VictorUSA:
EmGeee you didn't answer my last question.I just hope you weren't fed up with my questions.

makavellidon:
Abeg help me ask ds madam. Are u sayin in a relationship dre should be knw sex abi..see me see wahala

jawalis:


Wow, I never noticed you here on Nairaland. But it’s nice to meet you today. I believe as well that there are more to sex than the physical or biological pleasure people got from the act. I can’t even imagine myself with a woman I’m not married to. I’m not SU (a fanatics) but I’m always guided when it comes to issues like this. I’ll graduate from the university in less than 5 months times. It’s always a challenging task truly in my five years in the university but all it takes is self determination and control. I once asked one of my friends who is sexually active that what advantage has sex given him over me and he’s not been able to say something tangible than pleasure pleasure and pleasure. So I find my pleasure in other task.

jawalis:

Frankly, I’ll be very happy if I can end up with a virgin, it’ll be a thing of joy to me and in fact, I’ll almost worship her feet because I know it’s not been a easy journey to achieve but however, I don’t crave for virgin. It’s not a thing to consider for relationship as far as I’m concerned. Reason I don’t discriminate is that, I celibate not because anyone is forcing me or I don’t have the chance. In fact, I’ve been by myself since 18yrs old so I have all the opportunities to explore and do whatever but for some reasons; I’m abstaining. so I’m not going to criticize/discriminate against anyone who’s not a virgin

VictorUSA:
EmGeee I struggled to understand your points.I'm just rooting for you.Your husband will be one of the luckiest men.A more personal question:I currently have two ladies who are known to be virgins, but the older one,19, always don't want us to discuss virginity and anytime I bring up issues about virginity she seems to be upset.As an experienced mature lady(virgin), what can you say about that?

VictorUSA:
From all indication you are someone very religious, moderate, cautious, intelligent and that made you very wonderful.I'm learning alot from you.Hope I'll not upset you if I ask further question.In a no sex relationship, is it possible to also abstain from kisses,smooching,amorous cuddling and all that?

@EmGeee

VictorUSA:
EmGeee Your stamina is commendable.Pls is there anything a young girl or guy can learn in a relationship that doesn't involve sex?

VictorUSA:
EmGeee sorry if this hurts, you sound so spiritual and holy, like a girl who can't go out on a date.But on your thread I noticed you were a lil bit hurt that a guy stopped dating you when he realized you're some years older than him.Or did I miss something?

EmGeee:


As long as you determine my dear… am now thespian, you see once you determine you strive to maintain it jealously. You can’t do it by power so you have to rely on GOD by growing your spirituality. It will help distract your mind, and discipline you for your own good in the long run. Stay away from unhelpful association, engage with likemindeds, and make plans for full engagement with productive self development endeavors at this age no laxity or frivolity. Sex only makes sense when it is done rightly every other thing is agenda of the devil to manipulate you and even posses you with evil spirit while wrecking your life. Avoid any endearing stuff even while online, if you make mistake and stray still acknowledge it and pray for mercy till you grow above it. GOD will see you through!

Nyascobar1414:


Okay, you are so disciplined if that is the case,,
do niggas chase you?

Dueprince:


that's also another thing to worry about because it will also have it own negative effect on me just like masturbation
but by June I'll be 26 year and in the next five year I don't see my self getting a partner, how long do you think I can go on that way.

ObamaMessi:
I dont think the op encourage the act of masturbation, but only trying to be real.Virginity is defiled only by penetrating or being penetrated by another sex organ.

VictorUSA:
As long as there's no penetration, she's a virgin.

Nyascobar1414:


dammnn, are you really a virgin?

No porn,
masturbation...
You've stayed chaste all your life...

Ion believe it though

PrinceOfLagos:
Someone got his ATM card info

If he's got His bank App on his phone, then it's traceable ..

ChasinGood:
How NEPA go give light and when you wan charge phone dem take am. That feeling hurts shey you know?

makavellidon:
Since you are nt ready for sex, u 4 knw get boyfrd make u remain single. Weytin be dating knw sex abeg na scam joor

Crossroad1:
People like this makes guy have a sinister move against them..
What's the essence of punishing the poor guy?

Vinnie2000:



OP..
Goan and get the Gbola and stop all diz Unnecessary Yarnings!!..
Give my Boy the Kongos, abeg!!

Unless, you are a 15, 16 year old Girl or a Virgin, I will understand..

I wonder why Some Girls make sex such a Big deal to their Boyfriends..
But will easily give the Coochies to Yahoo Boys, Alhaji, Lecturers, Sugar daddies, etc!..

Sonnobax15:

No just follow that nigha go house because you must off pant.... That's a must..If he couldn't control his mouth from kissing publicly,na cor for private he no go take make advances of lashing? . Use your brain before he go use you count scores, unless you're ready for it..

2special:
I pray he's able to control his hormones but is not that easy...

ceede2:
Oop!! Una kiss so hard? So kissing they hard not deep, please the day way the sex go happen no forget to bring it here.

StPete:
Mamagee aka emgeee writing stupid topics since the days of Abraham