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pcguru1: Well for now, I prefer to just live life and forget about love, was in a relationship but didn't work out because......get this, I was too busy to call, not like I can't, for christ sake am trying to get my life and financially things ain't looking too good but now attention is a priority to her. Love is not what I need now,what I need is a sense of fulfillment living for yourself, ave always had this fantasy to just taking road trip visiting state after state without planning, that feeling of uncertainty is exciting.

u are only young ,live your dreams and be happy.remember to come share your exciting stories

I had forced myself to go out,take a walk,do something else than think about all the things I had not yet done in my life.Thinking about these things depress me,the fact that my brain is waisting precious moment thinking about things I have no control over is also depressing
Love Possibilities Dreams
what do I know of these things? life just happens everyday,I wake up and then suddenly its time to sleep again.Make a list the experts would say,set up goals , visualize these goals and believe in these goals.The experts have never had to leave with a lunatic that's what I'll say
LOVE AND LOVE
so now you found love,now what? Is that all there is in life?Finding someone to love you?But have you not been loved all along by your family and friends.Now that you have found love,what are you going to do with it?The experts would say"Live happily ever after". The experts have never had to drink garri morning,afternoon and nights,
forget about the experts and everybody else,love yourself and love your neighbors as yourself.Nobody can be expected to do more in this life.

its good to know there are good people out there,thank you all for your comments.I went to church and I felt really good,I told d youth leader what I have been going through and she gave me a big hug,she told me that being happy is a decision only I could take
I have decided to join school fellowship and be among people that really cares.thank you so much nairalanders,you are all my best invincible friends.

bizzlemie: My dear, if you love your life and future, RUN AWAY FROM THAT RELATIONSHIP & THAT BOY after reading this comment!!!

At this stage in your life, you should be concerned about shaping your life for a better future, not weighing yourself down with thoughts of being or not being loved.

And don't ever think that you are, or will be lonely. Loneliness begins from the mind.


GOD LOVES AND CARES ABOUT YOU, DON'T FORGET THAT TOO!

thank you

Driven: Sweetheart, do not go anymore day with that guy. Surround yourself with people who respect and build you, not people who dont do you any good.


Your life is too precious to be spent waiting and hoping for someone to change, or to continue being bludgeoned. You are a royal priesthood; let go of anyone who doesnt understand that.



About being lonely, let such fears not hold you down. Whatever you're involved in right now, dive into it, do it with all your might; and I assure you, by the end of your day, you'd either be too tired feel an ounce of loneliness. Make friends too, that helps
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As for your mum, you may need to talk with her about how she treats you and makes you feel. But I would like to sound it that your worth is not measured by how anyone treats you, but by what God says about you.

thank you very much
I know I have deviated far from my faith,I think its time to retrace my steps

2sExy1: sorry, lay ur head on my shoulder... kpele. ndo

thanks

I feel like am one of those people that would never get loved,we are just 4 in a family but my mum always makes me feel like I am adopted or picked up from the street,As I grew up I kept encountering guys who takes advantage of my insecurity,naivety....Two years ago I thought I had met my true love,he was so sweet, i practically worships the ground he walk on,he supports me,and what I love most about a guy he listens to me.
life became worth living again until one certain day he beat me up,he apologized and I forgave him because I felt like if I hadn't provoke him he wouldn't have done that,but the beating continued on numerous occasion and I kept giving myself excuses and putting the blames on myself and hoping for him to change, on the 23rd of June being my birthday I got the beating of my life because I chose to celebrate my b'day with my roommate not him,I still love him,I know I have to leave him but it is so difficult.am afraid of being lonely, I need help pls

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pls send me Nis pq
nnekanduka@gmail.com.thanks and Godbless

pls post it 2 dis e-mail
nnekanduka@gmail.com

pls am new here,i need the NIS pq

u are so on point,i feel so trapped because i dont want to hurt him,he is so nice but nt just 4 me.