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Nairaland GeneralRe: Pictures Of A Puff Adder Killed This Morning While Working On A Farmland by erfay: 7:14pm On Jul 08, 2016
Suigeneris93:
I don't know who's mentioned more on this thread, lalasticlal or snake undecided
Bits me too..lalastic blabla
RomanceRe: Dear Guys!! by erfay: 6:52pm On Jul 08, 2016
Dudeweedlmao:
It really makes you think doesn't it? But tell me what is wrong in a guy or group of guys sending you pm's and then you ignoring them silently without trying to look like a vapid cu.nt? You obviously know what you're doing in that very little brain of yours when you uploaded that picture but you choose to pretend or act completely oblivious like you don't even understand what is going on and why you're getting pm/attention

("oh my God, whats happening, i posted an attractive picture but i don't want any attention hurr hurr, somebody save me" )

If you don't want any of this just create a male account with no pix or you can just die and erase your dumb gene from the gene-pool.
grin grin cheesy
RomanceRe: Why I Became A Player TRUE STORY!!!!! by erfay: 7:30pm On Jul 07, 2016
2BB4CB3E:
6 years ago
I was in love
I literally had dreams of me marrying her
I will watch a movie and see a family and imagine her
Or see a romantic movie and think about her
Got so bad! I eventually had to sacrifice my future for her (turned down a life changing opportunity)
because I didn't want to lose her
When I hear a friend say his girlfriend left him because of s*x
I became better
Money I became more generous
Because of affection I will go to the beach write our names in sand
Arrange a picnic basket, cook and take her there
You see eh
I may be many things but when I want to express love I go all out
Every-time I held her or kissed her
It always felt like the first time
When am with her all my problems disappear
I wanted to build a house, wanted to marry her court wedding
What didn't I think
How didn't I love this girl
But......
My family is sort of proud so my sisters were always giving her cold shoulder
I had to spend my money and lie that she got things for them and slowly they liked her
Fast forward to 2years later
Am not stupid
When I noticed a deficiency I always try to make up for it
If I notice that I don't take my girlfriend out often
I will make sure that when we are indoors, she has the time of her life
So I always covered that area, made sure she never felt unwanted
I had a 6feets picture of her in my room "6feets"
There was nothing I didn't do for this girl
If she wanted me to follow her to hell I would have
I DIDN'T CHEAT ON THIS GIRL AT ALL, I DIDN'T EVEN TOAST ANY GIRL NOT BECAUSE I WAS STUPID BUT BECAUSE I WANTED TO BE COMMITED
Then she left me because a guy wanted to marry her (because she is yoruba and am not) and she felt that my mum will never allow us to be together
I didn't beg her! I told her that as long as she is happy, am happy
And I went home
Fell sick, had sleepless nights, was wondering what I did wrong
What didn't I try, if i could sell myself for her i would have
How didn't I make effort, there was nothing i didnt do for this girl wont go into details sha
They took me to a church cause I wasn't eating, pastors gathered around me praying, everyone tot that it was jazz
She went to my house 2 days later and was begging my sisters to beg me that she wasn't happy
That she made a mistake that I didn't beg her when she ended things that she was testing me
that i didn't fight for our love
Funny enough my sisters didn't tell me
My phones were off
After 2weeks I turned on my phone and went back home
She sent me 153 messages I will never forget it
I read each text
Twice
She came to the house talked and talked but my heart was changed forever
You see, when you do everything for someone
And that person hurts you
What really hurts isn't the person leaving you
Is the dreams and plans you had for that person
Being destroyed
took me years to get over her!
when i finally healed i realized one thing you women cry for love, but when you get it you will still destroy it
since then any big yansh i see, express road things
women cry for love, but when you get it you will still destroy it
no truer words bruv

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