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DiamonJ: plz take ur son to his father, ur friend will thank u one day bcoz that is were their problem is coming from, once that man accept ur son they will hear d cry of a baby in that house and u on d other will be happy ever after.... Wish u well

Vikkyk10: When i was 16 i got impregnated by a corper who denied the pregnancy.Life was so hard for me,my parent kicked me out of the house.But my mum was alwys there to help me.I gained admission into the university through my mom's help,mom took care of my son while i was in school,it wasn't easy though.There was this friend i had then that i would say was the one that sponsored me throughout my stay in school,she was like a sister to me.We graduated from the university and we went our seperate ways.I got a job and i remarried.My husband had an accident and died in it,due to my inability to give him a child,his family members kicked me out of our house.I didnt worry since i had a job i could rely on.Then ône day i came across that my friend that sponsored me through school,we talked,chatted and she told me she was having problems with her husband due to her inability to gìve him a son.She invited me and so i went 2 her house.But to my surprise her husband was that same corper that impregnated me 28 yrs ago.He wasn't around,his wife said he was out of the country cos it was his picture i saw.When i got home i told my son who is now a medical doctor everything that happened at my friend's place.He was so happy,because he wante:d to meet and know his biological father,especially now that he is planning to get married.Right nw,i dont know what to do because the father of my child married my friend not just a friend,but a sister from another mother.If i tell her the truth won't she say i wana take advantage of her situation.(inability to give her hubby a male child)this is not a movie.It's a true life story.Your advice is needed pls.

Tapout: when ur already inside. ..n the situation is like this

Chuksemi: This thing was posted in 2005 and you're giving advice in 2014, nine years later

fruityjojo: I don't get you at alll! So it's only a man that needs children? In a marriage btw two adults!? Only the needs of one should be considered? Hmmm with some of the comments I read on Nairaland am very much afraid of African men & their mentality

Amya: So you mean to tell me that sex is just for a man's enjoyment aside procreation. Sex is a need in both gender that has to be satisfied to have a happy life.

The man most likely has a low libido far lower that is normal.

And for those who somehow attribute a man's lack of sexual appetite to his wife's desirability, I'm highly disappointed in such sexist conclusion.

Ajekpakororo: With love all things are possible

Doclight: hmmm.
Nice!

Ivanspring: I usually don't follow the multitude... I don't like rules.

Doclight: love?
thats good.
Hope it puts food on the table?

Ivanspring: Its obviously a man's world. It has been right from creation.

Ajekpakororo: Money matters o.Most Marriages are sustained not by love companionshiip but by companionship love.

solomonbrown64: ....Wats wit dis virgins or no virgins stuff....na wa oh...
anyway, You are right in Point 2 and 6.......dating a virgin and hoping to have carnal knowledge with her , and not willingl to marry her is a recipe for disaster....I have witnessed such before, and it wasnt funny at all....

Ivanspring: Hmmm...and Beyonce said women ruled the world...

Ivanspring: But...what a man can do...

lynpetra: i love them hairy men but not on thier backs .i am particularly carried away with the chest and a well grooms jaw hairs.

lynpetra: i love them hairy men but not on thier backs .i am particularly carried away with the chest and a well grooms jaw hairs.

Ivanspring: You have a point there...

MaziOmenuko: This is what you get when you hide the truth from teenagers; teaching them that sex is dirty and an abomination. Some grow up with that negative mentality about sex and it affects them for the rest of their lives!

Only the truth finally sets them free; sex is a beautiful thing.



Abraham had sex with his wife's maid, Hagai and it was never recorded for him as a sin. Should we talk of David? Or solomon? Do you read your bible at all?