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Imagine living our life without a purpose. Imagine what the world will look like if not for the powerful influence of love on our emotional intelligence and intelligent quotient. Permit me to make an assumption here that the man who invented the telephone must have done so in a bid to keep in touch with a loved one(s) in a far land.

Imagine you as a soldier, having your gun well loaded standing in front of your deadly but armed less enemy. Knowing fully well that this enemy can cause serious damage if given the opportunity. What will you do?watch him? Romance with him? Or shoot him? Also imagine yourself in a position to curb an ailment. This ailment is so deadly that it can wipe out the entire human race if not given urgent attention. You are so much in control that this dreadful ailment can be taken care of by you only making a decision and it will be binding. Will you sit down and watch while the existence of your of your loved once are being threatened?

There is a problem (dreaded disease) that is imposing serious treat to our existence. This problem is a respecter of no status (politically and economically). AM sure the acronym HIV/AIDS is not strange to you.

This dreadful disease has vowed to wipe out the entire human race if nothing is done. If you have the kind of ears I have, you will hear millions of orphans crying and still counting. Every body have been affected by this great enemy of ours. Fear always grip me whenever I try to imagine what this world will look like if we allow our enemy to succeed in taking away all our loved ones.

God forbid, but if we allow this enemy of ours to succeed, the following will become the fate of this our "beautiful" world; Wars, hatred, killing, gnashing of teeth, continual crying, poverty, endless suffering, stress, depression etc. This list is inexhaustible; just imagine whatever bad thing your mind can conceive

Posterity will not forgive us if we fold our hands without doing anything to stop this enemy of ours. Remember, we are both soldiers and people of authority. Meaning that we are all well positioned to stop this bad enemy.

Don't forget that our aim is to defend our loved ones because we cannot stand this world without them. What about those that have already been hit by HIV/AIDS? Are we going to accelerate their extinction by stigmatizing and discriminating against them? I trust you, I know for sure that CAPITAL NO will be your answer. Show REAL LOVE to that infected; neighbour, Sibling, Friend, Spouse, Relation of yours. They need us as much as we need them.

Before I go, let me remind you of something: The healing potential of of smile can no longer be doubted, so make sure you put smile on someone's face today- especially the infected ones amongst us. Spread the good news while you join me in motivating our people to action against this our common enemy.

Imagine living our life without a purpose. Imagine what the world will look like if not for the powerful influence of love on our emotional intelligence and intelligent quotient. Permit me to make an assumption here that the man who invented the telephone must have done so in a bid to keep in touch with a loved one(s) in a far land.

Imagine you as a soldier, having your gun well loaded standing in front of your deadly but armed less enemy. Knowing fully well that this enemy can cause serious damage if given the opportunity. What will you do?watch him? Romance with him? Or shoot him? Also imagine yourself in a position to curb an ailment. This ailment is so deadly that it can wipe out the entire human race if not given urgent attention. You are so much in control that this dreadful ailment can be taken care of by you only making a decision and it will be binding. Will you sit down and watch while the existence of your of your loved once are being threatened?

There is a problem (dreaded disease) that is imposing serious treat to our existence. This problem is a respecter of no status (politically and economically). AM sure the acronym HIV/AIDS is not strange to you.

This dreadful disease has vowed to wipe out the entire human race if nothing is done. If you have the kind of ears I have, you will hear millions of orphans crying and still counting. Every body have been affected by this great enemy of ours. Fear always grip me whenever I try to imagine what this world will look like if we allow our enemy to succeed in taking away all our loved ones.

God forbid, but if we allow this enemy of ours to succeed, the following will become the fate of this our "beautiful" world; Wars, hatred, killing, gnashing of teeth, continual crying, poverty, endless suffering, stress, depression etc. This list is inexhaustible; just imagine whatever bad thing your mind can conceive

Posterity will not forgive us if we fold our hands without doing anything to stop this enemy of ours. Remember, we are both soldiers and people of authority. Meaning that we are all well positioned to stop this bad enemy.

Don't forget that our aim is to defend our loved ones because we cannot stand this world without them. What about those that have already been hit by HIV/AIDS? Are we going to accelerate their extinction by stigmatizing and discriminating against them? I trust you, I know for sure that CAPITAL NO will be your answer. Show REAL LOVE to that infected; neighbour, Sibling, Friend, Spouse, Relation of yours. They need us as much as we need them.

Before I go, let me remind you of something: The healing potential of of smile can no longer be doubted, so make sure you put smile on someone's face today- especially the infected ones amongst us. Spread the good news while you join me in motivating our people to action against this our common enemy.

I often times end up quarreling with myself over the kind of thoughts that come into my BIG head. Must things always be difficult? is one question that runs through my head day-after-day. I always recount my losses In my supposed "quiet time". I almost wasted my lifetime having this "negative notion" about life- must things always be difficult? Well, thank God I did not.

I remember my schooling days; how my teachers always make the class subjects difficult for me to understand. They are suppose to be my teacher but, the only thing I end up getting from in ONE FACT-Learning is difficult. This experience is not peculiar to any level of my education. It spanned from my most basic learning through my most advanced learning environment. If there is one thing I learnt from schooling, it is that "the term difficulty is synonymous to learning"

As though that wasn't enough, I had to face the difficulty of looking for a job and equally face the difficulty involved in the actual day-to-day activities of of the work place. I did not find it funny climbing the corporate ladder. Managing my finance is another difficult task that I have to face. This took me to yet another bitter truth- The Rich also Cry.

The Rich also cry is a popular saying. I late to realize that even those I envy do have their own difficult and trying times. The kings will tell you how difficult it is to rule their subjects. Children will tell you how difficult it is to learn walking.

Am very sure am not alone in this my thinking. There many people out there whose SECOND name has turned "difficulties". Life has badly dealt with them to the extent that they can't even remember who they are (THE CHOSEN ONES). If you are one of such people, then we were ONCE in the same ship heading for DOOM before I was rescued. Am sure you will also want to be rescued, then is my own pleasure to introduce you to my rescuer. But before then, below are the basis upon which His help is built.

Love and Motivation are the basis upon which His help is built. He gave me this philosophy of His, believe it, it works and here is how:

Always have it in mind that the motive behind all that we do is love. When love is the motive (Love of God, Our self and fellow human beings), PAINS, ANGER, HATRED, RANCOUR, DIFFICULTIES etc will all disappear. Now, can you do what people perceive to be the most difficult thing on earth for a loved one?(yourself inclusive). Will it still be difficult? Will your ever feel the pain? Tell me the truth. I bet no is your answer. SO TELL ME,WHY MUST THINGS BE DIFFICULT? OK!

What do you think is responsible for you not feeling the presumed difficulties in that difficult task you did for the sake of a loved one? This is simply because you were MOTIVATED by the love you have for: God, Yourself and Others

You can see how simple it is to apply His (my rescuer) technique. So, why don't you permit me to introduce you to: My Friend and Rescuer. Am still sure you will permit me to do so. Here He comes, HIS NAME IS JESUS. He has solution to all the difficult and trying moments of our life, no matter what it might seem to be now. Do have a wonderful time with Him while you experience for your self that things must not always be difficult.

CHEERS EVERY ONE

Tanx mazaje, you have got me motivated thanks a lot

Emotivator- Motivator at motivationmotive.com- male

Garbage-In-Garbage-Out is a Computer terminology that has gradually established its root in other facets of life. The effects of various actions of our parents towards their children eventually become the product of the society we live in. For us to save our society, parents/guardians need to take their responsibility which in this case parenting is VERY serious, Outlined in this article are tips to good parenting.

Before I go on giving you tips for good parenting, I see the need to give a contextual definition of the term Parenting. For this purpose, I see parenting as "Hold me by the hand instructions which parents give to their ward(s) while they do what you your do" Enhhh! Ya you read right. This goes a long way to tell you that children/wards learn faster by sight than by instructions. Here comes the tips:

(1). Leadership by example: Successful parents are those that see wisdom in watching what they do in the presence of their children. Parents who Drink, Smoke, Quarrel, Watch Pornographic films in the presence of their children can never succeed in telling their children not to indulge in all these. No matter how hard they try. My advice is that parent should always live by example especially when the kids are around.

(2). Openness: This is one area that most parents tend to shy away from. There is I call "psychology of understanding" what this simply means is that people (including children) tend to understand us more when they have no reason to doubt our sincerity. This technique if applied well, will boost the confidence of children on their parent since they do not have any fear of hidden agenda on the part of the parents. They will equally confined in you (the parent) when they have any problem whatsoever.

(3). Creating a lovely and friendly atmosphere: If you observe, you will notice that children don't to pay attention to whatever you say or do when they are afraid. They hate being bullied especially by their parents. always make them feel at home around you. Please don't mistake being friendly with overlooking serious offences committed by your children. When they go wrong, take some disciplinary action on them making sure you clearly point out their offence to them. This will make them not to repeat it again.Tell him/her that you took this action because you care.

(4). In your busy schedule, squeeze out time to give them sound parental education: Parents are not suppose to leave the education of their children to the school teacher alone. The school teacher can only do the best he/she can. The truth remains that the bulk of the training lies on the parents. Issues such as Sex, Finance, Career, Moral Instructions, in my opinion are discussed better by parents with their children. This is not and will not be adequately treated by school teachers.

(5). Gifts/Rewards/Remembrances: There is no better way of getting children's attention than by touching their id and ego. An average Human being will have a sense of belonging when sincerely and genuinely appreciated. Buy them gifts on their birthdays even on your own birthday. Take them out at intervals. Especially when they achieve certain goals in their life.

The above tips should not be taken lightly if we really want to make our society a better place.

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forfeiting ur date wasn't the right thing to do. If ur a good cook as you said, this one inccident shouldn't be enough to get you demotivated. Come on girl! impress him with another wonderful food and while eating, teasingly point out that "Sugar jollof" inccident. This way am sure he will understand. Cheers