₦airaland Forum

allen113:
Nigerians don't know how to talk. Especially when on camera . You start hearing things like eehn, hmm, you know, I was like. I was watching channel news and one of their reporters was using ahm, ahm. But if you watch stations like France24 you won't see their reporters talking this way.

Kobojunkie:
Suggesting that being single is a good choice to someone who clearly has trouble accepting that a man should, according to Nigerian tradition, be the sole provider for his family in Nigeria, is nothing to do with persuasion or force, unless of course you are severely lacking in the comprehension department.

Kobojunkie:
I disagree! Denying your spouse sex can be considered a form of abuse if and only if the one you are denying sex has not previously made it clear that she/he is not interested in sex with you. Your spouse is not some sort of On/Off toy you can flick whenever it pleases you. I know at least one man who has, for many years, literally told their wives that they do not find them sexually attractive, only to later turn to the same woman for sex—whenever their sidechick/sidedick refuses to play into their hands— and then complain that she denied him sex.

2. I disagree! Cheating back—in retaliation for being denied sex, or any other problem between you and your spouse (the two individuals in the marriage) —makes you a despicable person. It is not on the same level.

Kobojunkie:
OP, just so you know, marriage is not by force. A good portion of individuals out there are not married and will never be, and that is OK. If you can find peace in your life as it is today, there is no need or reason to need to change it or feel burdened to add marriage(or even children) to the equation.

Kobojunkie:
If your wife refuses you sex, you have every right to divorce her. Not shit on yourself by cheating and then come back when caught to play the victim. Any person who cheats in retaliation is just a despicable human being. Just divorce and go do you outside of marriage. .

Cybertroll:
It's so sad she's being oppressed! She is literally crying in the video and you make it seem like it's her choice to return to the toad who is harassing her entire family.

The average male mentality.

BIZNess123:
If US step there foot in Nigeria... believe me.. Yahoo boys..will cash out madly...it will be the new Afghanistan..

BlackViper:
Questions:

Who was using these 6 individuals to launder money for Boko Haram?

How did all the anti money laundering measures put in place by the Buhari administration fail to uncover this operation?

Boko Haram has experienced a resurgence since 2023 and they have become even more deadly and spawned splinter cells who are equally as dangerous as they are. They now use sophisticated weapon systems like grid drones and guided missiles.

Who is behind the funding these groups today?

FarahAideed:
“I swore an oath to defend the Constitution of the United States, but I cannot attack and kill my own parents because of a false accusation of killing Christians in my country.”

Suleman Isah Isah
Nigerian-born U.S. soldier from Kano.

Suleman made headlines in 2020 when he married his American wife whom he met on Instagram.

https://x.com/DejiAdesogan/status/1985014225907933443?t=vGecml7HXXDvBJAAGNyUKQ&s=19[/quote]One thing is guaranteed — Suleman is returning to Nigeria empty handed.

DaniDani:
Jonathan joining the race in 2027 will be a game changer. Peter obi will suspend his presidential ambition and support Jonathan. Atiku will put on hold his presidential ambition and also support Jonathan. South East, South South, and many parts of North will be a landslide victory for Jonathan. For these urchins, including the lawyer in the above article can cringe and suffer epilepsy for all I care. Not again to the demonic hurricane that has befallen Nigerians.

Chilipepper:
Lawyer addresses men who abandon children who are products of paternity fraud.

Glimpsetv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sz2rOdW_qFU?si=gGnoYubriItcqM3Y

pocohantas:
What did you do to her, Sir?

You were given an 18yo beautiful virgin and you turned her into a drug addict.

Like Ned, like Tuface. Only two of you can tell us what you did to your wives.

I bet you will use this drug abuse accusation to have full custody of the kids. Typical!

Tayorshd87:
What PDP cannot do for 16years Kai and someone will be hating APC for no reason 😠

Kobojunkie:
Religion ans wickedness to women, children, and humanity in general... Na certified thing! 🥱🥱🥱

Odobaone:
5000 war soldiers and green card for the ones who made it through

Mariangeles:
You don carry your private sensitive matter enter nairaland, abi?
If you like, let them make you begin doubt your new wife, and destroy your home, you hear?

As for your wife, I believe her body is going through a phase/process she's not familiar with, and everything is happening so fast -- between the time she had her first sex, and conceiving.
Just try to be patient with her, and keep helping her in any way you can, to make her feel comfortable.
Hopefully, by the 2nd-3rd trimester, things will change for the better.
You might not have to wait until after she gives birth.

Kobojunkie:
You people are just wicked. You wrap your lies around that book every chance you get all so you could humiliate and demonize women every chance you get.

Ozzyk:
I tried at first to reason with her excuses throughout last month until last week that it doesn't seem to make sense anymore....
When I talk say she go talk say she no ready give in until after 9 months
You won't even notice that she's pregnant yet
She's very active at her work place, goes to chuch regularly, markets, cook and other day to day activities

Maxymilliano:
Having her pardoned outrightly is a grave injustice to the family of the deceased.

May it not become a tooth for a tooth, particularly the murder cases incidents because If the aggrieved family or complainant are not properly healed, they could resort to self help..