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tot:
Thief! At least now you have been exposed. I am very very pleased about that. Everyone reading this thread now knows this is a SCAMMER they are dealing with.

Dumbass, your tiny brain won't allow you process the fact that I won't be bantering words with you if I wanted to scam people. Why tarnish my image in front of people I need help from?

Slow Oponu

tot:
You are vexing now that you know you've been busted!

Scammer. Get off the net and go and find a honest work rather than cooking up stories online.

Mad o!! See frustration oh, on top my case.

tot:
You are a SCAMMER. Pure and simple.

you are a BIG FOOL simple and short

RonKenoly:
Hahaha .

The idiot is pained.

Yes I am pained and disgusted at your level of stupidity. When you see the Yahoo now you will still fall, not like you even have money.

The PM's keep coming

tot:
Just stop lying. You have changed your story from loan to overdraft.

All you know is that the banker came home for the meeting, but you were the same person who stated that she borrowed loan after loan. You equally stated it was easy. Now you are singing a different tune.

Madam, I'm not here to please or make you believe me. I'm not the cause of your frustration...

tot:
So now you are going down the route of abuse because your falsehood is being challenged?

You have also used your own mouth to state exactly what you are.

Anyway, this your plot is dead on arrival. One kobo, you won't get!!

Lazy old fool. Keep wasting your life on nairaland. I'll overcome everything and update you all when I finally get on my feet.

RonKenoly:
Who are you telling that one to?

Fvck off with your fraudulent ways.

go Bleep yourself,scumbag.

Please nobody should PM me again, I'm not going to reply any.

tot:
I tell you, overdraft just like that.

If that was the case, Nigerian business owners won't be complaining if it was that "easy" as he/she claims.

Exactly:
- girl
- 17
- damsel in distress
- men are scum
all the core elements to appeal to people's emotions were ticked in the profile.

How do you expect me to know about the bank procedures? All I know is that the banker came home for the meeting and I knew of the amount and the fact that it's Overdraft.

tot:
So now you are going down the route of abuse because your falsehood is being challenged?

You have also used your own mouth to state exactly what you are.

Anyway, this your plot is dead on arrival. One kobo, you won't get!!

Okay,thank you.

RonKenoly:
Lol, that's way in my third paragraph I said girl or boy. You never can tell. Yahoo girls dey naw.

Even if it is loan, bank don't give that out without collateral. On that amount for that matter, he/she decided to change the narrative to overdraft after people begin to question it.

But to show how dumb he/she was, he decided to go with overdraft of all credit facilities.

The choice of age was equally suspicious.

Mr. I'm not asking for your help, don't you get it? You can't give what you don't have.

starstaz:
This is one of the best story I have read in recent time, whether is fictitious or not is another story for another day. U are a way high to capture the inner recess imagination of people and readers for a 17 yr old::: U sound too matured beyond your age partly based on ur exposure to management at that young age or early demise of your father. My submission is u have just unlocked ur hidden talents in creative writing and work on it. As for ur mum experience: Life can be sometimes fantastically sweet and at some other times bitterly awry. I wish her speedily recovery.

Thank you.

tot:
So it wasn't a loan but overdraft?
This is UNTRUE!

NL people, which bank permits overdraft of up to 5m?!!

Again, I ask, are you saying there was overdraft up to 5m so therefore no collateral?

Stop being daft and slow!! I don't know much about the bank process but your common sense should tell you that a Yahoo boy/girl won't leave loopholes like this. I'm not asking you to help me. I will work and will be fine.

Enough of the PM's please �

kaziblake:
Just ignore them Sis...Are you in PH?

yes I am

GMbuharii:
Your pastor,is he a man or woman?

Mtchewww

pastor's are not exempted.

RonKenoly:
I read all the story and the comments to is point, na only like 3 of wuna reason am like that.

I just dey wonder sai, nobody fi see the bullshit on this girls story.

Na Yahoo girl/boy type this story, and him don catch plenty idiots wey don send am PM.

That last part about men being asshole was done intentionally , e go make plenty people provoke but very few go one prove themselves sai dey no be asshole's come help am.

Na format, and the number of gullible people on Nairaland is becoming alarming. If na before since from the first page person for don see through her bullshit.

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Bigbayour:
is oil bunkering a business? Is your mum not a criminal too? Does bank grant loan to people in criminal business like oil bunkering? If you answered me, I will know whether i will pity you and your mum or not.

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tojahh:
@OP

Take my advice. Quit School! This is not what you need at this time. Leave that school. It will be rough and you can't handle it. Your mom's creditors will soon come for her head. Abi no be LAPO I just read?

Good thing is you're still in 100l and you haven't spent much. Call your brother back, you people should plan on who will be the leader in salvaging this situation. I tell you, if your mom sees this man again, she will still follow him and borrow more. Its not jazz, its foolishness. Quit School else you will suffer more. Even your family will.

I can't quit school, It's not an option.

budaatum:
So jazzed you gave her 60k! I feel you. Be strong. You will one day tell us how you learnt from it, and grew.

I don't understand, she's my mum and she promised to give me back. I couldn't say no to her.

dochenaj:
I was thinking it was a strategy to beg online, but then she didn't get right to it immediately. Maybe she is playing the long game.

While all she narrated could be true, I just couldn't get to believe that the banks are that naive to give a private businesswoman with no collateral a loan.

I could be wrong but I don't think I am.

I didn't post this for financial aid. I just wanted to pour out what has been eating me up as I don't have anyone to talk to. I don't care if anyone doesnt believes me.

Excuzeme:
All these long, winded concotted stories, just to tell us the bolded?
You are left-over and left-behind, dont come and use story to pour your frustrations on all us, abeg.

Where is the left over coming from?

Kennydoc:
Like, how much capital (minimum) are you looking at?

for now 50k

piagbara:
Pls start small, and u will be surprise how fast ur business will grow, anything food, wear and gadget moves like speed of light, but do ur on small market survey,

Thank you

dochenaj:
The only fictitious thing about this story is how your mom could be credit worthy to get such huge amount of loan without collateral since you don't have any properties.

It doesn't add up.

But it's the truth, like I said it's Overdraft you are to use it for a period of one month and then return it to the bank with interest. Also her account manager got loans for her from customers. So they didn't need collateral.

Afiahomes:
you are not a Virign

What's your business with that? Is that the topic being discussed. All of you are the same.

tot:
How can someone without a property be able to take a loan of 1m and then 5m from a bank? What exactly was the collateral?!

Nigerian Banks are notoriously difficult to get loans from not to mention doing so again and again.

If you know of overdraft, that's it.
And she was a big customer so it was easy

Respect55:
U messed up everything but referring to *all men* as assholes. So i will leave u to your fate. I would have helped

you all want to feel like gods always. Stick your help into your ass. Nobody is going to worship you.

djoe21:
If you bitch around, you will be treated like a bitch. We won't adore you. Don't let any book fool you. I feel your pain though but note that you have learnt a valuable life lesson so early which should work for your betterment.

What about your elder ones? Seem like everything is resting on your shoulders.

My elder sister kind of isolated herself from the family and she's in school too hustling for herself. My elder brother who is the eldest is also a student and in ibadan, I'm the only one close.

djoe21:
If you bitch around, you will be treated like a bitch. We won't adore you. Don't let any book fool you. I feel your pain though but note that you have learnt a valuable life lesson so early which should work for your betterment.

What about your elder ones? Seem like everything is resting on your shoulders.

who's looking for male admiration? Certainly not me. I have never and I will never!!

Les:
there are different kinds of love, the ones you guys gave her she had but she desired another.

Your mum made some mistakes, she didn't make use of her head. Don't on the other side allow your mum's mistakes to disconnect your heart from your head.

Try your possible best to raise up capital for any kind of business you can that would be compatible with your academics. Try snack making and confectioneries like peanuts, zobo drinks, meat pies, etc, these are things i have seen students do and do sell quietly in class even when lectures are going on.

Or you can buy pure bliss biscuits in cartons and , students love a tasty thing and you must make sales daily.

Your mum was not jazzed, don't underestimate the actions of a desperate woman in love, but my point here is if you believe in something like that, i suggest you drop it and believe more in positive things. Join a good church, be a student and worship God.

That above is the best advice i can give you now, at least from my own experience. You don't wanna hear my own story.

Aside from buying and selling, if you have other skills, engage it.

If you need any form of encouragement, dm me, I believe you need every support you can get.

Read my signature!

Thanks alot for the encouragement.

rychard:
It goes Both ways, many men have also ruined their families because of a woman outside, most times, all many of us want is someone to love and care about us, the longer it takes the more desperate we become, and soon we may begin to get depressed and doubt our self worth, so when a hint of love shows up. It can be consunming and easy to lose senses.

Your mum has lived her life, made mistskes etc, its now your your turn to live yours.
Truth is, whether up or down, life is meant to be lived, isn't it all we have , learn from it, enjoy the moment and don't forget to live

Thank you.