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FamilyRe: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Emm1010: 2:38pm On Feb 28, 2019
Vincent88:
Hello everyone im new to this forum this is my fidst post.

Please pardon my english it is not fluent because im french speaken but im married to your nigerian sister (my wife).

Im vincent by name 30 years old married for 2 years with no child yet. I come from a family of 3 brothers and im the last born. Our dad passed away 20 years ago so it was our mom took care of us she fought so hard for us to have a better life unfortunatly she also passed away 13 years ago i was only 17 , my senior brother, our first born was married with a son 4 years old at that time, my middle brother was studying at the university and i went to stay with my elder brother.

His wife started seducing me anytime my brother is away in a business trips , she will try all her power but i was rejecting her by reminding her that she is my brother wife i will never deceiving him by sleeping with her and she started maltreating me by no giving me foods and giving me lots of housework to do, i never disrespected her and i will do as she said.

I was scared to tell my brother because he is a short tempered man he had so much love for his wife and he wouldnt even believe me. So she carry on with her mission after 2 years later i was just 19 years old she was 27 i gave in by sleeping with her (worst mistake ever) we started doing it lots of times when my brother is away on business or when the son is at school. She was then pregnant by me i have begged her to abort it but she went ahead with the pregnancy , all my brother knew that he was the father and she had a baby girl who is my carbon copy but people cant see it because they will always says she is looking like me but no one had suspect that she is mine even my brother.

After the baby i could not continue sleeping with her she was angry at me , threatened me that she will send me to prìson but i made my mind no to do it again so after 2 years of supporting her madness i had enough that made me leave the house for goods i went to stay with a friend and i was still in good relationship with my brother even he try to find out what was my reason for leaving the house. Imade up some lies he accepted it.

So he and his wife had 2 more children that makes them four 2 boys and 2 girls but he caught her with another man on their matrimonial bed and he went for DNA for their last child because she is very fair like a mixed race compare to her other siblings who are dark skin and the result come up that he was not the biological father so he divorce her but kept the child because he love the child


After the divorce my brother's life is not the same how it used to be , he is broke and he is a alcoholic and womaniser , i have given him money several times to start business but he still spending the money on women and alcohol. I stop giving him money but i do provide foods and school fees for all 4 children.

My problem is that since i got married my wife had three miscarriages, by 4 months she will loose the pregnancy it really broke her hearts and im in so much pain too but i believed that im being punished for having a child with my ex sister in law and my poor wife is paying for something she never did.

I love her so much and i dont want to loose her . No one else knows about this is only me and ex sister in law who knows about this. I really want to Confess and be free but i dont know how to tell this to my wife and brother . My wife adore my brother's child, they spend holidays in our house and my brother has never question the other 3 DNA because he has a strong believe that they are all his except the youngest girl. My daughter, she is now 10 years .

Please advice me on how to bring this matter to him please no insult i regrets my mistake i sometime wish it was a dream . Sorry for the long post
Not a good idea to tell ur brother, ur mind is telling u that ur past deeds with ur brother's former wife is the cause of ur present problems, how sure re u? U said u and ur wife has try all medical test and everything is alright, have u search for spiritual answers ? Don't put ur brother in more pain. U said all ur brothers problems started after he divorce his wife, ur brother need some spiritual help too, coz he married a destiny destroyer, a woman posses by marine spirit and his problem will never stop unless he seek for solution from a powerful place or pray for God to restore back his destiny
Christianity EtcRe: Your Dreams Explained by Emm1010: 9:52am On Jan 14, 2019
Good morning.

I have this dream where a train with many parcels on it, people were rushing to take their own. Me and my friend were expecting international passport as my own percel. But I check all load on that train didn't see anyone wit my name, I even find my friend own something like national I'd card and call him and give it him. Both of us check all the train for my passport it is on the train before I wake, I am not happy I wake coz this dream
Christianity EtcRe: Your Dreams Explained by Emm1010: 12:36pm On Jan 10, 2019
Sir,

I had a dream, in this dream waz with a friend and two of us r in financial difficulty , we r going to somewhere and a group of 4 boys so I point 2 boys out of those boys say to him they r from rich family that I will show him there father house and our way. When we get there I show him beatifull two story building and he like the house, but just as we past the house a girl come out the house and walk past us with a seductive matter and friend want to go woo her, but I spot him, I told him to leave girls alone, that he should fucos on his business and when money comes girls will come after him before I wake up
Christianity EtcRe: Your Dreams Explained by Emm1010: 7:09pm On Jan 07, 2019
Ok
Christianity EtcRe: Your Dreams Explained by Emm1010: 6:31pm On Jan 07, 2019
And another one, see myself being taking to school to register me in primary 3, but there is some problem with papers from the class room teacher, she was busy looking for her register and can't see it and waz telling person who brought me there, say there is no need for all this things that even if I start the school that the document they r going give me after the school will not be of much help to me coz I am not going to use it search for any job, that I want be a business man before I wake
Christianity EtcRe: Your Dreams Explained by Emm1010: 6:21pm On Jan 07, 2019
I has been having problems with my business for years now, for like 8 years now no business that I touch my hand that goes well, even of late now nothing like business opportunity at all
Christianity EtcRe: Your Dreams Explained by Emm1010: 6:17pm On Jan 07, 2019
1 I has been seeing myself living with a woman in dreams many times, the last time it happen I was in her kitchen with her, it look like she is not happy with me and here come another lady I know came into that kitchen, when she sees me all she said ah so na here I dey, I say yes and I ask her of her husband who is my friend and she said he travel to Spain, but the lady who own the house did not say a word coz she is not happy with me and I don't know why.

2. I see myself with a man, I have a sheet of paper in my hand, on that paper something is written on it like 2 sum of money to calculate, and the man with ask me to multiple it and when I am done with the first one very huge amout I went to him and tell him that I am done and should I add the second sum together and he said yes before I wake from sleep
Christianity EtcRe: Your Dreams Explained by Emm1010: 5:34pm On Jan 07, 2019
Sir,

I sent you an email abt my dreams, pls do reply me very important.

God bless u

You can add me on WhatsApp +258868277486
Christianity EtcRe: "ONLINE DELIVERANCE WITH THE GOD OF ELIJAH"- by Emm1010: 5:02pm On Jan 07, 2019
Thanks, but I can't really understand the instructions very well
Christianity EtcRe: "ONLINE DELIVERANCE WITH THE GOD OF ELIJAH"- by Emm1010: 4:25pm On Jan 07, 2019
I see myself being taking to primary 3 in dream, I see myself with a woman and water many times. I has been praying but this problem continue, I don't kno wat to do again
Christianity EtcRe: "ONLINE DELIVERANCE WITH THE GOD OF ELIJAH"- by Emm1010: 4:18pm On Jan 07, 2019
My name is Emmanuel from anambra state, I has been living in abroad for 12 years now. For the past 8year there has a very serious battle in my life, I am a bisness man but nothing I lay my hand prosper, few days ago I see myself being taking to primary 3 in school, a man of 40 years and many more. I need help

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