i will agree wt the guys now: dis girl is not reliable. she feels pain now cos d guy dumped her, she needs consoling. when she gets it, she will be ok again, and will go for others again.

if a girl loves u really, she wont need to be dumped by another guy to realize she loves u only.

But how older? just a few years or ur mama's age? (or grandma, ?)

i think d problem is dat u r not in love wt any of them really, becos when u feel deep love for somebody, u wont need another one,
so best wd be to leave both of them alone and find one who is enuf for u alone.