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BluDesk:
Stop crying more than the bereaved. Na wetin

No one is bereaved here... or are you?

Akuruoulo:
Thank GOD U SAID THE TRUTH. THOSE TIMES U LADIES FEEL ITS AN ISSUE BT LATER WILL KNW THAT AGE ISN'T AN ISS. U ARE UP TO 29 RIGHT ?

It isn't about that... he just didn't look in any way younger, and is self-disciplined as unusual... that's how we got here

[quote author=Akuruoulo post=100460945]WOMEN MADE AGE AN ISSUE. WHEN A 21YRS BOY ASK A 26YRS GIRL OUT NA SO SHE GO LOOK AM LIKE SMALL BOY.[/quoI


I am a culprit... this case just took me unawares

doggedfighter:
I can sense you feel bad about what should have been.

And that's understandable.

By this you want to find closure which is also good.

But sometimes we don't find closure in all the cases.

Many guys around here can't handle the age thing and life has brought one of such your way.

Now it's not just about if he's interested in you, it's also if he's right for you.


His not being able to take or handle the age thing shows he's not right for you.

People easily say move on , but I am never quick to that because it's not as simple as it sounds.

Just know that your love will find you soon.

You owe him no explanation, sweetie.

Thanks! By explanation... I just feel he isn't sure and don't know how to open up probably not to hurt so just want to let him know am cool with his stance so we both just move on

budaatum:
I like your honesty. Its not so common here.

Sit him down and coolly tell him what you've said here so he stops feeling he needs to random call you. And accept that he is not as mature as you want to believe he is because you obviously deserve more than him.

I think what I tagged matured is discipline, he is rather disciplined... had to even let him know he was beginning to act up.
On one occasion he called and along the discussion he was gisting me about a special Abacha joint and promised to take me there, then on another occasion I called to check on him then asked what he had for dinner... he told me off 'that we shouldn't be wasting our airtime on such matters'. We started on a good note then it began to hurt so I had to let go in my mind just want him to know I understand

budaatum:
Mature you. Just tell him you think he sees it as an issue, though I somewhat detect you see it as an issue too hence your revealing, "we realized am 3yrs older yet he is very matured.. kinda weird", and "I already let go".

You are going to let us know how honest you were by returning to tell us if you told him you withdrew and let him go or if you lied and blamed it all on him, because I would be interested to know.

Truth is it was a shocker realizing that cos it didn't seem so by any means... it was even issue of NYSC that led to the discovery I mean I never imagined such scenario but then I let him know he turned out more matured than the older people I have met. But it hasn't been as usual, he just changed overnight so I let him be but he keeps calling up randomly and all that so I just want the best way to let him know am cool

Anigreat:







Hey darling believe me, he did you so much wrong stop deceiving yourself.


Age shouldn't be a factor or criteria to settle down with who you love, except you didn't love the person, then you can use age gap as an excuse.


Emmanuel Macron is happily married to someone that is old enough to be his grandmother, Kim Kardashian mum is dating a boy that she should be a grandmum to and a lot more... so what's 3years gap? Is either the niggar didn't love you, or he listen to people that brainwashed him about what the society will say... nonsense.

Thanks... but I still maintain he didn't do me wrong considering our minglings. The only wrong he'd do me is disregard so it is better he take his stance than subject me to an entanglement.

Bornsinner7:
You don't have to make him understand that he did you wrong..

But if you insist take him to a spot buy him a bottle of hero and one big chicken.. then explain to him that you understand why he chickened out

Don't want him feeling he is doing wrong, cos I understand

I met this guy, he turns out a very nice guy very matured said he was interested in everything about me like that serious then we realized am 3yrs older.. kinda weird and I sense he is now withdrawn, I understand and already let go so how best do I let him know that I understand. Just so he doesn't feel he did me wrong, so he will stop calling me up randomly in entanglement


I think what I tagged matured could be discipline, he is quite disciplined... had to even let him know he was beginning to act up. On one occasion he called and along the discussion he was gisting me about a special Abacha joint and promised to take me there, then on another occasion I called to check on him then asked what he had for dinner... he told me off 'that we shouldn't be wasting our airtime on such matters'. We started on a good note then it began to hurt so I had to let go in my mind just want him to know I understand
I just feel he isn't sure and don't know how to open up probably not to hurt me so just want to let him know am cool with his stance so we both just move on

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Please which is cheaper between terrazzo and tile for our bungalow in Aba

Wow... didn't know such a thread exist here. GOD is really using sons of men to lift souls. Pls take time to sympathize with Will Smith who lost his father lately.

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-Tamera Man in I Can Only Imagine
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-Sinach including Seasons
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-Mario in You Are The Reason Why I Lift My Hands
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Hymns including How Great Thou Art, Great is Thy Faithfulness, Holy Holy Holy, Will Your Anchor Hold In The Storms of Life, & Great Physician Now is Here

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Shalom & GOD bless You all!

Pls do Accra provide study materials.. I registered so how do I study.

Lost my phone & trying to retrieve my song buh google isnt helping. Need a copy of:

From my heart I will praise You For all that You've done for me With my lips I will worship Giving You all the praise Here I am show me more and more of You...

HELLO,

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