hope, ambition, dreams, aspiration, etc but what if you were never able to accomplish anyone of them till you die?
This is a wicked reality but you need to face it.
Don't be too hard with life, just live it.

It is sad, but it's the truth....
- Not every hardworking man will become wealthy.
- Not every brilliant student will become successful.
- Not every business man will make profit.

How then do you handle these uncertainties?

+ Have a good principle that guide your life. No matter what happens tell yourself you will not go against it. E.g No matter how poor I'd be, I will never pick ritual as an option.

+ Don't have issues with God. Many people have serious issue with God for not making them what they prayed Him to make them. Don't do that, He (God) is not your mate, you can't push or pull Him to suit yourself, that's you tripping. Leave God out of your frustrations, tell yourself no matter what happens I won't drag God. Ask him for help but face your sh*t by yourself.

+ Believe in your ability and improve yourself daily.

Till I come your way again.... Think on these.

Haters will always hate.... So because his dad is rich, he can't be brilliant naturally and ace? If your money cannot make your children brilliant and smart enough to survive on their own.... Then you are a bad parent!

Many people like to see stories of people that died of frustration because of ends meet... Only few people really loves to help them, asking for help is not a sin, asking for help is not always scam, when you see people asking for help don't call them names, if you can help render it, if you can't don't add to their woes. The most hardworking people are not the richest, that you have enough is a privilege, don't look down on the people that have less, don't chase a road side beggar because he/she is looking tattered.... If they have the same opportunity as you, they will look better.

Life can happen to anyone anytime, help is not always in money, it maybe in health, people, even help maybe a single word... But we all come to need something. Let's help everyone we can as much as it lies within us. That is LIVING!

May we not encounter problems that our power, wisdom, connection, hardwork cannot solve.....

edoman2016:
You are a lazy man. You think most men here don't have financial challenges and it is only you that is broke. 500k? Just like that! You think money is picked on the tree? Who cares if your wife is pregnant or hungry? In fact, it shows you are an irresponsible man.

You better go to site and do bricklayer jobs. You will be paid per day. Then, you can FEED your pregnant wife and children rather than sitting your ass on the chair with your phone and hoping for someone to give you money you didn't work for.

LAZY MAN

Thank you hardworking man, may you not encounter problem that renders your work futile.....

I GOT HELPED! THOUGH NOT FROM HERE, MAY GOD BLESS THE SOURCE.

classyfied:
Ogbeni check your account, I just transferred N360k, hope you add this to what you gathered so far. If it is not enough, just quote me back to see what I can do to assist further.

I will definitely drop the screenshot here when I receive it.

ladycomfort:
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I just freaky your account with 500k..

How I wish you did this, you would have just solved all my problems....

mekzyjoe:
..una no go change...u think say na only u get problem? U posted all kinds of problem here without any evidence to show or upload here for us to see whether u r genuine or not.. I laff u

I just deleted the attached pictures.... We all get problem that's why we all need to help one another if we can.

.... it takes courage to ask for help, but why die in silent when there might be help somewhere....

Done

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Done

Last 3 months has been very tough financially and the peak of it came last Saturday when a contract I'm working on went awry, incurring more debts than profit. Out of frustration I started this post just to see if I could get any help, instead of help more insults came normal though, that's what nairaland is known for....
But the focus of this post modification is that, I got the help this morning (needed just N500k) shockingly from someone I did a favor of N60 (I mean sixty-naira). What a life!

Let's be good for no reason, hard times are real, valley point is real, let's always help in every way possible, because someone you helped today might be the one to help you tomorrow.

Enough of motivational talk

WE ALL NEED EACH OTHER.