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One of the worst feelings in Relationship is When You Think Your Man or Woman is Cheating on you. This feelings won't only kill your relationship gradually but will also damage you emotionally, psychologically, and the worst part of it is you find yourself monitoring your partner. Smiles, I call this imaginary competition,'You are virtually Competing with something that is not there, you are competing with yourself-assumption.



You Keep searching His or Her phone to meet up with your imagination, you keep looking for his or her faults, subconsciously you keep looking for it until the day you find what looks like your imagination. Probably you saw your partner having a conversation with someone you think he or she is having something to do with, and you became a nuisance by making scenes, openly disgracing your partner on something that doesn't exist.



Wouldn't it better to ask your partner? "Baby (or call his or her pet name, you know it) , I'm having strange feelings lately about you, hope we are good?" this type of question is very polite because it doesn't sound weird, you just want to know anyway if something is wrong. Hear what Your partner have to say and MOVE On, I mean forget it, don't over think, let what you feel for your partner override this strange feelings. Don't ever show your partner you are insecure about them. Instead try to remember what you guys have discussed, promises you guys have had and let it go. Tell Your partner you love them and love them exactly how you feel about them.



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