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Travel › Re: Nigerians Living In Senegal by EmGeee(f): 2:33pm On Apr 28

Iazeez:
For the consular card as a first timer you pay 10, 000 FCFA while for the community resident cert. was free.

The consular card is important and it’s always advisable to get it whenever you travel to another country to stay for a long time, Incase of war or an issues all you need to do is go with it to your consulate and they can take you back home easily

I actually don’t know if you need the document to open/register a business.

So how is the consular card important with this explanation?

Nairaland General › Check Your Whealth-consciousness Now! by EmGeee(op): 11:55am On Feb 21

Most chronic diseases today are driven more by lifestyle choices than genetics.

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Nairaland General › Please Kindly Help Me Graduate! by EmGeee(op): 5:49pm On Feb 06

Abeg help your sister o 😭🙏

I’m trying to reach 500 responses for my thesis health awareness survey.

It’s a 3-minute enlightenment survey on lifestyle diseases in Nigeria — super fast, super enlightening.

Kindly check it out here 👇

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🤲 I take God beg una, help me fill am & share… make I graduate abeg! 🙏❤️

Family › Re: Proudly Virgin At 30+ — Glory To GOD! by EmGeee(op): 7:51pm On Dec 02, 2025

My testimony is a clear counsel to the simple!

Family › Re: Proudly Virgin At 30+ — Glory To GOD! by EmGeee(op): 8:56am On Dec 02, 2025

ibechris:
I like ur determination keep it up.

It is not easy honestly,the pressure from men like us can be crazy.

U see,don't lower ur guard and u will thank yourself for being chaste.

Congrats my dear sister.

Thank you Sir… appreciated 🙏

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Family › Proudly Virgin At 30+ — Glory To GOD! by EmGeee(op): 6:40am On Dec 02, 2025*

I woke up this morning with a different feeling of fulfillment… full of gratitude.

I am compelled to encourage my fellow ladies, especially our vulnerable teenagers even in this generation, that preserving yourself is worthwhile. For ages past and years to come the benefits truly outweigh the sacrifices, and with GOD’s grace, you can do it.

I was really really vulnerable during childhood but GOD graciously preserved me. Even as a youth I endangered myself occasionally but one thing that helped me personally was praying Psalm 23 whenever I had to visit any man which I avoided like plague. It probably strengthened me and sharpened my discernment.

There was a day I visited my friend’s brother in Port Harcourt. He tried to force me with loud music playing so shouting was just for headache. It was only GOD that saved me — even when he tried tearing my underwear, it didn’t give way. He suddenly pretended to calm down and said he wanted to get me something ‘special’ from the room. Instantly a still small voice told me, “Check the door.” I checked — lo, the door opened — I ran, I zipped my gown on the run. Only GOD made it possible for me to escape, GOD literally dragged me out 1Cor10:13

Looking back, the only thing I sometimes regret is how I ruled out younger guys completely in aunty vibes haha, and how I put all my emotional eggs in one basket in relationships that were not even defined. I was faithful to a fault.

I remember this amazing corper I met on a trip from Abuja in December 2018. We had a lot in common, but I dismissed him as a “younger brother”. Like I didn’t even entertain youngers on even platonic level at all.
Another time, in Enugu, a polite young man reversed on Pioneer Street to offer me a lift under hot sun, my mind started ringing Chibueze… if Chibueze hear this — village people really were on my case. Plus “yahoo boy” suspicion made me decline sharply. Yet they all left for good cos I stood my ground… they should have left earliest.

It hasn’t really been easy resisting the urge, but as a legit QUEEN, I’ve been intentional about subduing it, I mean I have so many goals on my neck, prioritized over temporary pleasure… I just ask myself ‘in the long run, would it add anything meaningful to my testimony or the future I’m building?

Through it all, I remain fulfilled and grateful. My life has been progressive, and I know GOD has a better plan. I cannot and will not settle for less — my husband must be a man who is ahead, who complements me, lifts me, and supports me becoming the best version of myself.

To my fellow ladies:
Preserving yourself is a great virtue. It is of inestimable value. Your purity is powerful, your future is precious, and GOD will reward your discipline.

So in the mean-time commit your energy to true worship, possessing the earth and its fullness 2Tim2:22… every other thing shall be added unto you.

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Travel Ads › Re: Cheapest Way To Ship Goods From USA To Nigeria? by EmGeee(f): 9:02pm On Dec 30, 2024

rikkyjen:
If you are lucky to know a FEDEX worker ~~like me~~ , then U go dey ship goods every day like crazy.Actually, FEDEX gives its staffs a whooping 70% discount off on all shippings. So try and sabi any Nigerian broda working there, then you are game.

Please help me out

Romance › Re: Virgin Guys And Ladies Thread (strictly Virgins) by EmGeee(f): 4:55pm On Apr 19, 2022

VictorUSA:
EmGeee you didn't answer my last question.I just hope you weren't fed up with my questions.

It is in my penultimate reply to Jawalis

Romance › Re: Could He Have Ignored? by EmGeee(op): 4:21pm On Apr 19, 2022

makavellidon:
Abeg help me ask ds madam. Are u sayin in a relationship dre should be knw sex abi..see me see wahala

Yea… sex is for marriage and couples my dear

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Romance › Re: Virgin Guys And Ladies Thread (strictly Virgins) by EmGeee(f): 4:02pm On Apr 19, 2022

jawalis:
Wow, I never noticed you here on Nairaland. But it’s nice to meet you today. I believe as well that there are more to sex than the physical or biological pleasure people got from the act. I can’t even imagine myself with a woman I’m not married to. I’m not SU (a fanatics) but I’m always guided when it comes to issues like this. I’ll graduate from the university in less than 5 months times. It’s always a challenging task truly in my five years in the university but all it takes is self determination and control. I once asked one of my friends who is sexually active that what advantage has sex given him over me and he’s not been able to say something tangible than pleasure pleasure and pleasure. So I find my pleasure in other task.

My dear I have been registered for long but don’t frequent as I never master this platform. You are definitely on the right path, anyone with conscience would always regret the act when that momentary pleasure douses cos I experience it with watching porn, after that comes regret when you realize it’s a total waste of energy except their conscience have been seered they would then want to drag others to their level but I always have to stand out tall especially when am convinced am on the right path. My dear you are a real man, it’s a special kind of grace that has to be nurtured but people don’t realize it. I just can say it all on this space I just pray more grace and favor to you �

Romance › Re: Virgin Guys And Ladies Thread (strictly Virgins) by EmGeee(f): 3:31pm On Apr 19, 2022

jawalis:
Frankly, I’ll be very happy if I can end up with a virgin, it’ll be a thing of joy to me and in fact, I’ll almost worship her feet because I know it’s not been a easy journey to achieve but however, I don’t crave for virgin. It’s not a thing to consider for relationship as far as I’m concerned. Reason I don’t discriminate is that, I celibate not because anyone is forcing me or I don’t have the chance. In fact, I’ve been by myself since 18yrs old so I have all the opportunities to explore and do whatever but for some reasons; I’m abstaining. so I’m not going to criticize/discriminate against anyone who’s not a virgin

Good to read your stories dear, keep it up. Self-discipline and control is a great virtue. David and Solomon were victims of lack of self discipline. You see it’s gonna save you a lot. People are yet to realize that there is much more to sex, I believe that hence I wouldn’t just do it anyhow or with just anybody. I will prefer to do it appropriately as ordained. I don’t know how it’s related to breast but on two occasions now I was undressing with some ladies and they be like Na wa o your breast is still standing, I just answer ‘really? My dear I don’t herald it for security purpose. Rape etc. Plus it seems guys crave for it so if a guy hears it he may be bent on doing anything just for virginity sake so it is purely my business with my husband. He will find out at appropriate time. I derive joy and fulfillment from self development and progress, so I channel my energy mainly to building myself up. You have to be ready to resist temptations, watching porn drained me last year then I started have even feeling of someone sexing me when am sleeping it took deliverance to save me from that predicament cos it caused me great set back I lost so much financially, socially, spiritually so I am very intentional about this peace of mind business and I have been seeing the goodness of GOD. I hear ladies do so many stuff on their own, to me it is degrading and disgusting, I avoid every porn stuff, if I mistakenly see one I close it immediately. All these sex tapes they have been releasing I didn’t bother myself with wetin no concern me Na my own agenda be my priority.

Victor you are just going to 20 my dear you have a long way to go, at least 5yrs to go so my dear work on your future. Plan your future and get to work if you really mean business. Don’t follow the trend, you can stand out and set the pace.

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Romance › Re: Virgin Guys And Ladies Thread (strictly Virgins) by EmGeee(f): 12:23pm On Apr 19, 2022

VictorUSA:
EmGeee I struggled to understand your points.I'm just rooting for you.Your husband will be one of the luckiest men.A more personal question:I currently have two ladies who are known to be virgins, but the older one,19, always don't want us to discuss virginity and anytime I bring up issues about virginity she seems to be upset.As an experienced mature lady(virgin), what can you say about that?

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Like I said earlier I don’t in anyway hint that am virgin, as a matter of fact I twist it when asked cos I don’t want people to start assessing me unnecessarily cos only my husband is entitled to know so even if am in relationship with someone I can only reveal it in the long-run else you wouldn’t even know what the person actually want from you. So in this case, if you both revealed your status she shouldn’t have issues discussing it as it would help you both to chart the right course for building your relationship while upholding chastity. Two cannot walk together except they agree. Your problem is that you are looking for a virgin only GOD can help you with that and don’t go defiling anyone and seering your conscience it will mar you in the end cos you reap what you sow!

Romance › Re: Virgin Guys And Ladies Thread (strictly Virgins) by EmGeee(f): 10:52am On Apr 19, 2022

Also it is an obligation for me to take up this advocacy mantle which has been handed over by all the men and women GOD used to lighten my path in this quest. So many people came preaching chastity, STDs alias ‘chanka-chanka’ to us right from SCM in boarding school, FECA etc. That’s healthy association. There is this track I archived I don’t know if it is from Gbile Akani some where he said “If sex was LOVE, then the prostitution would be the greatest Lover on earth”. All those motivations kept resounding and spurring me on Glory to GOD!

Romance › Re: Virgin Guys And Ladies Thread (strictly Virgins) by EmGeee(f): 10:26am On Apr 19, 2022*

I’d like to add that while am not ‘religious as presumed, being churcheous helped me a lot even from boarding school to UNN to wade off guys. It was CASOR that I used as excuse to break up with that my 2nd boyfriend I told him CASOR said we should all terminate our relationships. In youth service all the guys were all over me so I had to join NCCF, even at that some unfortunate fellows are even in the NCCF gaan so you also have to be careful among brethren everywhere. All the gatherings I have been with even choir get corrupters always gisting rubbish that tingles the ear so once I sense your kind of persona I decide how to relate with you and if you don’t join rubbish discussions they stay away from you. So many people tell me say I carry church for head buh I no carry church for head I don’t even go to church every Sunday lately I just tune in to Koinonia radio but I already have a fortified foundation

Romance › Re: Virgin Guys And Ladies Thread (strictly Virgins) by EmGeee(f): 10:13am On Apr 19, 2022

VictorUSA:
From all indication you are someone very religious, moderate, cautious, intelligent and that made you very wonderful.I'm learning alot from you.Hope I'll not upset you if I ask further question.In a no sex relationship, is it possible to also abstain from kisses,smooching,amorous cuddling and all that?

@EmGeee

It’s a privilege so I am very glad to counter the deception of the age which is the root of the worrisome moral decadence today. Over laxity for liberty sake is our doom. I am not any religious am rather a practical Believer and lover of GOD so the fear of GOD is the beginning of my wisdom. I look forward to bearing this witness on podiums to the younger ones. I am very luck in youthful exuberance narrowly excaped closed doors consequences with my previous dates as teenager, either the guys I have been with were responsible infact it was just GOD saving grace cos most times before I go to a guys house or even take lift from a stranger I pray Psalm23. A guy has kissed me before, then this other younger was actually my first time kissing in its sense which I regret. I see kissing as sacred so I don’t kiss people anyhow, I engage purposely in view of the long-term so if I don’t see us getting married we don’t even get any close to talk of intimacy plus even though I don’t in any insinuate that I’m virgin, I preach discipline and self control for just to make you a better person for yourself. See, a man is surprised to be in charge, you decide what you want then you write the vision and make it clear so that he that readers may run with it. Most guys these day don’t marry with their full sense they get entrapped by desperate ‘ambitious ladies, you find love in GOD. They are careless so even when they see red flags they romance the red flags. If you build your self control you live by it and every other person have to be compatible or align. The only thing that even attracted me to that younger guy is that we had some common ideology, we kissed quite passionately but I had to pull off cos it wasn’t what I came to his house for and he didn’t pressure me. But I decided I wasn’t going to visit him again to avoid any such cos there wasn’t anything like that in the first visit so I didn’t see it coming and revisited. But wayback my 2nd boyfriend in my first year we always hung out together and enjoyed each other company that guy loved me so much buh I sensed he was associated with cultism and withdrew from him. GOD will save and bless him for me. Even though I never visited him at home, he is a proof that you can be in a relationship with boundaries you just define them and every reasonable persona will appreciate you for that but that’s if you esteem that!

Romance › Re: Virgin Guys And Ladies Thread (strictly Virgins) by EmGeee(f): 9:25am On Apr 19, 2022

VictorUSA:
EmGeee Your stamina is commendable.Pls is there anything a young girl or guy can learn in a relationship that doesn't involve sex?

O’Cos… you have to be purposeful in your engagements. I mean if someone can’t rub off on you then they’d just drain you and it would be exhausting. All the people I have been with I learnt one thing or the other from them and also taught them one thing or the other. I am actually sapiosexual, just intelligent conversation alone is fun for me. Exposure, cos we know in parts, and it’s Iron that sharpens Iron. And if you notice your partner has no self control you mind where you hangout or better still redefine the relationship. Plus if I don’t see any prospect with a guy I don’t bother deceiving or wasting our time and energy… by action or inaction I make it clear. After my national service over 5yrs back a friend (First class graduate wanted me to follow him to Canada, all expense paid, ‘‘twas his engagement proposal buh I had a divine conviction that he isn’t for me so I told him outrightly. Like he had always promised me heaven and earth, two yrs after he left I needed to get my transcripts to apply for an Int’l Masters scholarship but was broke I begged him for #15K he stopped talking to me. Later on when I started earning something I calculated all the money he had given me in the short while #50K and called him told him I want to pay him the money I owed him, he didn’t even ask how I owed him, he sent me an account number to credit it to. Then I had an emergency and postponed the payment he sent me message on WhatsApp saying I told him I was gonna pay him and now left his beneficiary stranded in school here in Nigeria. My dear once I got the money I credited him sharp sharp. Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not in your own understanding! My dear my own Love is kind and selfless!

Romance › Re: Virgin Guys And Ladies Thread (strictly Virgins) by EmGeee(f): 8:25am On Apr 19, 2022

VictorUSA:
EmGeee sorry if this hurts, you sound so spiritual and holy, like a girl who can't go out on a date.But on your thread I noticed you were a lil bit hurt that a guy stopped dating you when he realized you're some years older than him.Or did I miss something?

Nah you didn’t miss anything. I ain’t no more hurt, he felt he is hot cake even when he see say my Mama mould fine boys full house and say me be Jesus pikin. Dating doesn’t necessarily entail fornication my dear, it is what you make of it and depends on you. He isn’t the first person I have dated. He been trying to rapport lately and I don’t have his time, didn’t even bother replying his Easter greetings infact I now see him as a mistake buh only GOD knows why he allowed him cross my path probably to fortify my strength in all I thank the LORD!

Romance › Re: Virgin Guys And Ladies Thread (strictly Virgins) by EmGeee(f): 10:09pm On Apr 18, 2022

EmGeee:
As long as you determine my dear… am now thespian, you see once you determine you strive to maintain it jealously. You can’t do it by power so you have to rely on GOD by growing your spirituality. It will help distract your mind, and discipline you for your own good in the long run. Stay away from unhelpful association, engage with likemindeds, and make plans for full engagement with productive self development endeavors at this age no laxity or frivolity. Sex only makes sense when it is done rightly every other thing is agenda of the devil to manipulate you and even posses you with evil spirit while wrecking your life. Avoid any endearing stuff even while online, if you make mistake and stray still acknowledge it and pray for mercy till you grow above it. GOD will see you through!

Romance › Re: Virgin Guys And Ladies Thread (strictly Virgins) by EmGeee(f): 5:44pm On Apr 18, 2022

Nyascobar1414:
Okay, you are so disciplined if that is the case,,
do niggas chase you?

Before nkooo… I am very cautious. Some believe am either lesbian or masturbating buh I don’t claim anything or argue, I just know myself and don’t bulge, I steer clear. I don’t hang out with guys anyhow, once I study someone I decide how to mingle with the person. Like yesterday I had a first hangout with this guy and he was all over trying to hold me inappropriately. Quite embarrassing like we had known for ages, I told him it wasn’t right he tried to argue about it, tried to keep me out late when there is no meaningful engagement. He been calling for another outing but I already ruled him out. I don’t take such red flags for granted

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Romance › Re: Virgin Guys And Ladies Thread (strictly Virgins) by EmGeee(f): 4:31pm On Apr 18, 2022

Dueprince:
that's also another thing to worry about because it will also have it own negative effect on me just like masturbation
but by June I'll be 26 year and in the next five year I don't see my self getting a partner, how long do you think I can go on that way.

As long as you determine my dear… am now thespian, you see once you determine you strive to maintain it jealously. You can’t do it by power so you have to rely on GOD by growing your spirituality. It will help distract your mind, and discipline you for your own good in the long run. Stay away from unhelpful association, engage with likemindeds, and make plans for full engagement with productive self development endeavors at this age no laxity or frivolity. Sex only makes sense when it is done rightly every other thing is agenda of the devil to manipulate you and even posses you with evil spirit while wrecking your life. Avoid any endearing stuff even while online, if you make mistake and stray still acknowledge it and pray for mercy till you grow above it. GOD will see you through!

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Romance › Re: Virgin Guys And Ladies Thread (strictly Virgins) by EmGeee(f): 1:04pm On Apr 18, 2022

ObamaMessi:
I dont think the op encourage the act of masturbation, but only trying to be real.Virginity is defiled only by penetrating or being penetrated by another sex organ.

You can also resist masturbation, years back during my youth service I was almost raped when I went to see a guy in his house. Masturbation is a waste of energy. And it seems it may hamper your sexual drive. My kind that would really want a wild sex wetin masturbation fit do for me, it’s misery mehn I no fit

Romance › Re: Virgin Guys And Ladies Thread (strictly Virgins) by EmGeee(f): 11:58am On Apr 18, 2022

VictorUSA:
As long as there's no penetration, she's a virgin.

This may not be true, and this will encourage this wreck of a habit. Pls desist from all form of immortality they are not even healthy spiritually or otherwise. I am glad I have never seen those rubbish people buy with money to destroy themselves in the name of momentary self-pleasure. Self control, purposeful engagements, Focus, worship

Romance › Re: Virgin Guys And Ladies Thread (strictly Virgins) by EmGeee(f): 11:19am On Apr 18, 2022*

Nyascobar1414:
dammnn, are you really a virgin?

No porn,
masturbation...
You've stayed chaste all your life...

Ion believe it though

I was introduced to porn but am desisting from it. And the whole internet is full of porn now so caution while browsing.
I have never touched myself, it is disgusting, when I feel hot I clinch my thighs, it gives me a hot sensation but I try to avoid and resist it
It just makes me yearn for a man but it is only honorable doing it right else you regret it and not healthy at all both spiritually and otherwise

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