₦airaland Forum

muki
who is upsetting you, come here have a hug

well what do you want ppl to do?

Low self esteem and long period of systematic spousal abuse can lead to the abused becoming comfortable in becoming a victim , loose the zeal to fight and becomes some what dependent on the abuser.  Sad sad sad. It take alot of work to get a woman or man out of an abusive grip. sometimes the abuse has gone on too long and the victim becomes dependent on abuser. They feed off each other, he/she exerts force and power its too twisted.

Best thing is, first signs of an abusive partner, is to do a u-turn , they are very good with apologies and making you the abused feel sorry for them and the abused feel quilt sometimes , arrrgghh madness.

It is not Love

lol oops wow

hey! calm down hun , but how do you mean?

another brilliant and intelligent reply by superman

the culture is very strong, not bad to have culture but what goes with it is appalling. I find here in England the dark Indians are friendlier, well the majority of the ones i have come across are very friendly . the fair one are very racial

lol boarding school eh lol.

lol geez that takes me back , i feel old now. Yeah i know what you mean. Girls, well female species we are like that unfortunately. It's good they went through the experience early though.

you got a point, true when you think she is your girl and there for you cried to her and all, and tfor her to go with him, that's just disloyal. yes she deserved it.

Anyway that girl sounds like a good girl, that guy didnt deserve her and she should be glad she didnt sleep with him, whta a waste that would have been.

yup i agree

mamaput i kind of agree with seun. You too are right in she asked for it. dunno kinda torn

oh men sorry luvvie. Happy b'day in advance. you know you got to the age when things slow down now its going to hard to shift all them extras you got. so got got to start looking into healthy eating, and exercise, jog and watch the weight drop off, honesty jogging is the fasted way to loose weight. I mean you describe yourself as big and butiful, thats cool, but you obviously want to be fitter too. If not for anyone but for yourself. Goodluck

P.s
nice tips up there ell77, good stuff.

lmao

oh mamaput i understand for some mad reason i didnt see the Germany , or should i say i forgot to look under your id.  oh i see now , yeah you don't have many Indians over there.

@Radiant lol ah you spoke too soon, watch and see, this thread will be bled dry. 
P.S that head you have been shaking  hope its not fallen off yet , lol i know we are bad

@English dont think you'd want to do that luvv, especially if they are Millwall or westham hooligans

you mean African American women. Tell me how many African women you know who do this to their children

I love my processed hair lol now what? you not going to sleep right tonite? mad racist

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Are not full African baby's with kinky hair posessing a head of beautiful hair?

African babies don't have a full head of kinky hair , it just thesame texture as any mixed race child, and all babies are beautiful. twisting what people say again for your own RACIST AGENDA  even if they had kinky hair like you say (truly laughable) then  what some say about many blacks not loving themselves would manifest in parents perming their baby's hair don't you think?

Many Africans love their children and themselves with all their Africanness, we don't need someone who knows all she knows about Africa from books to tell us.

so shango let me get this right, are you saying women who relax their hair are not happy about being African or black? is this the point? before i proceed,