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Romance / Re: I'm 27, She's 16: Should I Disvirgin Her? by emmanicky: 9:15am On Jun 10, 2010
Hi to everyone, Mamas` an daddies, please stop judging each other. I think what should be done by u all is updating your moral value bank and taking cognizance of the evolution of human values.
It is easy for each and every of you to stand on a pedestral and cast all that judgments, slangs and insults at him only because of the fact that he has been honest and courageous enough to express himself and ask for advice.
He could as well have done it without ever seeking anybody`s opinion! Why do u think he came here on the forum to inquire opinions ?
So please look at your selves, think about your own lives before ever opening your mouths to talk , and to judge.
Mr man as for what is of the question, I THINK NO YOU SHHOULDN`T DISVIRGIN HER. I`m almost in the same situation with you: I`m 24 and she`s 15. She`s a virgin and my hormones are longing for the sex thing. Bro I`ve got to be truthful to you; it wouldn`t be fair that you sex the girl. She is not morally ready, she`s definitely not mature enough. It would be like raping a lady or sleeping with an unconscious person. Its as though hulk vs bugs bony. Its indeed a hard situation but no one forces you in. Nothing good comes easily that’s a law. If u love her then let her grow. I didn`t say “go” I said “grow”.If u let her go it breaks her heart and why should you break her heart when you claim to love her? Don`t give that false image of men that they can`t do without sex. Avoid situations that can stimulate sexual desire, do sports, watch cartoons and funny movies, if you believe in God then pray, but Be patient, it isn`t easy but its your choice… your choice… its all left to you.
But keep in mind that “ what goes round comes back around” and the return always hurts worse than the original… if you do it then be prepared for the return.
What you should bare in mind is that there is no age for love and there is no age to love. I know of people who never dated any other partner other than their first love.
I also know of couples where there is a 13-15 year difference, which is even greater than that of your situation.
Don`t listen to clowns who say you should absolutely go with persons of your age when they themselves date younger or older than their ages.
If she`s yours, then a little patience will do no harm to your relationship.
Kiss but don`t sex
Peace bro…

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