₦airaland Forum

May his soul rest in perfect peace. Life is short. nothing in this world truly lasts. Be kind. Love people. Do your best to show up for those you're in a position to help. At the end of the day, it's all vanity.
Rest well, Mr. President.

haggai247:
Imagine what will happen when he reports the video to YouTube and get more people to report the video about him.

Am I really the one at fault here? Because it seems like you're passing an unfair judgment. I just hope that if the same thing had happened to you, you'd still be able to say what you're saying now.

CharlotteFlair:
So what's your motive for the YouTube video with all his credentials in the open for everyone to see?

Did he dupe you?

I'm sure you will be in the best position to answer this question the day someone treat you exactly like this.

Klass99:
[b]Social media is not just a place for cruise it's a platform that showcases the real you. Whether you want to or not, the real you, as in, who you are at your core will eventually [/b]show.

Exactly my thoughts too. Social media is like a small world with a long memory. Throwing abusive or hurtful words at people online may seem like nothing in the moment, but those words can return to haunt us in unexpected ways.

I remember recommending a colleague to a family friend who was looking to settle down. Out of curiosity, he quickly checked her Facebook page. Within minutes, he came back to me and said, ''I’m not interested she’s a feminist.” I was surprised and asked, ''How did you know that?” His answer? “Her posts gave her away.

That was a wake-up call. What we post online might not reflect who we are entirely, but unfortunately, many people will judge us based on just that.

columbus007:
What I post online does not matter to me, and if anybody thinks it matter to them then they should go hug a very hot transformer.

That's to say what you write online does not really define you.

Double0h7:
I’m only responsible for what I type, and you’re responsible for what you comprehend.

You mean whatever interpretation anyone gives to your write up is non of your business?

Too many heartbreaking stories everywhere. It’s sad how we’re slowly erasing love, kindness, and empathy from our world. If you deliberately hurt others, don’t dare call yourself a servant of God. True servants of God reflect His love.

Too many wrong stories. We are gradually removing love, kindness and empathy from our world and it's sad.

Knowing that social media is a place for cruise.

Do you judge people based on what they post or comment on the internet? Or do you wait to meet them in person before forming an opinion?

many are quick to draw conclusions from a single post or comment. But is that fair? Can we truly know a person’s heart, values, or character just from what they share online?

Or should we hold off judgment until we’ve encountered them in real life—heard their tone, seen their actions, and understood their background?

What’s your take on this?

meobizy:
The workplace doesn’t make the person. It is not a school where they aim to mould employees into a certain archetype. All they care for is that he delivers before deadlines and meets organizational goals. He may be a yahoo boy in his spare time. So far it doesn’t affect his output in the firm, they do not care.

You’re absolutely right, we learn every day. I’m already letting go of that idea. Someone’s place of work doesn’t necessarily determine how they behave in public here. Maybe if it were to be in a developed country......

AllBlack:
Do you know the OP?
you don't know if he is actually a problem child or a dishonest and terrible worker who his employer only had to put up with because of parental ties but you have started prayer and blind siding.

I don’t need to know him personally, but I read what he complained about. Why would you refer to someone who is already hurting as a “problem child”? Do you know his father as well?

Let’s cut out this attitude of rushing to bash people who are going through emotional pain. You never truly know the extent of what someone feels before they decide to speak out.

And what exactly is your problem with prayers? Is it that you don’t believe God can help, or do you just want prayers excluded entirely?

Betting continues to do more harm than good. When will people wake up and stop before it ruins their lives?

PantShifter:
The guy probably realised that the price he agreed with you for the camera is far lower than the current market value.

Either that or he finally got the money he was looking for elsewhere and changed his mind about selling the camera.
Forget it and move on

He placed the item for 300k and we finally agreed on 270k. Isn’t that a fair enough price? Even if he later had a higher bidder, wasn’t there a better, more respectful way to disengage, especially knowing he made me travel a long distance to meet him at an agreed location? Well, it’s in the past now. I was only expressing my hurt over the way I was treated.

This is so sad. This is a very devastating situation. I pray you all handle it carefully

ALISMILE:
You definitely have no idea what’s being discussed

US government wants to forcibly take over ownership of TikTok from its Chinese owners

So the owners are building a new app with similar features

Users who want to continue to use a secure platform will simply delete their TikTok account and port over to the new version

My dear, my concern is with the TikTok we all know. The U.S. can go ahead with whatever they want, but why can’t they create a separate application to suit their needs? Why impose their standards on an existing platform just to suit themselves.

KillahPriest:
You people lie unprovoked just to make front page and now to get YouTube views. Na wa

Are you saying I’m lying? How could you even come up with something like this? I just hope you won’t feel hurt or complain when a situation like this happens to you.

Did you see all the evidence from our conversation, including his phone numbers, truecer identify, with his full name that I posted in my video, hoping someone would identify him? And yet you’re saying all this?

TikTok keeps introducing new rules. I just hope it’s for the betterment of the users.

We all have the freedom to support whoever we want. The problem is, when the consequences come, it's only the poor masses that suffer.

Don’t even go there. Data tariffs are very expensive now. Like a joke, they went up so high and we, the users, just accepted it without complaints. They’re all the same.

Sometimes, Glo is better. Other times, it’s MTN. As for Airtel, I don’t even know where to place it. I don’t use it.

Tiktok keep bringing new rules. I pray its for the betterment of the users

This is nice of him. God bless and protect him for helping others

You took your time and planned it carefully. You structured all your lies and executed them perfectly — now you’re calling it a mistake? Or the work of the devil 👿. How nau?

Anijay1212:

A lot of people are devil 😈 incarnate. So heartless and wicked, always out to inflict pain to others. Just thank God you did not walk into a kidnapper's hand.

Honestly, it's a very sad experience. What's the essence of having an agreement with someone, making them spend time and resources, travel a long distance—only to ignore them in the end? It's just very wrong and disappointing.

Really!? Could this be love? Definitely not. He isn't the only one who could see that his wife is beautiful. Why getting violent over that?

@op, allow him to do what ever he wishes to do. The God that have kept you, provided for you all these years will still be there for you.
Don't nurture anger, bitterness or become violent.
Focus on how to grow and build your own wealth.
Cheers

I just want to share an experience that left me emotionally drained and questioning the integrity of some people in this country.

A few days ago, I saw an item online that caught my interest. After several chats and price negotiations, the seller and I agreed on a place to meet. I was genuinely excited because I was dealing with someone who works with a reputable media organization.

But little did I know, I was walking into one of the most frustrating and humiliating moments of my life.

I spent time, money, and energy. I walked under the rain, took a drop, and made my way to the agreed location — only to start calling this man and getting ignored. When he finally replied my chat, he casually said he had lost interest and couldn’t wait anymore.
It was not even upto our agreed time.

No apology. No explanation. Just “I’m no longer interested.”


I kept asking myself, ''How can someone working with such a reputable media house act so recklessly and inconsiderately?”
Have the country gone so unreal that one can't even trust any again in respective of their reputation?
Have you ever had such experience?

LordIsaac:
The children came out of their wombs...it's only natural that they protect their offsprings from anything they disappove of. I won't contend with a woman over her kids!

They’re not just her kids — they belong to the father as well. This message is for the fathers who genuinely want to be a part of their children’s lives.

Have you ever wondered why some women, after a breakup or divorce, choose to restrict their children's father from having access to them?

Is it truly for the safety of the child, or is it punishment for a man who hurt her?

Every child deserves love, support, and guidance—not just from the mother, but also from their father. Can a mother truly fulfill the emotional and psychological role of a father? Can she give that child the balance of love and discipline that comes from both parents working together—even if not as a couple?

I know some fathers abandon their responsibilities and only return years later, hoping to pick up where they left off. But what about those who truly want to be present, who want to grow and do better, yet the door is shut against them?

Is it fair to use a child as a weapon in a battle between adults?

I believe many women have been deeply hurt emotionally, physically, or even financially. But should pain from the past lead to a decision that may deprive a child of something irreplaceable?
What's about sharing of responsibilities from the father of your child?
It could make the weight lighter. You know?

Can we talk about this honestly? Can mothers who are in this situation look beyond their pain and ask What does my child really need?
How can I reduce the loads of responsibilities on me by co-parenting?

Let’s discuss.

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MyExpression:
Which part of Nigeria do you live?!
Transport everyday is 3000 to/fro
Lunch to have strength for work is 2000.
So 5k daily for ≈30days is 150k

150k is only for the work to be done.

So, how much is your salary then? Some people still earn 50 - 30k monthly salary in this country

God help us. How will you receive your monthly salary and at the same time, you're broke.
Like joke , 50k salary can no longer give person joy anymore in this country

God help us. How will you receive your monthly salary and at the same time, you're broke.
Like joke , 50k salary can no longer give person joy anymore in this country