₦airaland Forum

DrFunmisticGlow:
I could enroll you into my army of simps, willingly.❤️

MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOUR SIMPSON

Onyiiobi7735:
Don't mind him.
People that advocate this perverse lifestyle lack sense.
Common sense is not common.

We are talking about choice here and u are ranting about common sense, u see your life.

cocolacec:
Marriage favours men very much.He gets a free cook,sex partner,housemaid and all.
The woman loses blood or even undergo surgery to birth his children.The children bear their father’s name not the mothers.She breastfeeds them despite her pain from the CS.
Babies bite her nipples not matter how sore or painful she must endure.Sleepless nights nko.
Nature shared each gender’s responsibility so no one should complain of favouritism.

Which breast are u talking about here? U are just off point aunty. Marriage only favours women that's all

chloride6:
His sister's don't have their own kids to train?

His mom probably did her own quota by training him, no one has time train someone else.

U SouND LIKE A BITTER SOUL, PLS TAKE IT EASY, ABI EN MAMA CoMPLAIN

Saintmary:
He's never been married, never spent up to 3 years with a woman in his life, be deceiving yourself.

How do you know what goes on between him and the maids he's been changing, and how can you verify that he'll not touch the maid that will care for him in his old age.

No be Nigeria we dey?

Oga bring another example.

Aunty u are deviating from the main purpose of this sweet topic.
Pls be guided

Feelings79:
I got married early in life and is now divorced with two kids,after some twelve years.I have been living with my kids in the last fifteen years.The truth is that my life has been alot fun without the so called wife.The last thing on my mind now is remarrying.My own is to be having girlfriends and when we are done,each one of us goes their way and l enter another romantic relationship again. For a man, marriage is a hell of a place....

Abeg comrade take it, mak some evening newspapers no go commit suicide.
hope u don't mind sharing your experience with your ex

seanwilliam:
If I look at my parents and how they have been able to be together for this long , I always want to marry .

But if I look at some members of my family and the hell they’re going through in the hands of the women they got married to, I always rebuke marriage .






Left to me,

I will just go for introduction , sign prenup, then get her pregnant. I’ll won’t perform any traditional duty on her except taking care of her and the baby In the best way I can . And anytime she does nonsense or starts giving me issues, I will just discharge her like that. I know I can’t eat my cake and have it but I will never trade my peace of mind for anything .

U have summaeized the whole thing baba. What we have this day are just bunch of crops
By the way, I think IGWE 1 CAN ENLIGHTENED US
@PDJT's pls can and enlightened us here

Dirkcoyt:
Since marriage is a legal contract why don’t you do it like a contractor and a client percentage ratio.

You see contractors given 25% mobilization fee then when they see how the work goes they add more 25% then certainly the contractor wants to get rest of the money then he push the work further then he gets another 25% etc till it’s balanced then both client and contractor are satisfied without problems. Mostly it’s even the contractor begging the client to pay up that he needs his money that he has invested some funds in the project to keep it afloat .

Now let’s substitute the woman as the contractor and the man as client. As a man you’re trying to get the best value of quality and decent cost valuation from numerous women expecting you to choos them.

Rather than go the conventional way of fall in love and propose straight without letting her having something to lose and she’s having entitled mentality cause she’s seeing herself as she’s doing you a favor regardless of your responsible for her bills and house bills.

So you switch it up by reversing roles. If she’s good character get her pregnant first, do not do any introduction or marriage ! Let her be at your mercy as this time her stock is plummeting worrying about single motherhood. Bring her home or rent an apartment which ever works for you live like couples to make her save face , keep telling her you will meet her parents in due time . (By this time she will be doing all to show to you she’s a worthy wife material as she don’t want to go out again) you enjoy the cooking sex etc she’s commenting into the relationship in hope for a finally meeting with her parent for official marriage . Put in another child on the basis of you will meet her parent after the second child (by this time she’s too scared to leave and worrying who will marry a single mother of 2,she will be hoping you do the needful by putting effort ) after 10 years , meet with her family for introduction! Just introduction not marriage . Then pause again don’t move to next stage . Now this is like an official marriage Dangling in front of her then she wants the marriage after 5years of introduction introduce a prenup to her to sign . This makes her feel you’re finally ready . Then 5 years later do the official marriage that’s a journey of 20years. She has learnt and committed a lot to leave by this time and even if she walks out you got the best value of her early days already so even if she want divorce then the children are already 20 and blackmailing their mom emotional that’s it’s not the best time to divorce she should think about them. If she opt out still prenup cover you! Any which way you’ve had fun. Don’t forget to do the DNA!

The point of all this women treat and disrespect marriage when they do far too little to build it or contribute less to it! They evade easily! Make them also commit in a way and swear themselves out to build it that way it last! Don’t just give them marriage on a platter! I’ve learnt with my recent ordeal !

I can feel your pain brother, and its like this your narrative is the best, I have learnt something from u

aktolly54:
when a single father grow old, who will take care of him? Baby mama

U SAID SINGLE FATHER NA, SiNGLE FATHERS ENJOYS MORE AT OLD AgE THAN THE ONES WITH WIVES

seyz91:
confirm!

Na so man suppose dey stay in other to enjoy this life before joining his ancestors.

DrFunmisticGlow:
I'm a

BAAAAAADDDD!!

PROOOOOOUD!!!

WOOOOOOOMAN!!!

Unapologetic sweetie!!

Go-getter Queen!!

Temptress Supreme!!

Lolssss, that small simps wey dey deceive u

OGHENAOGIE:
God punish you and your entire generation bastard

HV u finished doing your boy boy

PDJT:
-There is peace in my home because everyone knew what they were getting into from the beginning- a polygamous home where peace, respect, harmony, and partnership (PR-HP) are the core values, and my wives gets treated with respect and honour- they don’t hide anything from me, and I respect and honour them without hesitation. We try and eat together when everyone is home and we have even had bath together a few times! Nothing to hide in our relationship, and when one is working the other looks after the children and do the school run...etc

-I always advise singles not to shy away from polygamy, and as long as they drop their infantile ego, they will be fine and gets all the protection they need, against the harsh realities of single-parenthood.

na to give u TITLE FOR NAIRALAND, I THINK IGWE NKE NBU GA ADI MMA

fxexperts:
Oga your mumu never do.. Did you hear of price hike in USA, China, Or even the UK. You should educate yourself. The reason for the price hike is as a result of the tariff imposed on imported gas recently by your darling daddy. For your information we are flaring gas everyday in this Nigeria.



BMC zombie and their followers spotted.

Don't mind all these foolish zombies, he was the one asking where he would do boy boy sometime ago

misterme:
Ok, my mistake.

Better reason waiting that baba dey tell u now before u join your ancestors, bcs if u join your ancestors another man go continue fucking her where u stopped.
U deserve better than what u are getting from your heartless wife.

PDJT:
-No problem. As long as you know what you want and that the man you’re replying to already has two wives.

Confirm Odogwu naha.

PROPHETmichael:
She said she can't use kerosene even for a day. That even her Mum in the village does not use kerosene stove. She said a few other unprintable things.

You missed the chance of returning her to her mum in the village and have peace on this day.

Gbamsolutely, when she said it, that was the opportunity it gave op to return her to her mother for proper upbringing.

smasher1:
For a woman that has given you 3 kids, wrong approach.

So he should endure till death bcs of his wife and kids?
this is dumb comment, every hustler deserves happiness and he should not jeopardise his happiness for anything including wife

misterme:
You are funny sir. You can't fathom how a man will set aside 62.5% of his monthly income for house keeping alone. Your error lies in the fact that you assume all Nigerians earn huge salaries. No, we all don't.

Let me create a scenario for you. Imagine you had a good job 16 years ago. You worked in the pharmaceutical marketing industry. You earned decent salary. You also had a legitimate way to make extra income while in the field. You had an official car. You met a beautiful young lady in one church program. One thing led to another and 3 years later you two were married.

Less than 2 months after, you realize you have made the greatest mistake of your life. You realize that the person you thought you knew is totally different from the person now living in your house as your wife. Within the first few months of the marriage she ran away a number of times from your house for several days. The marriage almost ended even before the end of the first year of the marriage. The reasons were so flimsy. In fact on one occasion she said she's done with the marriage because I gave my little cousin a small phone of 4k without telling. Note that she was in school then in the North and I was in a city in the South East. I visited my uncle (who mostly trained me in the Uni). His last daughter lost her phone. I just reached out and gave her my second phone after removing my sim. About an hour later my wife called me on that line but couldn't reach me. She later called on my main line. I told I gave my cousin my 4k phone. She was so angry she said she's no longer marrying.

Today I seriously regret not insisting on ending the marriage as she wanted it.

I can go on and on. Catalog of woes for these 15 years. There were some (though few moments) of happiness. That's why we have 3 children.

When Buhari came to power, my company downsized. I was redeployed to where I couldn't work because it will involve telling lies everyday literally. I had some side hustle then. I decided to resign instead of positioning myself for life of lies.
Perhaps that was a mistake. I tried but couldn't get another job. Either the companies needed younger persons or the needed some with MBA in marketing. Both conditions were not in my favour. I only have B.Pharm. I also lost a lot of money on forex trading. I was compelled to take up employment as a superintendent pharmacist in a Community Pharmacy. Ask any pharmacist you know how much community pharmacists who are not owners of the business earn.

You ask how I pay rent and school fees? As a Superintendent Pharmacist I get paid a reasonable amount every January when I preregister the Pharmacy and renew the operational license. This amount takes care of schools for 2nd term and rent. First term and third term schools fees are always a struggle. But God has been faithful, working a number of miracles for us including using family members to help. This is how I have been managing for about 6 years now. My goal is to set up my own Pharmacy early next year. I have been able to get some people to commit to financing it.

I don't have to tell you all these but I am in the mood to write today. Besides it helps to ease the pain the heart.

Everything I wrote earlier is the truth. Forgive the typo errors. I was walking to the Pharmacy where I work when I modified the message and typed the second part of the write. Hence the errors

I know how much a pharmacist in your category earns.
So what about your wife, is she still with u?
I am happy that u are a medical personnel and u know the cost of BP drugs. So u gat to do what u gat to do to make u happy

wunmi590:
The begining of your write up was so funny....

That's by the way...

Honestly, please never think of anything divorce, I have lesser experience in marriage, as I'm still new in the marriage world, please never for once think about divorce, as it will also have effect on your children....

Please call your wife and talk to her, explain the situation of things, and I'm sure she would change...

What I hate most in marriage is broken home, as I'm always careful of what I say and what I do at home that would warrant divorce, please, I beg you as the head of the house

So bcs of his children, he should just be dying in silence?
Op abeg this is the worst advice so far, op deserve happiness and joy not sorry and anguish. Op if divorce would give u joy pls do without looking back. Bcs BP drugs are expensive this day and if u die bcs of your wicked and heartless woman wahala, another man go continue fucking her from where u stopped.

Dreytonisback:
I have nothing to say relating the gas complaint

My brother @OP
Once your own wife isn't disturbed or pained or having sleepless nights just bc you didn't eat her food and watches you struggle and make scarifies, yet she's not bothered

Bros go do DNA, I use God beg u
If you no get the money tell me we go gather money for you .
Tufiakwa make I sleep for the same room with a woman who's unapologetic

Lights up my kpoli in peace

Op hacken to the voice of this man, this is the best and wisest decision u are to take.

Coly2012:
Oga, be calming down,"watin dey happen for okeke house dey also happen for okafor house," so don't take it personal,I gave my bike guy our cylinder to refill for me while going to work today, because madam insisted that it's gas or nothing,as she use stove to cook on Sunday n yesterday and insisted that it can happen again and me insisted it will continue till forthernotice and after much I non go gree! I non go gree she gave me a subsidy of 1k as support na him be say I buy am todayoooo.
Oga no marriage is completely complete,we just disagree to agree,pls give peace a chance because of ur children, family and future,pls call her to order as the head of the family.

U tolerated your wife does not mean every other man should tolerate nonsense from the wife. This is pure rubbish I must say, imagine the effontry. I can't just imagine telling my wife to use stove for the meantime and she refuse, I can't just imagine that

DrFunmisticGlow:
your children need that protein more than you

U must be a very bad woman, now I see the type of girl u are

Mariangeles:
E be like say you wan be like cubana chief priest.



Unless his wife allows it or is unavailable, that is disrespectful.

which respect are utalking about? well ionly blame the husband for tolerating too many nonsense

alsudan:
Typical of people from that side. Always speaking from both sides of their mouth.

Trust ndi sophi at your own peril.

DrFunmisticGlow:
wise woman?!

Hian!!

What exactly did she say that was wise?!

More like an attention and validation seeking, male identified mammy!!

Didn't u read it up their?
Attention seeker

Seniorwriter:
Im sure if it were you ,youll hail everyone that says or said trashy allegations on you.....

Deep Quote;
Only stupid people say so much about rumours.



You need to get a life....


@Seniorwriter

I'm not saying u shouldn't defend yourself, the way u were attacking everybody without even narrating anything is alarming. If u have ever encountered op from any social media, what is expected of u is to inform the public of what took place.
Why do u think that useless politicians could still come on air to clear their names of any allegation against them, even though we know that they stole but for clarity sake u always come to clear the air.

DrFunmisticGlow:
So?! We should come and get egg abi?

How is your statement going to help Op?

JUST LOOK AT YOUR RESPONSE TOWARDS A WISE WOMAN, THIS SHOWS THE TYPE OF GIRL U ARE

DrFunmisticGlow:
I'll politely decline.

Lolssss,

SensetionalGoal:
You better come out clean and explain your self
Are you a scammer or Not Just an honest question though.

EvEN FROM THE WAY HE IS ATTACKING EVERYBODY HERE SHOWS THE KIND OF HUMAN BEING HE IS

DrFunmisticGlow:
DOWNLOW NIGGA

Maybe u can come over, let's see if I'm downlow niggar or not.

DrFunmisticGlow:
HOMO!!

Farrrr farrrr from it my dear.