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frozen70:
Don't mind your mother, so many women have endured till they entered the grave

If you are very sure of your brother starting a business for you, its your choice to leave

Live is too shot for one beast to determine your happiness

BP drugs are very expensive do you can prevent it by moving out

I sat down last night and thought about my life, there is nothing enjoyable in the marriage. And I don't want my sons to grow up and become wife beaters, he doesn't mind beating me in front of them. I can't wait for the lockdown to end, I am certainly leaving, I have had enough.

Kenwood007:
ALL THIS FAKE STORIES JUST TO MAKE FRONT PAGE....

Do people get paid for making the front page ?

ShenTeh:
I 'see' your sarcasm.

Marriage takes mutual respect. The traditional approach is that our women are often told to stoop to conquer, while the husband often came around. But I guess this message may not only be late for a sarcastic and bitter wife but for the redemption of a lost home with two innocent kids.

You can redeem your marriage if you humble yourself - see, people will tell you to not take sh!t, that be a woman, etc, but hey, it's your life. Report his misbehaviour to people he respects. They will call him to his senses.

Help him by not rubbing it in. Compliment that by being humble and putting in an effort to salvage what is left of your home. Check tour bitterness and angst. While I strongly kick against domestic violence, I suspect your acoustic tongue and disrespect is most probably the reason for the beating. Redeem yourself.

Everyone responds to love.

Good luck.

So if I complain that my husband is a cheat and a wife beater that's means I am bitter and deserves the beating ? And why shouldn't I be bitter, if I was the one cheating and behaving recklessly won't you advise him to throw me to me out

Olawale118:
One sided story. Are you sure you are not the reason the man is running away from home? Just maybe you need to check yourself and make some corrections. But what do I know?

Certainly not, he wasn't like this before till he started having friends who spends all their time in the bar, that's when he started coming home late, the beating and cheating started.

ShenTeh:
This is your own side of the story.

Things didn't just jump out the roof now. What were you doing wrong?

I didn't do anything wrong, maybe I should have kept quiet while he keeps on cheating and beating me

I am really tired of my marriage, my husband rarely stay at home, he just comes back to sleep and take his bath. He leaves as early as 6 to 7am and comes back by 12 or 1 in the night. Even in this lockdown, I see other men spending time with their families but my husband would leave as early as 6am and come back late. Any time I complain he would beat me up, he barely keeps money for me and my 2 kids. My elder brother is the one sending me money for my upkeep. My mother is telling me to endure it would get better one day.
My husband even carry girls around, there is one bar near our street my husband takes his girlfriends there. He doesn't care about my feelings.
I am thinking of leaving after this lockdown, my elder brother is asking me to come back that he would start a business for me, I am tired of enduring.