₦airaland Forum

enemyofprogress:
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1AqvhhFZ6V/

Switruth:
😄😄😄😄😄😄😄. Where the Bros dey now? Children loved to be carried sha.

Urgent1Million:
And they had to make her wear Tinubu's cap?
What happens to a cap that would symbolize intellect or leadership?
So much for forcing this failed ideology down the throat of people at the slightest chance.
Anyways, "Etiyemonu" translates to what please?

OlujobaSamuel:
Lol, she is only likely to sign bill on children issue, sleep in state house, move around state office for the 1day, she no dey sign money out

Switruth:
You no even know wetin u do when you be small pikin...unless you grew alone.

popp:
It's not a mistake, it's their way of doing things. Especially this one to be precise.

Most times I wonder why all the children do this. They don't with an intention if I may confess.

Why must it be like this everywhere?

Britishcoins:
my target this year na to collect 2m loan from opay and stop using the account..

Goo0dHardDick:
It's not by that.

I have seen lots of families where adopted sons are completely useless just like this op's case. He insults the woman until she died and dude was planning to even sell the house until the woman's brother's children arrested the adopted boy. Adoption in Nigeria is suicide mission

Yorubastardz:
My aunt who was barren adopted a boy in 2002

Fast forward to 2025 last June.
This boy turned my aunt life upside down

He Insults her like mad. Disrespect her in front of visitors. Scold at her

This got me thinking if Adoption is worth it
Because the boy clearly don't feel connection

And during some of their outburst
He will curse her and her family.. Omo

After seeing this same pattern in 3 families
I have concluded ADOPTION IS A NO NO!!!!

notobiafrababe:
This is my honest take on this matter.
First of all, you handled it well by telling her clearly that you shouldn’t be the one she’s complaining to. That was mature. Once someone is married, especially to another person, emotional boundaries must be respected. No matter the history, you are no longer her safe space.
Now let’s address the real issue.
Marriage is not Instagram. Marriage is not wedding pictures. Marriage is not matching outfits and anniversary captions. Marriage is two imperfect people managing expectations, responsibilities, finances, personalities, family pressure, and sometimes regret.
Some people marry for love.
Some marry for money.
Some marry for pressure.
Some marry for security.
And some marry thinking “it will get better with time.”
But marriage only amplifies what was already there.
If she married a man old enough to be her father because she thought he was “gold,” then she made a choice. Whether that choice was influenced by comfort, pressure, or glitter it was still her decision. Regret after marriage does not automatically mean marriage is bad. It simply means she may have chosen wrongly or for the wrong reasons.
Now, to your question:
Are married men not spending time with their wives?
Some are. Some aren’t.
Are all marriages enjoyable?
No.
Are some marriages peaceful and beautiful?
Absolutely yes.
The difference is not age gap alone. It is compatibility, communication, emotional maturity, shared values, and realistic expectations.
A happy home is not built on: • Money alone
• Social media validation
• Age difference
• Pressure to “secure your future”
A happy home is built on: • Friendship before romance
• Emotional safety
• Mutual respect
• Financial understanding
• Honest communication
• And choosing your partner daily, even when feelings fluctuate
The bigger red flag here is not her unhappy marriage. It is her constantly coming back to you emotionally. That is emotional cheating territory. Whether she realizes it or not, she is trying to reconnect with a past comfort zone because her present is uncomfortable.
You are wise to consider blocking her if she continues. Protect your peace. You are not her therapist. You are not her rescue mission. And you definitely are not her backup plan.
For those planning to marry in the future:
Don’t marry to escape your current life.
Don’t marry because of pressure.
Don’t marry because someone looks financially secure.
Don’t marry someone you cannot talk to freely.
Don’t ignore red flags because of “benefits.”
Marry someone you can laugh with on a bad day.
Marry someone who listens.
Marry someone who respects your growth.
Marry someone whose values align with yours.
Marriage is enjoyable when two people are intentional. It is miserable when one person is pretending.
And lastly if someone leaves you thinking another place is greener, let them stay where they planted themselves. Don’t water what walked away.
Protect your single and peaceful life until the right person comes.
That’s my two cents.

princepee:
As we speak many girls are being lured...
Those girls get mind die..
They will travel from Lagos to port Harcourt to visit a man they have never met before.

Putindbutt:
We don't need him arrested at the airport, we need him detained when he reports himself at the EFCC office t explain where he kept $350m world bank loan he collected.

His passport has been seized, that's just one step out of many. Prepare his bed beside Malami, they will be in jail till 2031.

LagosOrigin:
I hope he's caught soon and the right punishment served .

May the victim rest in peace .

Vinnie2000:
Declan Rice.

That distance is too much for the likes of Beckham, Cristiano Ronaldo, Ronaldihno and Roberto Carlos.

Leonardo4:
When did you start to watch foothball. Juninho scores from any angle or any distance .he scores free kicks like penalties .he had a special way of kicking the ball. Check out his free kicks. pure genius. Juninho has the highest accuracy and number of free kicks goal scored

WhiteIverson:
Why is Declan Rice on that list?
Even Szobo of Liverpool is a better freekick taker
Cole Palmer is a better freekick taker than Rice
Harry Kane is a better freekick taker than Rice
Reece James is a better freekick taker than Rice
James Ward Prowse is a better freekick taker than Rice

And they aren't on the list

Na Gen Z Arsenal fan that use google list be that

GJames:
See how they snuck in Declan Rice there. Apart from the two he scored Real Madrid, how many free kicks has he scored?

Warldbest:
Them soon tire, and come back to reality

UncleAyo:
Reading the comment, I'm grateful we still have several Nigerians who use their brain. I saw also that others are already suggesting some spiritual assumptions...

This is simply and most likely a carbon monoxide poisoning resulting from the generator's exhaust...

Diamond098454:
Are you afraid of giving your girl money?

autoez:
Oshiomole should just resign immediately abeg. This is disgraceful. Shame on all the people of Edo North senatorial district.

ucnwafor:
u saw it coming. ..
Up d bluez

Ikem11:
I really don’t understand what this delap is doing in Chelsea. Send him away on loan

Edoblakky:
Chelsea is too slow when attacking and that's too terrible. Rosenior needs to address this nonsense

Diamond098454:
That is the type of men she likes not me

Toxic men will not see me

I love them soft and romantic

olaolulazio:
Ok....

If music no work again, man needs to stay relevant.

Mr P Mr P.

TimiofAbuja:
number of single mothers or divorce that will happen soon ehn

WizardOfNG:
Indeed. Those denying PBAT superlative achievement in the infrastructure development sector of governance are simply sadistic haters and enemies of the progress of Nigeria and Nigerians.


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