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My wedding day wow It is already successful for us Amen

My wedding is coming up in November by God's grace

MAY 28

Please people dont make marriage seem like its war war war!!! ...There are still good times in it and there are many successful marriages as well.. Its all about your mindset,tolerance,patience and maturity amongst others and not age...age is just a number. I have met older ladies whose behaviours are child-like and also young ladies who have good sense of reasoning as well and vice versa... Its not all about age please ..dont make been 21seem like 12. The op is intelligent,knows what she wants,has plans/goals as well.. Yh it might not be exactly the way she n her man has planned it out,at first but things will fall into place so long they are sure about it and with God on their side as well. Am 21+,though not married, am an ONDholder and i have a little business i do to keep myself busy and earn money and if marriage comes now,why not? what are we waiting for? so long we are guided properly in our decisions and with the right mind ...i dont see anything like war in it and am glad my parents dont object neither do they pressure.... I've got 2cousins who got married at 21 and 20 and they re doing well... one is in her 3rd yr now and the other about going for direct entry and has a baby also. while another being 34 or so with a good education and a good job still hanging there,waiting impatiently.. So please you dont need to be a millionaire or have an Msc before you settle down..dont make marriage seem like hell please be optimistic. There are so many marriages that have worked and yours can be counted as one too only if you take the right decisions and be guided properly..it cant be all perfect but you can make it work...fall in love and take your brains along side... I wish the op @Romance007 all the best in what ever decision she takes... and i really do appreciate the comments from GbogeyaD godofwar666 hayzed1090 Maruf05 ayoi GHoJels Prissyluv Massali quindebbie jaydelyn007 donpata and byvan03 .... bless

may 28... Holla birthday mates!