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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by empirebosscrew: 8:05pm On Dec 31, 2019
GidiWoodsMan:


Is your kini also paralyzed?

If not why you never plant your seed since and see whether her family no go calm down, instead you dey play romeo and juliet

My kini cant be paralyzed grin cheesy

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by empirebosscrew: 7:04pm On Dec 31, 2019
ayobamiJR:


Upon all the negative talks and threat. My Niece got married to a BLIND MAN.

A hard decision. They are blessed with 2 children

That's nice.... they will continue to witness more blessings

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by empirebosscrew: 7:00pm On Dec 31, 2019
bukkielee:
I hope this is not what you look like

Lol God no.... I walk with crutches.... I dont use wheelchair sef

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by empirebosscrew: 6:55pm On Dec 31, 2019
obama30:


for reason you hide your identity prove something is wrong, you should mention your tribe. may be a disable from north hoping to get married from girl from south or south East whether old south East or new south East, how do you think is possible. let me make is clear if anyone want to marry out side his/her tribe that person need to have what men in her domain don't have. so I advise you to look for woman among your people, your people know your story even before you know who you are and is easy for family from your tribe and home town or your village to convince their daughter to marry you. I don't advice to attract sympathy or blame but pure truth. look for a woman among your people and you will see someone that love you. stop going to another tribe.

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by empirebosscrew: 6:47pm On Dec 31, 2019
Cryomancer:
A full picture of you will help us analyze the situation better and know whether the girl's family is just overreacting.


Nobody should quote me please.... I'm not feeling fine.

Lol I wish I can.... I can only say that i use crutches and i have never used a wheel chair before

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by empirebosscrew: 6:46pm On Dec 31, 2019
sniperr007:

Can you marry a disabled person or let your child marry one?

Lol before nko..... for as long as he or she proves they are focused and dont see their condition as an obstacle... why not?

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by empirebosscrew: 6:43pm On Dec 31, 2019
lilwetdick:
what do you expect

people lets be realistic in this poor country we are

they are considering the fact that you will be a dependent instead of a provider



Bruhhhhh.... I've been more of a blessing to those who come across me than a liability... dont rush into conclusions

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by empirebosscrew: 6:41pm On Dec 31, 2019
DonFreshmoney:
So what do you want us to do?? Give you our sisters or what?

My guy go sit down one side..

Lol so much venom in the speech.... dem shaa no born you well to utter such if we were to meet cos we are no match in anything

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by empirebosscrew: 6:39pm On Dec 31, 2019
Offpoint:
Let the rich get married to the rich
let the poor get married to the poor
and let the disable get married to the disable...

Stigmatization has been part of humanity since God knows when.




The world will never accept your indifferences, no matter how hard you'll try.
You have to realize this else you'll constantly hurt yourself.


We live in a world where by:
Graduates believe they're of more important than non graduate.

Uni grad believe they're of more important than Poly grad.

Rich believe they're of more important than the poor.

The whites believe they're better than the blacks

The tall believe they have more advantages of getting laid than the shorts.

The fair skin believe they're more attractive than the brown skin.

The long dîcks believe they can please women than the short dîcks.


let me stop here, conclusion is we live in a fück up world.

You can't never be accepted by all

True talk... doesn't mean one cant attempt to clear their doubts and change the status quo

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by empirebosscrew: 6:37pm On Dec 31, 2019
erico2k2:

At the level of understanding and development and IQ Nigeria is right about now this would be the case. The sad reality is if you were in the parent's shoes you might as well do the same, Can I ask you a question? have you met a disabled girl b4 for a relationship?

All my association with people have always been with the able... right from infancy till date
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by empirebosscrew: 6:10pm On Dec 31, 2019
Jodha:
This is really sad....Have yhu met her parents one on one...? If No ..I think yhu should meet them and show them yhur "ability" that yhu can take care of their daughter...and that yhu love each other so much...

If they're still adamant ..then I'm afraid there's nothing much yhu can do ..other than pray....if she's truly yhur wife...God should preserve her for yhu...

On the other hand yhur gf is a grown ass woman and the ball is totally in her court....She has to decide if she's ready to take a bold step like an adult and stick with it...
Her parents are not the one to marry her...neither are they going to stay in the marriage with her..

She's the one wearing the shoe and she should know where it's itching her from...

Just talk to her...Asin heart to heart...pray about it...and leave everything in God's hands...

If she's not yhur wife let her go...yhull find someone better...

I met her father. He didnt seem to have problems with me. It was after the meeting that I discovered her mother is the main issue to contend, who is not backing down on her stand. Well all i am doing for the lady is to encourage her and go for what she wants. Las las if we are meant to be together, nothing will stop it

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by empirebosscrew: 6:07pm On Dec 31, 2019
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Romance / My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by empirebosscrew: 5:58pm On Dec 31, 2019
Good day everybody. So I have lived with poliomelythis for more than two decades now. I have strived so much to achieve alot for myself because I never allowed my situation deter me from achieving my goals in life.

Everything has been going on smoothly: Education up to MSc level, a job, a car and things a man can acquire and say he has reached a level of comfort.

The one thing I'm yet to get is to be in a stable relationship. 99% of the girls I've dated never took me serious and we never lasted long. Some will even take advantage to chop my money and bail after a while. It got to a point I had a bitter negative stereotype thinking all women are mainly out there to exploit a man.

It wasnt until earlier this year when I met someone who changed the horoscope. Like she is so down to earth and actually loved me for me, without even looking at my paralysis. Things were going smoothly until she started becoming aggressive and emotional over little issues.

It took a while but she was able to open up to let me know how her family vehemently told her they dont want to see her with someone like me. They also threatened to disown her if she insisted on being with me.

Currently, we decided to stop seeing each other for the sake of peace to reign in her family. We do keep communication on a 100. We both love each other genuinely and we do not want us to split just like that.

What do we do?

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