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Amefricaa:
Boss mi! How far na? Longest time oo.

Amefrica, sorry to contact you here. Please could you send samples of SOP for Canada study permit to my email - joeoge1@gmail.com

Thanks

Boss mi! How far na? Longest time oo. [/quote]Amefrica, sorry to contact you here. Please could you send samples of SOP for Canada study permit to my email - joeoge1@gmail.com

Thanks

prettythicksme:
cool pics,buh y una come dey jump jump wen u r not kids.

Just for the fun of it.. Some other couple at the beach copied us and were doing same too. I don't have their pics though..

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Nichobabe:
You say these are not photoshopped?

Cool

They aren't..

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naijaboiy:
[b][color=#1980BC]Can you people just kindly shut the hell up and fùcking leave this virginity issue alone?

Why are you all so myopic and mentally sentimental to a one-sided erroneous way of churning out thoughts from your filthy minds?

Some of you guys are real wolves and yes I mean it literally. Leave the girls alone and stop disturbing them for sex if you know you'll judge them later.

Like seriously I'm beginning to see so many guys as fùcking hypocritical dogs. It's the same you who would go about insulting a lady if she refuses to have sex with you simply because she doesn't want her heart broken.

Now you are opening a thread asking them to receive sense. Which fùcking sense?

Have you tried to talk to your own self first? Who even gave some guys the right to dictate and manipulate the way a woman should live her life?

You'll come here and open thread and yet you'll go back and be hunting girls. These same girls you are advising not to have sex.

Please and please let all these virginity crap be laid to rest because it's really irking seeing some guys acting as dumbheads and hypocrites.

And finally(I never thought I'll ever use this slang) please just leave trash for LAWMA! [/color][/b]

This thread caption got me laughing and this counter comment was epic.

It's the world we live in bro. We deflower them>>we break their hearts>>we bash and label them senseless>>pass them to another brother who will continue the chain process. Kudos to those of them that survive.

Op hope your life is pure..

cruzita:
op talk small small because ur mum might be on nairaland

Nah..I'm sure she's not

Estharfabian:
Guys actually care about Being virgins??


Okay...this is weird.

Not like I care now..But then I used to dream of being a saint

My mum still thinks that I'm a virgin. I overhead her while she was advising my younger one in her bedroom. If only I could reverse time...

Here's my story and a very brief history that should give you a picture of the kind of family I come from.

I come from a christian home with very religious parents, I'm the 3rd out of 4 children. My dad (he's late now) was a serious member of the "die by fire" group of worshipers, and my mum, a children teacher in a famous Bible believing church. We were all brought up to fear God, and to live by example. I remember doing evangelical exercises with my friend back then in secondary school during the break period. I even preached in the bus on my way to school. I kept distance with the girls, and will not socialize much so as to avoid temptation. They complained I was too shy, and during camp meeting in school then, when boys and girls begin to mingle, I was either on my own or with my close friend discussing the bible. People will tell my parents that I was the pastor in our family and things like that. I too loved it, and I can remember dreaming and telling myself that I was going to get married being a virgin.

But things changed, so fast than I could imagine in that aspect. I'm still a quiet good guy (if I'm to access myself), I've learnt to socialize a little, but guess what; I'm no longer a virgin. I lost it 8 months after I graduated from secondary school. Worst still, I did it with someone 4 years older than my elder sister (our 1st born). I was 16+, she was 23. She lured me to her house that day and took my innocence. Not as if I didn't know something wasn't going to happen, at least I suspected it. Prior to that incident, she was always being nice to me whenever we cross paths..
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Okay, now I'm in my early 20's. I traveled home from school for the Xmas break and one of the days I was going to get something from my mum's bedroom, when I overheard my mum advising with my younger sibling who is yet to enter the higher institution about associating with the opposite sex. She was using me and the others as point of reference that we are all well spoken off outside and are still virgins.
VIRGINS ? Well.. I don't know about my elder sis and my elder brother, but me, a virgin? I felt like I've let her down. I just tiptoed to my bedroom and began to reflect on myself. I'm not a player, but besides that girl who broke my virginity I have had a few more affairs, all are my seniors with significant age difference except for my present girlfriend who's just 6 months older.

I can't tell my mum I'm not a virgin, she'll feel terribly bad..And it's not Nigerian to discuss relationship matters with your parents, religious once for that matter. I have a few friends and they all think the same. Some say I'm shy, I act like slow poison, I pretend, I'm a pastor, I'm a nerd and jibes like that. But I've done things crazy things, I'm no more the guy who always dreamt of getting married a virgin and now I don't pray to marry a virgin either, I don't even deserve one. I think virgins should get married to virgins, IMO.

No much regrets though, but if I could reverse time, I'll not loose my virginity at 16 (it doesn't show I was breed from a God fearing family), I will loose it now, at least I'm way older than then.

Specialbaby:
i dont think i will fall for such.

You don't think ?

ehisdan:
If u build ur life on the advise people gives on nairaland u are doom.

My friend look for an alternative to render the help she needs from u.
Like: (1) Let the three of you stay together in ur apartment for the maintime.
(2) Leave the room for both of them and squart with a friend for the maintime.

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Chanchit:
This kyn thing I go just need to see the pix of her friend, if she garrit, then she's in, if not no amount of persuading would make me take her in.what would be my gain.

Her friend is blessed. Sometimes my girlfriend would ring it in my ears to know what I will say. My girlfriend is beautiful too, so I just remind her that I wasn't blind.

Thanks everyone for your responses. They were helpful.

Well if it's an exam, na she sabi. If she was just saying it..Hmm, I was just wondering what was behind her idea.

Cutehector:
Oboy see free hall pass, dem no dey tink am twice lol... Allow her sharply with all pleasure

Besides this her weird idea, she's a nice girl. I wouldn't want to consider doing something silly to someone I value nah.

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