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Dogalmighty17:
Single mom? The father of the kid dumped her. She's had other relationships and they all dumped her and walked away.
You now, want to carry iron condemn and put on your head and they are still giving you attitude on top. Why are you disgracing the mother who gave birth to you? Why?
Nothing good ever comes from dating a single mother. Nothing.

I might have to reconsider my steps. I'm discouraged at this point.

Tenrack:
bro you didn't learn anything from me? Bro single moms are for single fathers. No go give yourself BP for woman wey no fit ever love you. Why men no dey hear word?

Mehnnnn

I fell in love with a single mom but she had greater worries as touching our 3yrs age difference and my stability (she's doing better), but I'm not doing that bad either. I earn 6figures monthly.. About her concerns of our age and what society would say, I had allay those fears by letting her know that I don't care and my mom is also supportive of my decisions. She's hot tempered and I'm very calm
We discussed our differences in character and age before agreeing to date. She's never been with a younger guy and she's been through a couple of heart breaks , hence making it difficult to trust me and my motives. She's unsure of me as I'm in my late 20's . But my intentions are true.

The problem we face now is that, she's mostly unforgiving and everytime there's a conflict she avoids talking about it . She's not expressive and shuts down mostly when I get angry or probably complain about some stuffs. We had a misunderstanding and I kinda accused her of being with someone else, she shut down and went ghost. Right now, what she's holding against me is that I wrongly accused her because she let her guard and walls down for me. t's been 6days of her ignoring my calls and texts. I've done everything I could to let her know I was sorry . My last card is to go see her which I know is a dangerous mission.

But honestly I dunno what to do. I feel like letting go at this point. Pls naira landers, what would u have me do in a case like this? I love this woman.

I'm not a saint but I've actually abstained for a year and more.. I've been getting advances most recently from ladies at my work place.
I almost gave in to a married one but I overcame. It gets lonely sometimes. I still decided to give dating a shot. I'm dating a lady I've been head over heels for. She's a solid 9+. We made love last week and I realized I wasn't madly in love after I came. And all I could feel was compassion cuz I genuinely liked her. There was no point for the sex actually. It only reduced the love I had to likeness.

Also, note that , after the first round , whatever follows is perversion and not love making. It's all stunts, as sex is meant for only procreation . The process is just pleasurable. Truly, sex is meant to be for married people who are legally bounded by an oat of loyalty and submission regardless of whatever. There's no man who truly has sex with his woman without falling out of love and desire. He gets his desires again for her when his scrotum is ready to be emptied. It's natural.

Once you're addicted to losing money over sports bet... You can almost never prosper..

Nickisindigo:
You still have time on your side unlike me that I have technically wasted my 20s

It's well my boss

Time flies so fast these days. I'm even afraid.. I pray I get settled before 28

jaeyking:
Keep on applying every graduate trainee role that comes with your grasp

It must not be your field of study
Banks are rolling out graduate trainee roles
Some production industry
.just be updated

At same time you can still learn a skill

Thanks boss...I'm applying all-round.. even bank jobs. I have one bank aptitude test this Saturday

I'm at a cross roads where I have to decide which career path to thread. I'm a 26yr old graduate of applied geophysics
I've searched and applied for jobs in every nook and cranny of the online space. It's not been easy as I've not been able to scale past the interview stage of most of the recruitments for graduate trainee roles.

I recently attended the nnpc interview in abj and it dawned on me that I didn't have any tangible certification asides my
University degree. This week, my uncle sat me down to remind me that I was getting older and the teaching job I'm managing wouldn't be sustainable in the long run. I had considered learning petrel software for reservoir modelling, simulation and characterisation to complement my geophysics bsc cert. On the other hand, my uncle has told me to learn instrumentation and control , and get certified, as it would help me get a job in the oil and gas sector faster within port Harcourt or offshore. Now, I'm sceptical because I do not have an engineering degree and I'm not certain if it's a requisite.

So I'm asking, is this truly a way to go? Will the knowledge and certification In instrumentation and control help me kick start a career in the oil and gas sector not minding my degree ? Or should I just focus on learning petrel software?

Truth is , he has been actually serving Satan for 43yrs. Hahaha.

Noblex71:
I was also scheduled for the Assesment today, but I have not gotten a reply from them about it. Please add me to the WhatsApp group 08133844134

I hope you didn't miss it. You should have logged in to the portal for the link.

Snowflames:
What about the new ones. Is ADK not another ponzi?

They crashed yesterday after cbex

Kaymus:
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How far? Where is ur darling adk Dem don use u chop isiewu and expensive yoghurt

emmyikoh:
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Bizmind95:
Do you stay in a flat in Anambra? I have 100k at hand, we can split the rent and share the flat.

Between u and OP, I nono who go use who for ritual

SuperOnyi:




Some of the challenges has been stopped indefinitely due to health issues. We will only continue the masturbation and porn Challenge.

Don't tell me u quit the challenge already

Primafacie:
She will soon saying negative things about you to your boss if you're still in that sch.
Take note of this. She will blackmail you

She's already blackmailing me emotionally...Mehn the lady stalks me all the time.

Some married ladies are in loveless marriages... I'm currently experiencing same stuff with a married lady in the school I teach

The lady has been disturbing me to have a " serious friendship "with me. At first she would randomly call me, and if I don't pick she would get offended . One day I got bored and decided to give in to her request temporarily to befriend her . I really wanted to know what she was down for. So I flirted a little and asked if she would love to see me the nextday so we could get down. To my surprise, she obliged without hesitation. I had to sleep over it and I thought it not wise to go down such path. I've never tried it with a married woman and I'll never. Besides I'm also trying to escape fornication . Seeing that she's in a loveless marriage nd desperate for companionship, it would be an endless affair if I gave in. I don't want to live in perpetual or habitual sin.

And so , I sent her a chat the next day, that I had a rethink of everything , and I was no longer interested to get down. She felt Soo bad and pained . She really lamented via chat that she felt rejected. I could feel her frustration and everything but I just couldn't do it. Til date she's still in my dm wishinggg..

If you want to be saved truly, avoid today's modern church . When I say "today's modern church", I practically mean 95% of the churches we have today. They are all not teaching you about Jesus but prosperity, morals(hypocritically ), greatness, healing and miracles. When Jesus died and ascended, non of the apostles and teachers taught such . They all taught about Jesus and his promise of salvation and eternal life.

What we have today in the church is Satan masquerading himself via modern day preachers. On the mount he tempted Jesus with Prosperity via worship, he tempted Jesus to use his powers. Today , the same temptations are happening in our churches. We are told to worship for prosperity and material gains, we are also told to decreee and declare things to materialize because we are "sons of God",
Not only that, we are also told to sow seeds to receive the blessings of God.... Meanwhile Simon the sorcerer tried to " sow a seed" in the life of Peter, to claim the holy Spirit's blessings . What was Peter's response? Go and read your Bible

95% of preachers and churches today have nothing to do with Jesus Christ. You better flee those sepulchres and prophets of Baal preaching to you a seductive doctrine before it's too late. On the last day, many of them will say to Jesus " Lord Lord , did we not prophesy , heal the sick and cast out devils in your name? '" Jesus would say to them " Depart from me, I never knew you, ye workers of iniquity".

These were men we revered as great servants of God because of their mighty wonders, but they bore a false witness , they testified of another gospel, another Jesus that apostle Paul doesn't know and they brought another spirit. It's time to know God for yourself and go on your knees and ask The Lord Jesus to show you the narrow way. Ask him to teach you the true way. This is not a time to be an idolater of worshipper of a man of God whose standing with God, we do not know.

RUN NOW! RUN!

You go dey fall for non virgin woman
In gehgeh's voice "You go cryyyyyyyyyyy" Oh u don dey cry sef

This is true. I've stopped taking any denomination serious. 95% of churches today have nothing to do with christ. You'll clearly notice this when you step outside the box of witchcraft and start reading the bible for yourself

Truly , simps have empowered women in today's society. The average ugly lady already has an over inflated ego because one simp somewhere has exhibited tendencies to sell their birthright just to please her.

She doesn't care about you bro, sadly. She's still a student and the odds of you guys ending up together is magnificently slim. She doesn't have prospects or attributes of a wife yet. She's till young and naive . Stop spending on her now. Cut your loss now and detach your emotions because she's already positioned herself for the highest bidder , and soon enough you'll be replaced by one rich and foolish simp. It's a good initiative you have there. Leave her now.

Once I see my woman frequently posting on social media, she's definitely on a validation seeking spree. She could say NO to 50 guys, but there'll be one guy she wouldn't be able to deny access, probably because he possesses characteristics you do not or he's more buoyant than you are. You cannot control such outcome. If you try to, you'll be termed possessive. The best option is to detach and walk away.

faceland:
Is that why you can't write a title that make sense?

"The addiction 80% of men face"❓

It doesn't make sense to you, because you don't have the brain to comprehend a shortened title . You're not a reader.

At least the message has been passed. Rest

Bouncing2:
Afar relax oh🫴🏾….Just 7 days gone and you’re already writing down epistles…

Long story short…you go still soapy again,,nor worry!

I beg to differ

Cesarr1:
As a man u can't tell me u self-service errday via porn and u b healthy , esp physically and mentally , let's even forget spiritually.
Omor ur mind go dey very unhealthy , ur brain very unhealthy , ur physical body sef go look malnalrished ajeh seh

You're not far from the truth sir

jorion:
Have you watched wolf of wall street 😂😂😂😂

Hahahaha .. saw that movie 3 weeks ago. I masturbated immediately after seeing it. It increased my motivation to attempt the act unrepentantly. Such an evil movie ...

Masturbation will reduce you to an emotionally weak person. You'll become so perverse with an inclination to be innovative and explorative with the act.

There are several advantages as touching masturbation, but trust me, the advantages of not masturbating, greatly and eternally outweighs the benefits of indulging.

Many youths and old people who do this, have personal struggles. They do it for the temporal pleasure it gives, to momentarily neutralize the permanent void they feel. The satisfaction comes quick , and after the act , they feel relaxed as the mental storms and feeling of inadequacy seem to calm.

The drug dosage of masturbation isn't enough to remediate the pain of any human. It's an endless cycle of perpetual pleasure seeking that keeps you bound for life . The appetite of a reprobate masturbator increases with every indulgence.

It's natural to begin but supernatural to quit.

It begins with a thought, a sight, series of mental imageries saved from porn scenes, the sensation that comes with puting your hands in your pocket could evoke the urge. The sight of a woman in tight clothings .. ahhh . Masturbation is evil.

Oguefi:
I swear it's not. It all depends on ur environment though. If u stay in a well-to-do neighborhood, u can meet rich parents who are willing to pay good amount for their children's lessons.
Pls can u help me with a thousand naira to feed? Haven't eaten

A thousand Is small for u. I for send more than that but currently I dey out of any cash. I used all to repair my device just this week. I understand it's not easy for many people , especially with the current economic reality. But Go will help us all. Na month end and lesson proceeds I dey wait for.

Cesarr1:
Pls butress your point
I've never gone a day or two
Omor that one shock me

Hahaha. I used to masturbate everyday. As funny as it sounds , it's not funny. There are millions of people who have been enslaved by masturbation. They have tried many times to escape but still find them selves doing it.

Self servicing is against God's divine order of creation.

Sex and the release of semen should solely be for pro creation . It's a pleasurable moment, not to be practiced outside it's purpose. The abuse of it's purpose is called perversion.