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Two social media feminists

If she was a social media feminist, then the decision was in order.

A manipulative person. He asked her out, she turned him down but they stayed friends. When she eventually caught her "feelings" she gave an ultimatum, else the friendship was done. Not much regard for him.

Joyebiere:
I don't do business or associate with people like you if you have 300k to buy phone what is 90k that you can't let go that you are fighting a big company like Samsung

Them even give you new phone

Seun, comments like this is why this forum deserves a dislike and a permanent block button.

His university education was indeed a waste, because if it wasn't, he would have known that the certificate was not his personal property but the issuing organization's.

The most dangerous person to marry is a social media feminist.

Charging 50k for just 100GB. We'll know when they are ready.

QuinQQ:
Men had no choice. No man gives up kpekus voluntarily

Lol, if that makes you feel good.

QuinQQ:
If men ran,the world how come polygamy has disappeared in much of the world? How come in most of Nigeria you can't have 4 wives no matter how rich you are?

Clearly women won - polygamy has disappeared while hypergamy survives and thriving!

Women did not win. Whatever right they enjoy today are only because the men allowed it. Men are not as invested in polygamy today. However, the side chick culture still thrives.

QuinQQ:
So polygamy is also learned, enabled by women? These things are in-bred from nature otherwise a wealthy woman will happily marry her manservant as men marry their maids or salesgirls!

No, women did not enable polygamy. In their case they had no choice. Men ruled the world and still do.

Dtruthspeaker:
This one is about you exercising your own personal right to allow your house to be used as a female abbatoir.

If not the landlord does not need to wait for 6months. He can terminate the contract and give you your unused rent as you give him the keys of his house that same day.

No, he can't.

This one and Natasha Akpoti are on the same gey spectrum.

QuinQQ:
Believe me, even now she's still choosy. We are hypergamous by nature and that comes above everything else.
When she says man she doesn't mean just any man. She'd rather be second wife of that type of man she has in mind than first wife of a man "below" her

I disagree. Hypergamy is learned selfishness and it was enabled by men.

Samantha125:
That's why nowadays the number of divorce rates is ridiculously high, you guys are no longer patient in wooing ladies and end up settling for the ones you're not compatible with just because they were readily available.

That's some emotional manipulation. You're an adult. If you're interested in someone, simply let them no. No one needs to do any chasing.

I feel so sorry for her. Why do this to yourself?

Kobojunkie:
You are just arguing for the sake of it, aren't you now? 😒😒

I like talking to you.

Kobojunkie:
That's nonsensical! We do not know the first decision was not made by both parties, as OP owned up to it being a result of a mistake made by his person, not his wife.

2. Is this because, in your mind, a woman should be responsible for a child she refuses to abort? No need to debate this with you. Only a simple question will work here. Does the law recognize this premise of yours? Or are you merely throwing brain farts for the sake of it? 😒

1. Saying otherwise would be suggesting the OP r*ped his wife. That's a very tall accusation I'll rather not entertain. Logically, they wouldn't bring this issue for public discourse if that was what transpired.

2. I believe people should take responsibility for decisions they make. If she chose to have the baby, she can cater for it.

Kobojunkie:
Because she got herself pregnant, abi? Nonsense! 😒😒

The decision to have unprotected sex was reached by both parties. However, when the choice on what to do about the result is taken unilaterally by one party, is it not rather unfair to coerce the other to take responsibility for it?

Kobojunkie:
It is her body and mind that has to deal with the fallout of the procedure, so I am sorry, but you have to listen to her. 😒😒

2. Oh, she is wrong! Tell her that she will need to get a second job(assuming she already has one now) in order for you two to both raise the kid. You will also need to get yourself a second job to raise the kid that is coming. 🤔

3. She did not impregnate herself. The mistake was made by you, so exactly what are you unhappy about? That your wife refuses to murder the baby in her womb at your behest? Is that it? 🤔

No, he does not need to get a second job. If it's her body and choice, she should be able to bear the responsibilities that come with it.

I do not care what transpired between him an his brothers, but knowing the genesis of this recent social media ruckus, Mr. P deserves to be crowned as the king of emotional manipulation.

JAWBONE:
When will Urhobo, Itsekiri and Ijaw come together in the interest of peace in Delta South?

I know the moment I saw the 5th coronation anniversary of Ogiame, wahala must burst.

E don become tradition every August.

Itsekiri and Urhobo dey drag Warri from time immemorial now e don dey become wahala for even people from the area

No, the Urhobos do not drag Warri with Itsekiris. They own it.

Sonofgod1990:
I'm willing to give anybody that will promise me to vote for sowore 20k each


Just promise me that you will vote for sowore and 20k is sure for you.

Vote buying is a criminal offense in Nigeria.

ribbit:
What a shame.

A whole American president getting called a pedophile on national TV in the most litigious country in world, and he won't even be able to do anything about it because he is indeed a pedophile.

If he decides to sue, he would have to release the Epstein to prove he is indeed not a pedophile.

No, he wouldn't. The responsibility to prove the point lies with the accuser. If based on the information currently available, there is no concrete evidence that Trump was who the man alleged him to be, that's a massive defamation suit up there.

DesChyko:
I understand why they need a Business Developer.

Their last stint with Chioma Okoli cost them a lot which they are yet to recover from.

It didn't cost them anything. Just online noise.

If it was an ordinary Nigerian in whose house a citizen died, they would be cooling off in a prison cell by now and not giving press conferences.

Not a contradiction. Read carefully, they are talking about two different things.

Sonofgod1990:
Just 17billion dollars. Not up to a trillion naira

23 trillion naira.

Babatunjo:
I'm not saying you must be stinking rich before you date.

But ask yourself this:

Have you discovered the path that will make you wealthy?

Not that the money has arrived already, but you're so certain of the direction that it's only a matter of time before the results come.

If your answer is No, then maybe romance shouldn't be your priority.

The journey to becoming that man is painful. It demands sacrifice, discipline, and delayed gratification. Every hour, every naira, and every bit of emotional energy counts.

Many men don't become miserable because they loved the wrong woman.

They become miserable because they pursued romance before building themselves.

I'm not saying this is true for every man, but for many, putting purpose before pleasure would have saved them years of frustration.

The process will hurt.

You'll miss out on some experiences. You'll feel lonely at times. You'll question yourself.

But is there really another choice?

Share this advice with immature boys who have resigned to a responsibility of "provider" simply because they came to this world with a p*nis.

The responsibility to cater to the financial demands of a relationship is not saddled on men alone. The earlier you understood this, the better.

Be intentional. Do not ask people how they are if you do not really care.

When is BUA opening his refinery?

Wstation:
Absolutely. Artificial intelligence is a powerful tool, but it's only as good as the data, knowledge, and expertise used to build and train it.

If companies are hiring engineers back because AI couldn't meet expectations, those engineers should think beyond just returning as employees. They should negotiate better pay, build their retirement funds, and, where possible, work as consultants. The reality is that once the AI has been properly trained and the systems are mature, some of those roles may no longer be needed. They should make the most of the opportunity while their expertise is in high demand again.

They are being hired to make life more terrible for future engineers. Once the AI has improved, they will be dropped again, and the last state worst than the first.