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So Men are the only one searching for love in Nigeria?


What about women who did all of the above but still get dumped?



#Sexist Crap!

Truth is that on a Norm, it is men that find love not women... You don't normally expect a lady to go on a search for whom to end up with.

I do not blame anyone for the reasons why it is kinda difficult to find true love in Nigeria. But the truth be told, if you are lucky enough to get that person who is ready to sacrifice every thing just to be with you in Nigeria, do every thing in your power to take care of them. The economy we find ourselves have changed virtually everything about us including our adaptivity and survival. People no longer get married to the ones they love because of a limitation which is money precisely. Some girls tend to deny whom they love just to live a comfortable life with that rich man. It is not at all a funny matter, may be I haven't been to places. But as for Nigeria that I am presently in is alarmingly surprising that most girls, ladies or women want to marry for money. Everyone wants to live a comfortable life, the purpose of marriage doesn't matter anymore. I attended a church and the pastor said "marriage is not marrying someone you love but someone with the same dream". Up till date I hardly find people who marry for the sake of same dream thing. Survival has become the determinant in our world today. But where is true love? does this term still exist? At times, I don't even know the real definition of true love. Everything has almost become a mixed up. If I will live the rest of my life marrying someone for the sake of money, what about continuity, endurance and management after marriage? Will I be able to love and care for this person after math? The fact that we all want to live fine has overcome the way we want to really live. Everybody wants to be wealthy. I will never advise you to marry for money. True love requires sacrifice; you will not find that easily. You might not find someone who is ready to struggle with you. Most ladies want all ready made product, they do not want to know about the processes.







THE QUESTION IS HOW DO I FIND MY TRUE LOVE HERE IN NIGERIA?



#1 – FORGET ABOUT BEAUTY

Men are always the cause, when you set a target you don't get outside your target. A man that wants true love will not set a beauty contest target or an eight shape or curvy competition. All he thinks about is a Love that is true and rare. You will find one when you think like this.



2# – HIDE YOUR WEALTH

Most of time you don't find true love showing off. You end up packing all sorts when you are showing off your wealth. You hardly find yourself around the real ones, only fake ones who wants to spend your money will move close. Money doesn't entice her easily, she just want to be happy with her better half. Keep your money please but it doesn't mean you shouldn't buy her things



3# – LET HER SPEND FOR YOU

She will buy you gift unexpectedly to show you how much you mean to her; she will invest so much in this gift. She just want to choose the best for you to know she loves you so much. Don't go for a careless lady – she doesn't fear you. The lady who is in love with you won't want to make mistake easily when you are around because she just want you to love her more. But that doesn't mean she is perfect.



4# – SHE WILL CARE SO MUCH

She doesn't joke with your issues. She is up in the night to think through your problems. She cares a lot like she is on fire. She wants you to be happy just like she's fixing herself up too.



6# – SHE WILL BE RARE

She will be so different from those spenders you call slay queens. She will be their boss because she doesn't act stupid. She is born to be rare. All she wants to do is make sure she doesn't act careless or flown around men. "You can keep your money" is her best quote.



7# – SHE WON'T HIDE A THING

When she begins to trust you, she won't hide anything from you. She tells you all her past, she get to find a way to make you meet her relatives, friends and families. She visits your mother and take care of her. She is married to everyone linked to you especially your siblings if you have one.



Be very careful, marriage is a lifetime thing. We do not support #DIVORCE.

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A man's life might have been influenced by many experiences in the past that might have changed who he really is. Which normally have a great side effect in his relationship. From the way he sees love, down to the way he treats the lady he so much love. At times, he doesn't know the right way to act, the right way to properly show how he feels and which tend to reduce the progress of the relationship. But the truth is that most of time, the lady in the picture doesn't understand. She concludes that he is just like that and will never change. I do not want to tell you to hang on in there but at the same time not telling you to leave him be. You might also have a great impact in his life, if you want to change that habit you detest so much in him. He might be a smoker, a drunker or a bettor or punter or other worst things you can not imagine. Majority of these habits are learnt from peers or might even be as a result of depression or loneliness before you came into his life, you never can tell. I'm so sure he wants to change as much as you want to change him but addiction is not an easy to let go thing. You are the only one that can help him, if you leave him because of his habits, who will then help him scale through them? If you truly love him that much, you will never leave him because of what he is going through. Instead, you will stand by him and take care of him. I must say, habit of any kind is suffering and bondage, no freedom at all is said to have come to play.
Have you made up your mind? If no, break up with him. But if yes, let's get on the ride!

HOW TO HELP HIM OUT

#1. VALUE
The first thing you should do is make him realize his worth and value. Tell him how smart he is without that habit(s) in the picture since you've known it or them. Always find a way to make him know his worth and how stupid those habits look on him.

#2. GIVE REASONS
Every habits have one or two to 10 things to tell on the health not to talk of psychological effects or trauma. You have to give genuine reasons why he should stop. Tell him you want to grow old with him and without him leaving those habits in the picture, it might be difficult to grow old together. Though, he already knows those habits shorten life, but it's much more better to remind him and make him input discipline to stop.

#3. SUPPORT
One of the best ways to make him stop is helping him through the processes. You cannot just tell him to stop with words alone without any support. It is so difficult to stop any habit alone without the help of anyone, just like when he started. I'm pretty sure that someone gave him inspiration to start. Someone needs to give him another inspiration to stop. That's how it works

#4. AVAILABILITY
Always be available for him. Do not give him a room to be alone. The best way to avoid habit is reduction of alone times.

#5. STOP READING ARTICLES
You need to stop reading more articles on how to help him stop his habit because it becomes more complex in the end. The more you read articles on how to stop his habits, the more you find a lot of to-do list which becomes bulky and tiring.

#6. CALL HIM
Give him a call if you are not able to make it to his place. Let him feel, someone is there watching him and taking care of him. He will be careful of everything he does.

#7. MAKE HIM HAPPY
Do not allow any forms of depression in him. Make him happy as possible as you can. You can give him a surprise gift or throw a surprise party for him. Just to give him more inspiration to stop.

#8. USE ABSTAINING (MINIMUM OF 30 DAYS)
New habits and belief is formed in minimum of 30days. Let him abstain for thirty days and watch how his life begins to change drastically. There's no drugs to stop any habit, only abstinence works.

#9. PRAY
You can always support him in prayer which is the warfare of the spirit. There's nothing that cannot be solved through prayer, in fact it works faster than anything. Things that we see in the physical have been manifested first in the spiritual realm. If it is so difficult to help him physically, then apply for spiritual realm and it works! Without fail.

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Most people believe that men are polygamous in nature i.e He cannot settle for just one wife. But that's not true, the holy Bible makes us to understand that it is one man, one woman. God created each and everyone of us with a soul mate not soul mates. Any other side chick a man wants or already indulge in will surely make a.... Read full article :
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Marriage is not just the joining of two people together to become husband and wife, it is more, Marriage according to the Bible marriage can't be broken in this world. When you are married to someone, You are Always married to the person as far as you are in this world and marriage is not a day journey. We tend to get things wrong due to the ever changing world, bad influence as a result of what he hear over the TV, influence from friends and more that you know only if you will admit to it.

You need to know that most of the love stories, movies you watch and read are inspired as a result of making wealth and not to change lives, only very few will tell you the truth that they know. IF you love someone that much, no matter what, you are just with the person because what you guys have, nothing is strong enough to shake it off. And that is true Love but it's not ENOUGH! to live with someone until death, and some crazy lovers say "DEATH CAN'T DO US APART". Falling IN LOVE is In fact the number one criteria for marriage but it is not enough to run into marriage, you need to learn a lot of things which I'm going to discuss the basic below.



1. LEARN TO LOVE YOUR PARTNER WHEN YOU ARE UPSET

The Funniest part is that people don't take note of this area in their relationship, we tend to show love only when we are happy with our partner. Ask Yourself "Do I Love Him/Her when I'm very upset?". If partners can truly answer this question and answer turned to be YES, then you guys are good to go. Because I would never think of DIVORCE even when we have differences if I truly love him/her when I'm upset. Truly Falling in love with someone covers this aspect, you don't just learn to cope but the love you have towards the person already coped with all the differences.



2. LEARN TO BE 100% CARING

You need to know this too because it is one of the most essential properties that holds the family. Your partner is not robot especially your Wife, she is not a cooking machine, Help her out. Yeah! You are the man but something doesn't know you are! which is the True love that you guys share. Learn how to baby sit because you are going to need it. Learn to do hair-thing for your partner, vice versa. Learn to cuddle to sleep, Learn everything that will make you take care of your partner. You can't do all those things mentioned until you swallow your Pride.



3.SWALLOW ALL YOUR EGOS AND PRIDE FOREVER.

This will always be an advice, Please swallow your egos and pride forever because they don't exist in Marriage. Okay? But why should I swallow them?. You won't need your pride and egos anymore because you will be living with this person forever. And not only that, saying sorry shouldn't be a hard thing to do but should be the easiest thing to say. There's nothing you can't do for your partner right? If your answer is YES, them you don't need your pride and egos anymore.

Note: PRIDE AND EGOS are the quickest things that destroys Families, relationships and do partners apart so swallow them forever.



4. LEARN TO COOK

Take up this as a challenge before you run into marriage, I'm not differentiating male from female, I'm referring to both partners because you guys would need it. Learn it and do it, cook for her, cook for him. It won't be difficult or a hard thing to do after marriage. You virtually know romantic things to do for your partners before they wake up. Cook and dish out their food near them, then wake him/her up to taste your delicacies, Ask how them about the food, Do you like It?

It is difficult to break up homes that both partners are ready to take up the challenge to help out each other because their connections are very high and nearly impenetrable. This point is part of ways you can connect with your partner.



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women love love.They are taught from a very young age that being in love is a defining factor but, unfortunately, many women lose the men they love because they are too in love with love and not in love enough with themselves.



Put your life first and establish a social life outside of the relationship.



The quickest way to lose a man’s interest is to make him your number one priority. This is not attractive to men who inherently need, desire and want a challenge. Too many women give up their lives for their man and in doing this they become uninteresting. Keep your lives ladies. You have wonderful lives, friends and passions. Never sacrifice those things for a relationship. The more full you are and the more you love yourself, the more your man will love you too.







1. Break routine

We are all creatures of habit and familiarity can feel really good. But don't allow your relationship to get stagnant by always doing what you think your boyfriend wants. Be committed to your life first and then fit him in. This will make you much happier as a person and more attractive to him.



2. Be confident and turn away from him at times

If you feel your man is becoming distant or not as interested, this is a sign that he is becoming bored in the relationship. If he is bored and you check yourself, you will probably see that you are also bored, so all it takes is a little turning away from him, be a little aloof and he will come looking for you. Remember, men are like cats, if you ignore them, they will come and purr at your feet but if you constantly give them attention, they will go away into a solitary place.



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While it's hard to win her back, it's not impossible: here are 5 rules to help.





Before I proceed, I will like to clarify something which is really important in any relationship, You already Have her doesn't stop you from dressing well, what guys don't understand is that you should keep getting her everyday.

Attraction is the basic of all relationships quote me Anywhere... You think she's going no where already? Keep taking care of yourself and make her want you more. Because she gets to see new faces everyday, what you don't know is that she's been wooed too. Just make her crush on you while you still have her and while you still have the chance. In short, Don't ever let her lose your attraction.



It happens to the best of us: Things are going great and then, seemingly out of nowhere, she turns into an ice queen. Whether it’s spontaneous (such as in the middle of a date) or the much more common scenario I focus on here where she won’t return your calls or texts after a seemingly great time, women go from hot to cold ALL THE TIME.





HER SUDDENLY LOSING INTEREST IS COMMON

The first thing to understand when this happens is that this behavior is very common, normal, and often times, not your fault. It is very easy to try to think back at what you did that caused her to suddenly lose interest, and this is a good exercise, but there are many cases where you will have done nothing wrong. Bottom line, don’t get down on yourself if this happens to you.



IF SHE LOST INTEREST, IT’S BAD, BUT THERE IS HOPE

Before you get too excited, I do want to point out that there are a good number of situations where she has simply lost interest and attraction and there isn’t much you can do about it. I would even go as far as saying that this is, sadly, the most likely outcome, regardless of what seduction gurus etc. would like you to believe. With that bad news out of the way though, there are enough situations where you can win her back that it is worth putting in some effort to try; women who have gone cold can and do sometimes rapidly heat up again.





5 RULES TO HELP YOU WIN HER BACK

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This is the most powerful, stunning and exclusive guide written in easy to read eBook style format, by a team of relationship experts, for helping you to magically get back your ex-girlfriend and ex-boyfriend. Everything you need to get back your ex under one page.



Contents

Introduction: Getting Your Ex Back

How To Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back: 20X Faster?

The 30 Day Rule

How To Get Your Ex-Boyfriend Back?

How To Get Your Ex-Back By Text Message?

How To Get Your Ex Back When He Or She Has Moved On?

How To Get Your Ex-Boyfriend To Want You Back?

How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend After He Dumped You?

10 Signs That Your Ex Wants You Back









Introduction: Getting Your Ex Back

You know it. Breakups hurt to the moon. For a second, it may make you feel hopeless and confused on what to do. The loneliness and depression are enough to ruin someone’s life forever.



And the worst part is that it can make a person experience a sense of low self-esteem which is important to their well being. It is no secret that thousands of people commit suicide happen every year because of the breakup.



Lots of guys struggle with breakup every day. In fact, if you look at the recent statistics on divorce and break up, you’ll see that number increasing every day.



Despite all that, there is good news for you. Using our guide, you can get your ex back. Most importantly, have him or her forever.



I am of the opinion that if you love somebody enough in your life. You’ll always do anything to have them back, even if it means selling a piece of your soul.



Love is something that we all want to share and receive. This guide is divided into two distinct parts:



Getting your ex



Getting your ex sections teaches you on a list of psychological techniques that you need to do to have your ex back. There are two sections. There are two parts: One dedicated to women and the other to men



Resources/Courses that you need to use



What goes into getting your ex back can be overwhelming. That’s why we created a second section that comes with a list of tools that you can use w....read full @ https://www.mindmingers.com/2018/08/perfect-and-understandable-ways-to-get.html?m=1

What is masturbation?

The stimulation of the genitals with the hand for sexual pleasure.

Synonyms: Auto-eroticism, self-gratification, self-stimulation.

At this end you will be wondering where I’m heading to precisely, right?

Sex is God’s invention. He is the mastermind behind it and His creation is worth far more to him that it is to us. This beautiful word of love was created as a gift to be experienced between a husband and wife, Hebrews 13:4).

Why Sex, because masturbation was derived from sex, the act of pleasing one’s pleasure in an abusive way. In fact, an older definition of masturbation is “self-abuse”. Although more modern dictionaries may no longer carry this definition, they are still linked together under self-abuse:

SELF-ABUSE, noun

1. Abuse of oneself or one’s abilities.

2. Masturbation

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Jealousy is a normal emotion in which every person in this world experiences. Girls get jealous about a lot of things because they can be possessive and territorial creatures. No matter how much you trust someone, you can still get jealous, especially if you care and love that person. For most girls, jealousy is not a negative thing but rather a way of saying “I’m afraid to lose you.”



Moreover, this urges them to do some sketchy and weird things that they are not aware of because they are essentially powerless to stop themselves. If you want to know what those things are, here are fifteen things girls do when they are jealous.









1. Lying

Girls are actually good at hiding their emotions and guys usually don’t have any idea why they act like that. Usually, whenever a girl is in the midst of jealousy, you will get unbelievable answers to your simple questions.



2. Suddenly changing mood

You’ll see how a girl mood immediately shifts when you try to flirt or talk to another girl. Girls are naturally moody but you’ll know when they are jealous if they start acting strange.



3. Asking a friend to stalk

It would be safe if she ask a friend to stalk you, so you won’t have any idea that she’s keeping an eye on you. Most of the girls do this when they want to find out who are you hanging out with and who do you talk every day.



4. Ignoring him

Another sign that she is jealous is when she ignores you. Girls are playing hard to get when they are jealous. They won’t talk to you, not unless you do a lot of effort to please them.



5. Trying to flirt with other men

If she finds out that you don’t notice her, she will make a way to get your attention. You’ll know that she is jealous when she starts flirting with other guys because she want to see if you care and get jealous as well.



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Making your family life can actually go a long way in every members of the family's life, the closeness, the unity, peace, joy, harmony and lots of goodness is increased. Family can be very beautiful when it is beautiful. You just want to be back home as soon as possible after work, your wife is just the perfect being who understands everything about your kids and yourself, you don't want to live without them for a milliseconds thats one thousandth of a second. But the question is How do you achieve thsi kind of family lifestyle?
Today i'm going to discuss some simple steps to hack your family life style.

1. Respect their minds
Generally humans like someone who respects their opinion, when someone express an opinion, do not interrupt them or dismiss it. Maintain respectful communication channels will help your family develop trsut and strengthen your bond with them.
Do not be too decisive for your family, hear their minds too. For instance, ask your kids what they want, being too rigid won't help your bond with your family because kids would never open up to you, all they do is wait for you to go out for work, and end up doing what you authoritatively ask them not to do.
Instead, ask them what thye want, but you can disagree their opinion with a kind of advice. Don't worry, with time they will get used to your advice and follow it strictly. Just try it Out!
2. Don't Just Judge Or Criticise Them
If you use the right words when correcting you kids, they will eventually imitate you sooner or later when dealing with their other siblings or other kids. Look for a positive way of saying NO to your kids, always avoid harsh criticism and judgements. Give eachother permission to express emotions and act silly without fear of judgements.
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There is no perfect man; but if you have this rare type, appreciate him.

Many marriages end because of ingratitude. As time goes by, couples forget to appreciate the little things in life. But being grateful every day helps sweethearts stay happily married.

Noticing and appreciating the things your husband does for you helps you see what really matters, rather than focusing on his flaws (which every man has). Your spouse is the most important person in your life, so do your marriage a favor and praise him for all these things he does for you:

1. He trusts you
He doesn't doubt your actions.

2. He is loyal to you
He has nothing to hide. You have access to everything in his life and know what he does.

3. He knows your tastes
He knows your favorite chocolate, the kind of movies you like to watch and your hobbies.

4. He gives you some time to yourself
If you want to go out with your friends, get a haircut or watch a movie alone, he doesn't care. He knows that sometimes you just need some alone time.

5. He remembers holidays
He knows and prepares something special for the holidays that are important to you.

6. He helps you be better
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15. He adores ​​your smile
He tries to see your smile every day.....

9 Subtle Signs That You’ve Definitely Found Your Forever Person

Whenever you’re trying to figure out whether you’re destined to spend the rest of your life with a person, you can get overwhelmed. It’s not an easy decision to make. But that’s the whole point of dating, isn’t it? It’s a social experiment that you put yourself in. You want to try to find that one person you can imagine eventually growing old with. But how exactly do you make such a decision? What factors do you need to be taking into consideration to be sure about the choice that you’re making?



One thing is for sure; it’s not a decision that you can choose to just take lightly. It’s not something that you can just jump into without really putting any thought into it. You always need to really be serious about this particular choice. And you have to make sure that you have all bases covered. You can’t always just be keeping your eyes on the big picture. You really need to pay attention to the details. Yes, the big and grand gestures matter. The big things; you always need to take them into consideration. But you shouldn’t do so at the expense of the little things.



Sometimes, it’s really the subtle aspects of the relationship that you need to pay attention to. It’s the little things that make up the entire dynamic of your relationship and you always need to remember that. And if you need a little eye-opener on what kind of things you need to be on the lookout for, then this article is going to be perfect for you. Here are a few subtle signs that you’ve definitely found your forever person.

1. Whenever you happen to be in a crowded room or an awkward social situation, you can always count on them to be there for you to hold your hand and give you eye contact. They always reassure you of your presence whenever you’re feeling insecure or vulnerable. They act as your strength when you’re feeling particularly weak.


2. You have a partner who can make you laugh even with minimal effort. You could be in the worst mood you could ever be in; but you have a partner who can always crack a subtle joke to instantly improve your mood. Having a shared sense of humor with someone can really go a long way in determining the strength of a relationship.



3. They do whatever they can to make your life as easy and as uncomplicated as possible. They know that you go through a lot of stresses and problems throughout your day; but they always make a conscious effort to make your daily workload a little lighter. They really have your back; they act like your genuine partner.


4. You always feel like they offer you a safe space for expression. You never have to feel like you need to censor yourself whenever you’re with them. You don’t need to filter your words. You can just freely talk 5. about whatever you want without having to worry about them judging you. They would never hold what you say against you in any form.



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I will be really really straight forward today because When it comes to marriage, there are things that will always work and they are always simple and straightforward if you do not complicate them.

1. No matter how bad your past was, tell it out to your partner before you go into marriage because it might come back to destroy your marriage, your family, to be precise your relationships.

2. Always Have It In Your Mind That Love is not Enough; If Your relationship is based on Love alone It might not last. For You to marry someone, it takes the same dream purpose, goals and more, (You know them).

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Let her relax in your company ,don’t pressurize or make her feel that

she has to prove something to herself and to you on this very first

date itself.

Be your natural self and let her also be at ease. Don’t let your first

date be a testing ground for both of you. Give her some space and

time to know you more and at the same time you also utilize this

time in learning as much as you can about her.

The basic ingredient for any successful relationship is supposedly

friendship. First and foremost, be her friend, her ally, her confidante.

Let her open out to you and talk her heart out.

Make very clear to her that you are not expecting any commitment

from her on this very date. Humor plays a very big role amongst

friends. Let your sense of humor be your biggest ally in winning your

girlfriends heart.

Lay down the ground work and learn what turns her on. Make light

hearted conversations, be funny and jovial , keep her enthralled with

your talks ,don’t let any gaps come in between your conversation

,but at the same time make sure both of you should be an equal

participants in the discussion.

Don’t let it be one sided, else the other person starts losing interest

and their attention gets diverted and sidelined elsewhere. When

enquiring her about anything or asking something don’t sound

interrogative, which might scare her off and can convey entirely

wrong message across.

Your talk should be mostly positive, light hearted, relaxing, and

entertaining. Throughout the evening don’t discuss about anything

that is not of mutual interest, let it be people, or hobbies or friends.

Think of some common topics and stick to them.

Be a part of her family and her friends circle. Never say anything

negative about any of her acquaintances. Praise her in front of her

friends and family.

Gently and subtly at any point of time during the evening convey to

her that you would like to meet her family and her close circle of

friends. This would give the indication that you are serious about taking this

relation further in the future and she is not just a passing fling. Also

ask her out for a Sunday lunch with your family. Any girl would feel

honored by this request. It would help making your date more

personal and special.

Even if not needed ask her advice on any of your personal matter so

that to make her feel important and valuable in your life and to show
her how much her thoughts and views matters to you (you don’t

have to follow her advice).

Give her the impression that you totally believe in individuality and

would never dream of asking her to change her views or for that

matter herself for him. You like her as she is, and expect her to

remain like that forever.

It would make your image in her eyes go several steps up the ladder.

Tell her you believe in giving breathing space to every individual and

are not in favor of restricting a person’s growth or confining him or

her within any boundaries.

She would regard you with greater respect for your thoughtfulness

and your broad outlook. Be supportive of her views, her personal

feelings and her choice of life.

Let her know that you respect her as a person and value her

friendship at any cost. Emphasize on how much her being in life..
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Things Women Always Want to Hear

When it comes to relationships, language is everything. Just as soon as the wrong phrase can set your lover off, a perfectly worded sentence can also unlock her or his heart. And while no two women are exactly the same, there are indeed phrases that just about any girl on earth would love to hear. Thirty of them, in fact—we’ve highlighted them all together right here, directly from top relationship experts. And once you’re safely in her good graces, kick up the heat, and whisper to her any of the 13 sexiest things you can say to a woman.



1





“YOU KNOW WHAT I LOVE ABOUT YOU?”

Followed by something very detailed. “Women love specifics,” says Rebecca Burton, a licensed marriage and family therapist. “We know you love us, but why? A little extra thought can make sweet nothings into sweet somethings.”





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“YOU’RE RIGHT.”

Sometimes, it’s better to own up to the fact that she’s right and you’re not. Humility is a virtue most women can appreciate. It also wouldn’t hurt to know how to say you’re sorry.





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“YOU LOOK AMAZING.”

Simple, but effective. “Women want to hear that they are beautiful,” says Melissa Divaris Thompson, a licensed marriage and family therapist in New York City. It might sound shallow, but the reasoning behind it makes sense: “It helps women boost their confidence and feel more loved,” she explains. And we have even more advice on how to impress any woman here.





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“WE’RE IN THIS TOGETHER.”

Women like to hear that you’re committed. Of course, this only works if it’s actually true. “Most women want to hear your commitment to them because that creates security,” explains Wyatt Fisher, Psy.D, a licensed clinical psychologist in Colorado. “When you’re in a conflict and things feel insecure, they need to hear reassurance that you’re in it for the long haul and you’re committed to working things out,” he adds. You should also be sure you know how to make that commitment last forever.





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“LAST NIGHT WAS INCREDIBLE.”

“Women like to hear they are good in bed,” says Kimberly Hershenson, LMSW. Just like men, “they want to know that they are providing pleasure to their partner and that their partner is happy with their sex life.” If you need some tips on spicing things up in the bedroom, learn the 5 ways to have your best sex of all time—tonight.



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“IF YOU WANT TO TALK, I’M HERE.”

“Remind her that you are there for her emotionally whenever she needs anything,” recommends Sahar Dorani, Psy.D., a licensed clinical psychologist. “It’s not all about materialistic or financial expressions of love,” she says. You should also check out these secrets of the best relationships.





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“WHAT’S THE MOST MEANINGFUL EXPERIENCE YOU’VE EVER HAD?”

Questions can be a great tool for establishing intimacy, especially in the early days of a relationship, but also later on. “Your partner is not an extension of you, but an entirely different individual,” notes Anjhula Singh Bais, Ph.D., an international psychologist and author. “There will always be stones unturned, and it’s up to you to find out those things ‘I never knew about you after all these years,’” she explains. “This pulls you closer and often you’ll be surprised at the person sitting across from you, in a pleasant way.” Also, While you’re at it, learn more things women love to hear on a first date.







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Remember when you were young and you thought love was this invincible, bulletproof force that was immune to outside influence, impervious to evil and capable of overcoming all obstacles? And, then you found out your girlfriend was sleeping with your best friend since a week after you met, and that bubble was ruptured, never to be restored again.



Sorry. Maybe we got a little personal on that one. Maybe, you're one of the lucky few who remains a fool for love, and the wool has yet to wear away before your eyes. We hate to single-handedly destroy your remaining naivete, but women do cheat. Thankfully, more often than not, these kind of things don't often happen without some sort of warning. Or in some cases, many. Here are intimations of infidelity that should tentatively raise flags: 10 Signs Your Girlfriend Is Cheating On You.



She pays more attention to her phone than you.



If you inevitably spend every dinner glaring at her as she pivots between various social networks and replies to every text message that springs up, don't be too quick to write her behavior off as a sign of the times.



Sure, we're all guilty of being so overly engrossed in our digital lives that we neglect the present moment. But if she makes a continual habit of talking to her Twitter followers more than you during dinner dates, it may point to her lack of investment in the relationship, not just her fleeting attention span. We don't want to say she might be spending your night together making plans with someone else, but stranger things have happened.



She's less interested in sex

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mimimile93:
Fvck a b!tch.

To living hell with prostitue.


I'd rather regret the day I met a leech than the day I leave her.


Fvck anyting that has vagina..

You need to always go easy with everything, this same way you addressed this topic would virtually be how you address her whenever you guys have a misunderstanding, it's written all over your words.
Please work on your anger.

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She was the kind of girl who would be racing to send you a reply on her phone because she didn’t want you to think that she was making you wait.


One day, you’re going to wake up and you’re going to realize that she’s no longer waking up beside you -and she’s probably going to be waking up elsewhere for the rest of your days. She’s actually going to choose to be with someone who deliberately chooses to be with her every day. She is going to choose to love someone who loves her back just as much something that you never did for her. You might cross paths a few more times in the future, but it won’t matter much to her. She might not even take notice of you because she’s too happy with the love that she has now. She will look like that same girl who once loved you but with one significant difference she loves someone else now.

She will no longer look and lock eyes with you the way that she used to. She is no longer going to drool over the sight of you. Her heart is no longer going to skip a beat at the thought of you. She isn’t going to romanticize you any longer. Know why? Because when she found out that you would never be willing to give her the love that she gave you, then she just chose to devote all of that love to herself instead. And she became infinitely happier as a result. You are going to notice a confidence in her that you’ve never seen before the same kind of confidence that you threatened every single day you were together.









And when you start to take notice of the fact that she’s more sure about herself, you’re going to feel a pinch of regret. You’re going to kick yourself for not loving her the way that she deserved to be loved. You’re going to regret losing a girl who only wanted to love you.
You’re going to miss her so much but you’re never going to get the chance to win her back. You are going to grow regretful of the way that she chose to love you convincingly and wholeheartedly.



She was the kind of girl who would always be ready to talk about you and make you the center of attention in the relationship. She was the kind of girl who would be racing to send you a reply on her phone because she didn’t want you to think that she was making you wait. She was the kind of girl whose phone calls you rarely ever returned because you didn’t think she would be worth the time.

And then you’re going to give in to a few of your temptations. You’re going to look over your old pictures and mementos. You’re going to reminisce about the great times that you had with her and you’re going to learn to appreciate them now because you never really did make the effort to appreciate them as they were happening. It’s only now where you will really start to take notice of the little things that she did for you and the relationship. It’s only now where you will really develop your attention to detail. It’s only now where you will really learn about just how good you had it and how stupid you are for letting it go.









You’re going to miss the times where she would randomly bring you a gift just to showcase her thoughtfulness. You’re going to miss the times where she would try to hit you up just to check up on you and see how you’re doing. You’re going to miss how she always told you that she loved you consistently – to the point where you didn’t really pay much attention to it anymore.
And in these moments of vulnerability, your feelings and emotions are going to come crashing down on you like a fallen building. You’re going to be remorseful at the idea of you never finding another girl who will love you the way that she did. You are going to be sad at the fact that you’ve just lost a girl who deserved so much more than you ever gave her. You’re going to regret losing the girl who love you too much.

And now you’re just going to wallow in your sadness. You’re just going to drown in your sea of regret because there’s not much you can do to win her back. She’s chosen to move on and she’s happy because of it. In this scenario, you are the one who came out as the loser. You have to move on but it’s going to be so much harder for you. Because really, how can anyone ever move on from the one person who loved them in ways that no one else ever could or ever will? She was one of a kind. And you let her go.

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