Madam beg admin to remove this story because your husband probably reads Nairaland a lot.
If the most of following are true then follow my advice.
1. He earns a lot more than you like 10x your salary.
2. He finds it easy getting girls.
3. His job keeps him away from home.
4. He's a smart man (You will know he's smart)
5. You suspect him even for a little to be unfaithful
6. He likes sex and does not like using condoms
7. He's from the south east /south south part of the country where the family members will less likely correct him but will fault you for your actions.

1. STOP SEX WITH HIM (IF YOU MUST, DEMAND FOR CONDOMS)
2. CHECK YOUR HIV STATUS
3. LOVE HIM, BUT DON'T MAKE HIM FORGIVE YOU ANYMORE THAN HE HAS FORGIVEN.
4. IF YOU ARE STILL HIV NEGATIVE. GOOD FOR YOU.
5. FIND A WAY OF GETTING HIM TESTED, MAYBE WHEN NEXT HE FALLS SICK, INSIST ON LAB TESTS.
5. IF HE'S HIV NEGATIVE, QUIT YOUR JOB BY APPLYING WITH A LETTER SHOWING THAT IT'S ON THE REQUEST OF YOUR SPOUSE, IF YOU ARE CLOSE TO YOUR BOSS ASK THEM TO DOCUMENT THE LETTER.
6. TAKE BETTER CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN.
7. DON'T GET HYPERTENSION, RELAX, OCCUPY YOUR MIND WITH POSITIVE THOUGHTS.
8. PRAY TO GOD, READ PSALMS.
9. PRAY TO GOD. DONT LET PASTORS COMPLICATE THE SITUATION FOR YOU. AFTER PRAYER TO GOD, if after two weeks of prayers and reading of psalms, you still want to see a pastor then go to senior pastors (like zonal pastors of structured churches (like MFM, Redeem, DEEPER LIFE, Living Faith) they are good counselors but take what they say as advice not compulsory instruction.
10. God bless you.

cleansing operations such as ethnic cleansing or what does he mean by cleansing operation/

Wilfred Ndidi is the most defensive player in England and probably in the whole world at the moment, to say that fielding him alongside Mikel will bring more defensive responsibilities to Mikel shows how less informed you are in fooball.
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what we need is iheanacho to start instead of Ighalo, Victor moses to stop crossing the ball and start passing to the striker instead, Idowu to do the crosses, Iwobi to play more centrally, Abdulahi to be more concentrated on his defensive duties and Ahmed musa to replace Iwobi as soon as 60 mins into the game.
And yes, Mikel to play as a deep lying playmaker.

loyalty and a good heart is what you need from a man.