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Family / Re: Leaving A Marriage Because He's Not Taking Responsibilities, Make Me Bad? by ETTTTUBRUTTE: 5:55pm On Jun 06, 2023
There is nothing bad at all if a woman decides to leave a marriage.
It is within a woman's prerogative to make that decision.

A man might be responsible for Feeding, Clothing, Schooling, Maintenance etc; etc; for a
woman and her children and her families in the last 1000 years. There would never ever be a complaint.

But, let a TEMPORARY woe betides this same man and lost his job and unable to pay household bills for just 1 Hour (One Hour),
Then you will hear this same woman, singing like a parrot, all over the world.

It all depends on a man and a woman's upbringing.

Some women stay and fight really hard for the over all Long Term benefit of her children.
Some women as well chicken out and reap the big time reward of her action in the nearest future.

That is why it is important for a man to do proper background verifications and analysis before settling down with a woman.
A woman also needs to undertake exhaustive background verifications as well.

I wish you good luck as you ponder on what to do.

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Family / Re: Men Are Afraid Of Successful Women. by ETTTTUBRUTTE: 11:12pm On Apr 19, 2023
That is why it is extraordinarily important for you, as a man, to do your thorough checks, before you marry a woman.

Any women who becomes arrogant or proud because of an increase in her material wealth is naturally a proud and an arrogant person.
The arrogance and pride has always been in the bone marrow of the woman. It was just laying dormant waiting to be activated.

But some women, who have had grace and humility, entrenched in their bone marrow, by their parents or guardians,
will never ever become arrogant, irrespective of their newly acquired wealth status.

There are so many examples of very wealthy women in our society who are also very modest despite their staggering wealth.

Just do your Home Work / Due Diligence before you get married. Period. Good Luck.

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Family / Re: My Husband Is So Annoying. I'm Depress. by ETTTTUBRUTTE: 10:24pm On Mar 21, 2023
One thing that I have noticed among Nigerian women, Christian, Muslims, Non Affliates, all of them, is that:
They have no concept, they have no inkling, they have no clue, they have no idea of what marriage is all about.
All Nigerian women think that marriage is like Alice in Wonderland.
All you have to do is, find a man and get married to the man and that is it,
It would be happiness joy and smiling thereafter.

No No No.

Marriage in this modern day is full of PAINS.

There is nothing like Happy Marriage.
What we have is Manage Marriage. Then Happiness.
That is to say : Both of you should manage your marriage.
If you manage your marriage very well, then you will have Happiness.

Every marriage is unique.
Therefore, every marriage requires a unique management.

Don't come out into the open and start to talk rubbish about your husband.
You have your own flaws as well. As a woman you are Like a Pineapple.
You are full of Stings and Pins.
You are only going to be sweet if your husband peels you carefully.

I found out that a lot of women do not have a good Home Training concerning what a marriage is all about.

Let All of us should Go back home and work tirelessly at our marriage. All of us.

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