You have spoken by your assumption but remember the bible is an inspired book written by inspired men of God.I will start my point by borrowing from one of the replies from one of us because i loved it when he said and i quote do you ever see right from the old testament to the new testament that a woman was chosen by God to lead or unsurp authority by God? I guess no.So if no passage says so, so let's start to dig the bible. Remember in Corinthians Paul was addressing different issue both off and on the church doctrine that brought about women keeping silence in the CHURCH but you said it wasn't church that Paul wrote to be in silence but in the family of which it is not so as the bible says see 1Cor.14:34. We can not question God authority because His words are full of wisdoms that's while He also make Paul to write to Timothy stating the reasons while the women should keep silence in the church see 1Tim.2:11-14. So we should not boarder to try and explain it to favour any gender because of self appraisal. The bible has said that all things should be done decently and in order see 1Cor.14:40. Conclusively, it is not upright for a woman to lead men in any congregation for whatever reasons because it's not the pattern of God's worship. Women have been in existed even Christ to the world. God uses prophet during old days so we've not heard woman prophet nor when Christ came do we heard about woman Apostle. Thanks and remain blessed.