.. Toks2008:
Many people have died as a result of shock due to heartbreak, many are in psychiatric hospitals due to same reason... Many are in prison cos of their reaction due to heartbreak and I can continue to list several negative ripple effect of this avoidable phenomenon.
No matter how nice you are to someone, no matter how loyal you are, no matter the level of sacrifice you MAKE, no matter how long you have known that person...even if you die for someone, there is a big possibility that all you do can be thrown back at your face.... It is just human nature...
The main reason for heartbreak is when you have unrealistic expectations in a relationship... You expect the man or woman never to cheat on you.... You expect someone to care for you cos you truly care for them, be truthful to you because you are truthful with them, to always be there for you...but unfortunately,in the human world these are unrealistic expectations... The only guaranty in human relationship is disappointment and anything different from this is very rare so rather than expend your energy trusting I will advise you use that energy to prepare your heart for a possible disappointment...it is not about being pessimistic but that is the most realistic twist to it
If we are fortunate to be with someone who remains loyal to us then its all good but if they eventually misbehave, we will be psychologically, mentally and emotionally ready and it won't take us by surprise and we will not suffer from any heartbreak cos what the heart is prepared for can not break it.
Give your best but expect the worst... Love deeply but trust nobody and your sanity will always be secured.
Micah 7: 5
"Put no trust in a neighbor; have no confidence in a friend... " |
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