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Darkest Female Secrets that NO woman wants you to know!

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Afodot0022:
Top of the day to my nairalanders family, God bless you all in all ramifications. I know some will be familiar with my stories here, if you are not, you can visit my profile to get familiar.

My girlfriend have been living with me for a month now and reason I took her in was that she was kicked out from her friend she shared an apartment with and got no choice than to accept her briefly pending when she gets her own accomodation. Initially I thought it will be beneficial she staying as I expect her to support but she is sole dependent on me even knowing that she works and earn well. Now the narrative is changing as this my girlfriend is getting too relaxed, comfortable and looks like she doesn't want to leave again and want us to live together. At first I wanted this cos I expected she will also contribute in the house but I noticed she has been keeping her money to herself despite her working and depending on me solely and making me take husband responsibility that I have not signed for. She is kinda lazy even despite her living with me, I still do my chores ,clean and attimes cook. She only do these once in a while. There was a time she wanted to do her laundry, our dirty cloths was in the basket, she picked only her own dirty cloths and left mine to wash her own alone, I was surprised she acted that way despite the help I rendered for her. I was divorced 2years ago and don't even want to think about another marriage any time soon cos of the issues,stress and responsibility involved in marriage, now it seems this girl is driving me to that route which am not even ready or prepared for. The last time I told her to get her apartment before this month end, she didn't take it well with me, she started crying and manipulating me emotionally. To myself, even if you want us to live together as couple atleast I should know your parents and do something on your head to prove that we are both married but truth be told, am not ready for such for now, am not ready for marital commitment. Pls house, advice me on how to navigate through this situation, how can I get her to leave my apartment nice, as it is now, I don't even care if her leaving will be the end of the relationship, cause I remember she mentioned that if she leaves, she won't come to my house again never I just want to have my place to myself so I can plan and focus with the little am managing instead of her adding to my responsibility which am not st for. Pls if you have once been in this situation, kindly drop some tips and advice that will help me out on this cos it's giving me sleepiness night and I don't want to treat her harshly or rudely. I will appreciate all you inputs

Even if you date, must you you date nonsense... How can you date such a selfish, egotistical human being. Na her type dey leave her guy tuwama when the chips are down.

She will test you endlessly.

Most guys think women are unpredictable because they change their moods all the time.

The reality is that women consciously or subconsciously test men while dating to make sure that they are worth committing to.

You see, for ages, women have been testing men to determine the best partner, and this evolutionary trait continues today.

It is something that all women do.

They want to find out whether you are the one with whom they can spend the rest of their lives with and produce offspring.

These tests come in different forms.

It could be her getting emotional and starting a fight with you.

If you get emotional and start arguing with her, you have failed the test.

But if you are able to remain stoic and unfazed, you pass the test.

Most guys fail these type of tests all the time because they don't understand what's going on.

They think these tests are disrespectful and take it as an insult. But that is the last thing you should do.

Listen, women don't test guys out of bad intentions.

Most of the time, they don't even know they are testing you themselves.

It's like their biological makeup forces them to poke and test a man to find out if he is the capable man he needs to be.

She needs to know that your actions speak louder than your words.

Detest weakness

Women tend to have high levels of empathy they feel for others.

But when it comes to men, and weak men to be more specific, most women lack any empathic ability.

In fact, they biologically despise weakness in men.

The modern world has fooled men into believing it's okay to be weak and cry, and that is why most guys make the mistake of being vulnerable and weak around women. Pathetic.

Women have always been attracted to strong, leaderful men, and so they feel no remorse for a fragile man that can't handle his problems, no matter what anyone tells you.

She may pretend to feel for you, but deep down, your weakness disgusts her.

Now, I am not telling you to become a robot.

You are a human, and there will be moments of weakness in your life.

But no good ever came from displaying weakness towards a woman.

All it does is trigger her brain to know you are not a fit leader for her and her offspring.

Instead, learn to control your emotions, and share your problems with your peers and brothers instead of women

A recap of women nature below...these are not new stuffs here. They have been explained here by the founders and veterans of this thread. It is just to remind new comers of the essence of this one in a million thread

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Lifestarter007:
Good morning guys.
I want you guys to be as brutal as possible.
I’m a 26yrs old guy,done with school and nysc.
For the past two years and some months I have been working as a bet9ja cashier, I stayed with my brother who is married with kids. My brother has been very supportive.
During this 2yrs,I have been able to save up to 1.8m since I don’t have much expenses.
I know how big and small the money is at the same time.
The truth is there’s more to life than being a cashier.
secondly
Nobody knows I have that kind of money.
I just want to start my own Life as a man.
My parents are late.this are conversations I would have loved to have with my father.
BROTHERS if you were in my shoes how would you go about things.

First and foremost you are on the right track. Why I said so, is judging from your brief explanation of your current situation and what you have been able to achieve for the past 2yrs and how you have decided to stay with your married brother; instead of renting your own space and lavishing the money. It clearly shows you know what you really want in life.

A few tips from me:

1) Don't quit the Bet9ja job yet.
2) Don't think about renting your own space. 1.8million is too small right now to get a decent apartment and properties needed to make you comfortable in your new home.
3) Look for another side hustle and invest some part of that money. There are many side hustles that you can invest in that will yield results from now till December.( E.g 10% of that money can give you extra 50% ROI in Forex trading with bots monthly)
Then next year you can think of renting your own space and starting life with a strong financial backup.
4) Avoid Nigerian girls at all cost. They are leeches all of them. They only know how to take and take and take from you. And takers don't know when to stop... untill your are down.

Wishing you all the best of luck man👍

Maria96:
there are schools abroad ( canada, usa, Europe etc) that are on one floor in a commercial building.

At least you know, you're not in a shit hole

This is just one of the hostels in most Nigerian secondary schools.