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Chubhie:
Okay. Try and explain to your girl in clear terms that the friendship you have with the hanky panky lady is not a romantic one and there's no way you are attracted to her romantically and that you value principles as trust,loyalty and respect.

If she doesn't get the message free her and look for another else, you've signed up playing her games the rest of your life. I'm sure you won't want to be in a relationship that offers lack of freedom,trust,loyalty and respect for the rest of your life? Good luck.

Will certainly do that,but if she still insist I have no choice but to move on.I just don't know why she has no iota of trust in me after been with her for close to 1 1/2 yrs.It just a pity after all have invested in the r/ship it all comes crumbling down just like that.

Richy4:
Thank God you now have issues.
Hmmmm I would have said you guys are living in pretends. Who doesn't have issues in a relationship. Even identical twins got issues not to talk of people that came together for the purpose of love.

Try and solve the problem. This will strengthen your relationship. She will come around. She is only being a woman.

Certainly,we all have issues in one form or the other.Especially when it comes to r/ship Matters.My point is we haven't had a major issue that ll warrant her to alter those words.

I don't think 'Missing you' generally has to do with her loving you.
It could be...

cruz22:
it comes with 2 memory cads..7k z 2 smal..10k last

I dot mind letting go of the 2 memory cards.Hope its the slim ps2?

SAMBARRY:
I don't have much to say but I'll show you what Tony has to say

He may be right,but there are still people who are looking for true love and are ready to go to any lenght to get it.

Richy4:
I believe you bro. But the question is if the reverse was the case, would you believe her?

Anyways Go to her house, seat her down and in a matured way explain that you came to her place to explain to her that you will not do anything to hurt her. But if she doesn't believe you, it's unfortunate because in a relationship there should be some level of trust.

Remember to do some bla bla bla about what you were saying with the other girl for 2mins.

Say it in a serious way no laughing or anything. Then get up and walk away with the highest dignity any one has never had.

With that the table has been turned. She will be the one begging you to forgive her for not beliving /trusting you. Believe me within 24-74hours your phone will be ringing.

This can only work if you got swags and pick up her bills some times.

Thanks bro, but we haven't had any issues in our r/ship.Am a one lady kind of guy and dot see the need to be frolicking around with other girls.Showing her love and care has been mine number one priority.These coming from her is now making me to doubt if she genuinely love me.But,I ll still sit her down and talk to her; hop she ll come back to her senses.

yellowb:
what wud u have done if u came bk n met her in a LOCKED room wit a guy? possible u were not doing anything but u don't expect her to just take DAT.

The front door is always kept shut from inside cuz it's a two bedroom apartment and i live alone.I maybe in one room not knowing when someone will walk into the sitting room.

Chubhie:
How did you arrive at the conclusion she's your girl? Have you presented the girl's father kolanuts? Forgive me for I'm old school. The new babe you were inside with doors locked while playing hanky panky have you taken palm wine to the father?

My apologies yet again for being archaic. I guess your logic seems why buy the cow when you are getting the milk for free?

Cuz we have been together for close to a year and half and am also opportune to know her family.Am think of settling down with her when she's through with her studies.

The other girl is just a mere friend childhood friend and we just talk about friends we missed.

Can you let go of the ps2 for N7000

Lol....2 wheel drive balancing.

Thunder den rily punish dat persin.

beycity:
If she does not believe you, then let her be then..

That just what i intend doing,cuz if there's no trust in a r/ship i don't see it ever working out between the two parties.

SUGARBEE:
She's just jealous nothing more

But Op tell me the truth.. What were you doing with the other girl in the room?

Thank you my sista....we were just gisting about old times oo.

So guys am kind of confuse cuz i was not in any uncompromising position with her,but we were just discussing. she came back from school and saw that the front door was locked and saw me with another female friend in mine room. Been trying to explain to her that she's just mine friend and she came to visit me since it has been long we have seen each other.And for the locking of the door, there's a logical explanation for that which she also knew.

But she has refuse to talk to me saying we were doing some hanky panky inside the room. as such am now on probation for the next 6 months.

please,Nlers you all should come to mine rescue.am innocent of all the charges.

Yes na....wat a woman can do,a man can do in excess.lol

Hi Nlers,have been having sleepless nights for sometime due to low patronage from customers to mine shop since a sportingbet business was opened adjacent to mine video game centre. So guys,should i also go into the business too?

Advice and criticism are highly welcome,but your opinion will really go a long way to safe a business.

similar scenario played out during mine brother wedding,when the photographer suggested that groom should carry the bride so he could take some snap shoots.Come see where mine bros leg dey shake like one cartoon character wey see ghost as him lift the bride on top of that,he was also sweating profusely.I had to tell the guy to let them sit down and snap the shoots,cuz wouldn't want it to be from church service to ER.

you were very generous to give them a ride,but overreacted by dumping them in such an isolated area.

It is killing me personally.