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I am young lady in my mid twenties and I have a man that wants to marry me soonest because we have been courting for the past Six month, he is such a nice man and very caring to the extent that he puts me first because he loves me so much and I have been faithful to him.

We were doing fine until I met another guy that approached me for marriage some time last month and I seem to have feelings for him immediately and this has never happened to me before so I dismissed it as infatuation thinking the feelings will die off but as time went on I found out that I still feel same way for him.

He is still pestering me for marriage and this is really affecting my relationship with my man and so the love I have for him is reducing by the day, I had to open up to him that another man is asking For my hand in marriage and this has really made him so sad, and though i assured him of not leaving him and I have even told the other guy off just to make him happy.

Main while the other guy has a girlfriend but said he wants to breakup with her because he is not happy and so wants to be with me.

Now the problem is that my attention is divided and am very confused here. Should I go on with my fiancee or give the new guy a chance because of what I feel for him.

Pls brothers and sisters is this a form of distraction or its real. Your advice is seriously needed before I make a big mistake