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J0hnTrevolt:
Im jus so unhappy.
Dunno why.
Nothing really makes me happy.
Iv had so many bad experience in d past.
From loosing everything I had running into millions and falling back to square one, got duped, failed business, came back from abroad empty handed and getting relegated to working as a civil servant in naija.(sobs)
Oh my life, the fact dat I get depressed each day doing civil service job,. Its always sad goin to work becos if only things panned out well for me I won't be here. I face so many shits from ppl im even better than. All I do is carry files from one office to d other Sweating profusely in a shitty office. They talk shit about me cos of my British accent and gossip wetin I find come dy do dis kind work. Well na condition make crayfish bend. Dat shitty job is all dat feeds me, wifey n baby. Sometimes I consider myself a failure. Couple of years abroad n nothin to show for it. No money in d bank, no house, no investment nothing. Jus chikeni money wey dem dy pay as salary as a civil servant wey go finish if wifey goes to market 3 times. life don tire me for naija. Ah no fit jand go anywhere again sef. Wey d money, wey d visa(sad)
I hav a beautiful wifey n a 4 month old son. They r living good off my peanut salary and I feel depressed they deserve more. This is not me. John dat was swimming in money, throwing money here n there for a good course. All my well to do relations I helped hav abandoned me even as they doing very well.
Im jus a depressed soul. I wonder if I would die like dis. Sad man I am.

adanny01:
I have watched alot of National Geographic wild but cant figure what it is.

I can only say for sure its a tree dweller.

Modified

EUREKA!!!

I have been searching and finally got it.

Its called a Potto.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Potto

engrchykae:
my advice to fellow guys is to be careful with girls,there are some girls u will be dating and u wont prosper and only the girl will be prospering,am not envious but my idea of relationship is a scenario where man and woman are prospering,anything short of this is an error.op,if you truly love him,help him or let him go,u might be the cause of his problem without knowing it.i had such an experience and when we separated september last year,i had three opportunities that am in a dilemma as to what to choose.

berrystunn:
Your boyfriend is From where...?
Different state with different advice...

cutediva87:
see how people are just talking any how, saying things like if it were to be the guy would he open a thread before given her the money to start something. but men hardly give girls that kind of money they can give you money for cloth, shoes, hair and Man other things but not for business. and God has already made it that it is the men that is suppose to give to the woman

we are in Nigeria for God's sake, we all know how Nigerians react when they hear things like this they'll start telling she's trying to buy his love with money.

she jus asked for advice for God's sake simply yes or no would have been OK but no, people, especially men like to insult ladies when they are nice and humble, and then worship bitch.es. Niger men sef

Oblackq:
U dnt seem confused. U actually seem desperate. Probably u wanna use d money u wanna give 2him as Bait? Dosent work dat way. U should knw beta. D answers u seek are dancing shoki around u.

Eke40seven:
It happens too often, veery often. I think his quick talk about marriage is influenced by the fact that you are in Germany already. Why always Germany. I have at least three stories of regret from the female folks in Germany helping out guys already. Are you going to be one of the many victims, well.... It depends.
So many things i can't say on this forum.

fergieboy:
You are a very good girl.. Most girls I know traveled out and dump their bfs

Odunharry:
Imagine.. Only in this part of the world many ladies wilk think n think before helping someone they claim to love.
whereas, guys don't evn see it as a big deal doing more for them.

ToriBlue:
Does he talk about marriage?

jejemanito:
If All Guys Open Threads To Seek Opinions Before Giving Their Girlfriends Money, The Number Of Threads On Nairaland For Don Reach 10 Million

Berbierklaus:
Gbam!!!
Because he is probably with other girls already,so if you wanna help,help for no return or reward.

I hate to hear he dumped me after I spent my life savings on him

waleyp:
IF ITS POSSIBLE TO GET HIM A GERMAN VISA THATS COOL AT LEAST YOU CAN MONITOR HIM AND BE CLOSER TO HIM AND IF YOU REALLY WANT TO GIVE HIM MONEY TO START A BUSINESS THERE ARE TWO THINGS INVOLVED 1) WILL HE STILL STICK TO YOU AFTER YOUR HELP? 2) BE READY FOR YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND OR HEART BREAK. HELPING HIM IS GOOD BUT BE READY FOR POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE OUTCOME

MrDandy:
The fact that you're keeping a long distance relationship is the first error; and it should be the first thing you should be thinking about

ifex370:
No real man will ask you for money..

If u wanna help.. Do so at the largeness of your heart

olac21:
Well,for all we know you didnt tell us how the relationship was before you travelled..but then,tell him you want to lend him a certain amount so he wont feel he has gotten a cash cow..