2sExy1: sorry, lay ur head on my shoulder... kpele. ndo

Driven: Sweetheart, do not go anymore day with that guy. Surround yourself with people who respect and build you, not people who dont do you any good.


Your life is too precious to be spent waiting and hoping for someone to change, or to continue being bludgeoned. You are a royal priesthood; let go of anyone who doesnt understand that.



About being lonely, let such fears not hold you down. Whatever you're involved in right now, dive into it, do it with all your might; and I assure you, by the end of your day, you'd either be too tired feel an ounce of loneliness. Make friends too, that helps
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As for your mum, you may need to talk with her about how she treats you and makes you feel. But I would like to sound it that your worth is not measured by how anyone treats you, but by what God says about you.

bizzlemie: My dear, if you love your life and future, RUN AWAY FROM THAT RELATIONSHIP & THAT BOY after reading this comment!!!

At this stage in your life, you should be concerned about shaping your life for a better future, not weighing yourself down with thoughts of being or not being loved.

And don't ever think that you are, or will be lonely. Loneliness begins from the mind.


GOD LOVES AND CARES ABOUT YOU, DON'T FORGET THAT TOO!

evagreenbabe: I feel like am one of those people that would never get loved,we are just 4 in a family but my mum always makes me feel like I am adopted or picked up from the street,As I grew up I kept encountering guys who takes advantage of my insecurity,naivety....Two years ago I thought I had met my true love,he was so sweet, i practically worships the ground he walk on,he supports me,and what I love most about a guy he listens to me.
life became worth living again until one certain day he beat me up,he apologized and I forgave him because I felt like if I hadn't provoke him he wouldn't have done that,but the beating continued on numerous occasion and I kept giving myself excuses and putting the blames on myself and hoping for him to change, on the 23rd of June being my birthday I got the beating of my life because I chose to celebrate my b'day with my roommate not him,I still love him,I know I have to leave him but it is so difficult.am afraid of being lonely, I need help pls

Continue giving him excuses till he beats you to death. Rubbish.

I feel for you sha. There are guys out there that won't treat you like trash

But don't ever give anyone excuses for maltreating you.

Driven: Sweetheart, do not go anymore day with that guy. Surround yourself with people who respect and build you, not people who dont do you any good.


Your life is too precious to be spent waiting and hoping for someone to change, or to continue being bludgeoned. You are a royal priesthood; let go of anyone who doesnt understand that.



About being lonely, let such fears not hold you down. Whatever you're involved in right now, dive into it, do it with all your might; and I assure you, by the end of your day, you'd either be too tired and/or fulfilled to feel an ounce of loneliness. Make friends too, that helps



As for your mum, you may need to talk with her about how she treats you and makes you feel. But I would like to sound it that your worth is not measured by how anyone treats you, but by what God says about you.

evagreenbabe: I feel like am one of those people that would never get loved,we are just 4 in a family but my mum always makes me feel like I am adopted or picked up from the street,As I grew up I kept encountering guys who takes advantage of my insecurity,naivety....Two years ago I thought I had met my true love,he was so sweet, i practically worships the ground he walk on,he supports me,and what I love most about a guy he listens to me.
life became worth living again until one certain day he beat me up,he apologized and I forgave him because I felt like if I hadn't provoke him he wouldn't have done that,but the beating continued on numerous occasion and I kept giving myself excuses and putting the blames on myself and hoping for him to change, on the 23rd of June being my birthday I got the beating of my life because I chose to celebrate my b'day with my roommate not him,I still love him,I know I have to leave him but it is so difficult.am afraid of being lonely, I need help pls

I am so sorry Love, for all you're going thru' and for all you've been through especially for those which words can't quite capture.

I could go on about counselling you on how you need to let go of every abusiveness et al


But what I really wanna do right now is just hug you and hold you tight and assure you that everything'll be fine, because it'll be.

Bless You Tons

evagreenbabe: I feel like am one of those people that would never get loved,we are just 4 in a family but my mum always makes me feel like I am adopted or picked up from the street,As I grew up I kept encountering guys who takes advantage of my insecurity,naivety....Two years ago I thought I had met my true love,he was so sweet, i practically worships the ground he walk on,he supports me,and what I love most about a guy he listens to me.
life became worth living again until one certain day he beat me up,he apologized and I forgave him because I felt like if I hadn't provoke him he wouldn't have done that,but the beating continued on numerous occasion and I kept giving myself excuses and putting the blames on myself and hoping for him to change, on the 23rd of June being my birthday I got the beating of my life because I chose to celebrate my b'day with my roommate not him,I still love him,I know I have to leave him but it is so difficult.am afraid of being lonely, I need help pls

softsparkyy: If you spend too long holding unto someone that
treats you like an option, you will miss finding
someone who treats you like a priority.




@Op your happiness is in your hands.

evagreenbabe: its good to know there are good people out there,thank you all for your comments.I went to church and I felt really good,I told d youth leader what I have been going through and she gave me a big hug,she told me that being happy is a decision only I could take
I have decided to join school fellowship and be among people that really cares.thank you so much nairalanders,you are all my best invincible friends.