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Havesomesense:
When a Nigerian girl, wants you to make her a wife
She cooks sumptuous food for you regularly.

I appreciate that.

Lolssss, Nigerian girl I know can go extra mile in other to hook maga (husband) once the maga pays her price,uu will now see another colour

Kobojunkie:
and what answer would that be?

Raising a child without the mother has never and ever being an issue right from adam

Gentlerespect76:
I am not talking about a child's play here.

I don't get u

Kobojunkie:
Again....
A stable home for a child is not made with money but with love. You said you want to have a child out of wedlock with a woman. And I asked you what happens to the child when the women gets married to another man making your child an outsider where his mother is concerned?

Or do you intend on raising your child all by yourself?

U hv already answered your question

Kobojunkie:
A stable home for a child is not made with money but with love. You said you want to have a child out of wedlock with a woman. And I asked you what happens to the child when the women gets married to another man making your child an outsider where his mother is concerned? Or do you intend to raise your child all by yourself?

Listen woman, the world is changing so shall every tricks about marriage, loneliness in old age should change.
Having a baby with a woman should be a thing of mutual agreement.

JONNYSPUTE:
..... Forget the seminar and allow them to learn from their mistakes,that's if they will learn.

I have stopped preaching about it. My only concern now is to make my 4 boys to free be from women manipulations and thank God I'm seeing the result from my first and second sons.

Interesting, I must commend u bro. Your sons would always be happy and grateful for having u as a dad and father.

olabrinks:
loneliness is real I work with old people. The old men that are taken care of, are those with wives. The ones without wives sit alone in their house watch tv all day and sit in the balcony watching people walk past. Children will grow up and leave you. Family members/siblings/friends will not have your Time. Your wife is the person that will be next to you on your death bed. Women have it easier than men in old age, as people are more sympathetic towards women in general. But men are left to die alone. You will not be young forever, try to remember this.

U are talking about poor and introvert beings here. Maybe u hv never mingled with people a lot. I know many men that are waxing strong day by day without wife around them.

kay9:
Bros, you should know better than to be arguing with idiots. It's a waste of time.

Honestly idiots full for this country. Imagine telling up about the future that is not guaranteed

MufasaLion:
What I noticed in most of you advising him to marry is that y'all are just scared of being lonely in future.

OLD AGE THAT IS NOT GUARANTEED

Foodqueen:
Not really, but someday you just might wish u give it a try.

The truth is u will no longer av your friends Everytime as before. They will tell u they've got to be with their families.

Super story, same old trick, who give Bleep about married friends

efficiencie:
You want to love a woman and have a child with her but do not want to marry her! How old are you? 17?

His age is non of your business, u that's an ancestors How's your family

Solofresh2:
The fact that your parents marriage is not successful does not mean yours will not be successful
If you decide not to get married, the implications are: Companionship,i mean you won't have a companion.Another thing is that,it might deny you of notable positions in the future.imagine been a king without a Queen,a president without a first lady etc.
Another thing is that,it might affect your kids psychological well being, because they will also experience how things are done in the family way.

A woman will always be a woman. All u wrote up their is nonsense

JONNYSPUTE:
.... True. My wife knows I'm a very mad person who doesn't take rubbish so she gives me my space.

Funny thing was that she and her mum tried so many tricks to cage me when we got married newly but when her mum saw the madness in me,nobody tell am to advice her daughter properly.

In my house,if my wife knows she's gonna go out with me to any function,she gets ready even 30 minutes before me if not,I will leave her and go my way.

Men really need to be men in all things.

How I wish their would a seminar being anchored by u titled "HOW TO BE FREE FROM BEING A SIMP"

Kobojunkie:
And what would be the benefit to him if the woman ends up marrying another man leaving the child without a stable home complete would a mum and dad?
Is such a child any better than say an orphan then?

Which unstable home are u talking about here?
U would only hv an unstable home if there are no resources to keep the home going which is cash.
Or didn't u read the young guy that adopted a baby girl here in Lagos, after every necessary documentation, guy man sent the girl to US to go and stay with the sister?

Gentlerespect76:
Though getting married isn't a guarantee, yet it affords you a sort of stability in life. You already know who you are; you are an incorrigible, difficult soul. Therefore, work on yourself a little, then look for a woman to get close to, with whom nothing about you is hidden. If that woman is ready to tolerate you, that's compatibility. Marry her.

You see bro, you go regret tire if you had opportunity to make hay while the sun burned brightly and failed.

Maybe u didn't read everything, he said, u will get a girl pregnant without marrying the girl. It means, he can have children without any woman giving him headache and heart attack.
after all, what's the essence of marriage even not children

Kobojunkie:
The world will not end and no hole will swallow you up.

Your life..your decision. By the way, if you get a woman pregnant, you might as well have married her since she is forever joined to you as a result.

Not necessary, he can get a woman pregnant without marring her

Myrealself:
I took a lot of character from my dad that I don't like about myself. I have come to realize that marriage is not for me. I see the way my mum and dad acts towards each other, and I don't like it.

If it happens that I never get married, what is the implication of that for me? Although I might have a child with a woman I love, but marriage is out of it.

I need different perspective on the matter from matured people.

Congratulations for adding more years to yourself brother. Marriage this day no worth am, just give one belle mak she born and settle her and hv peace and rest of mind.

JONNYSPUTE:
....Eziokw Ka I kwuru.

See as all of them run comot from this beautiful thread. Women will only stop nagging if u show them small madness, but I'm sorry for the gentle and simps around bcs women will always take advantage of them.

JONNYSPUTE:
....Lol. This guy sef. Very funny

Nnam waiting we go do na, ihe kwesiri umunwanyi bu onye ara,

JONNYSPUTE:
..... Exactly bro. Umu nwoke kwesiri umu Anya Ka azu mgbe obula. Ndi a di egwu.

Ezigbo azu, azu kariri catfish self

JONNYSPUTE:
.....I doubt if ha achoro udo.

Nnam ha achoghi udo mancha manchaaa

JONNYSPUTE:
..... Lol. Is like you don't understand that women don't even see men who can take a decesion and stand by it as realmen rather they call those sissies the real men because they are very to manipulate.

Exactly, women are manipulative in nature, that's why whenever their is an issue in marriage, check it very very well, is either the husband did not yet to the wife manipulative nature or the husband is a very no nonsense man, that's when they would start their nagging attitude.
Having worked as a volunteer in an NGO on domestic violence and child abuse, my brother I saw it all, I don't even need to get married before I will know true colour of a woman

Mariangeles:
Oh! It wasn't yours? My bad then.



What does that even mean?
Udo ka anyi na a cho n'ezi n'ulo anyi, o kwa ya?

Ezigbo udo ka anyi mile choro, mana unu wu umunwanyi achoghi udo
Ke state giwa si?

JONNYSPUTE:
..... It's very shameful I must say

I keep saying it that we only have few men I mean real men in the society

Mariangeles:
The above was your comment, and I typed that it wasn't the case with that op and his sister in-law.
At least, he didn't confirm it.

The second was not my comment and beside the commenter was right.
The only thing here is that, I thank Jah for the kind of guy I am,

DogmaNation:
In 2015 Yorubas where shouting: Osibanjo will tackle the economy, while d useless idiot will handle security.
Now that the two idiots has wreck both,the zombies has switched monika's,due to shame n in other to be able to condemn their master.
Worthless useful idiots!

Lets u forget, Osibanjo is the head of the economic team

JONNYSPUTE:
....Lol. They are the problem bro not even the women.

Honestly, I don't blame women at all, I only blame the stupid and weak boys in men skin

JONNYSPUTE:
.....That's why we have so many weak men loitering about and reasoning with their dicks instead of making use of their brains.

The thing tire me, I have seen a situation where a wife resulted in searching pocket of brother inlaw without the busband saying anything, even searched husband own too, I don't just understand the type of boys in men skin we have this day

Mariangeles:
Learn to view matters objectively.

Objectively u say? Common dear check your comment again

Mariangeles:
That wasn’t the case with that op.

In fact, I believe there are some parts he left out.

As expected, a woman will always support anything that favours no matter the condition.

Godoverevery:
Abi ooo that why me nd my lil sis don't step is house anymore and I told him if he has any issh he should just call his wife siblings.

But right now he is the one begging us up and down.....only a foolish man will allow his wife create rules only applicable to his family.

Bro I own u for being a man and not a simp. We have too many simps

Godoverevery:
Thank you......infact on that thread it was evident we have lot of really foolish men on this forum.

My own blood won't be comfortable in my house because of my wife and her own will be having it al free.......not in this life.

I call them boys in men skin, they are many around.