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both of them failed woefully...

check what Wike did in Rivers State
check what Umahi did in Ebonyi State
and crosscheck them with what Alex Otti is doing in Abia state, then you see that both of them are colossal failures...

the question, should be, who is more failure than the other

Edo State is yet to have a governor that will develope the state to a greater level like Ambrose Ali and Samuel Ogbemudia

First and foremost... there's no person anywhere in the world that is holding the key to your success, even twin brothers can both end up being broke or being rich or one being broke and the other rich. Their destinies are not the same or tied together. All those revelations that she holds key to your financial break through are lies and mere aberration

Secondly you have to forgive her, stop hating on her and move on. Forgive her out of selfishness. When we forgive people, it makes us better because we are going to be more at peace with ourselves and achieve greater heights as our soul and spirits are free from grudges. So forgiving her will favour you more. 👇👇👇
2. I have a deep and an intense hatred for her. How can I take back someone I have a deep hatred for?


At the bolded below, 👇👇👇bro I don't think you have levelled up, I am not saying that you are lying. But if you have really levelled up, you will be so busy with your new life and better babes that a girl you dated in Buhari's regime😂😂 will not bother you to create a topic about her on this forum.

3. She no longer meets my spec. I have a better taste now.

Finally, the earlier you understand that some people are in your life to help you, some are in your life to deal with you and some people are in your life to teach you life lessons. All these people will come and go...everyone of them is important in your life journey as a man...so let her go, she was part of the group that came to deal with you and teach you some life lessons. Look for those that will help you to grow, bring them into your life.

Stay blessed, stay focused, forward ever, backward never👌

Meaning:
I don't want to bore you with much worse.

I dated a girl for 5years. We started dating back then when we were in the university. She was very kind and very understanding.
But she broke up with me and went ahead to date her colleague because he was more handsome (I'm not really that sweet to look at)

She treated me like a piece of shit, like a used rag, not considering the fact that we were together for 5years.
Now she broke up with him again and she's been begging me consistently for two years now wanting a relationship.
I've blocked her on all platforms but she always uses new numbers to get with me which they all go into the "blocked zone".

Back when we were dating. I was told by someone that I shouldn't leave the girl no matter what. Now this year, revelation has come out from two different people that I must take that girl back. That she holds a key to my financial breakthroughs. Not like I believe that bullshit anyways but It's kind of bothering me.

1. I feel like she lacks loyalty, how could I taie back someone who doesn't understand what loyalty is.

2. I have a deep and an intense hatred for her. How can I take back someone I have a deep hatred for?

3. She no longer meets my spec. I have a better taste now.

4. My ego is bruised because, she chose her colleague who had a GF over me who all I had was her.

5. I feel like her colleague is the person she really likes. She might be back because she isn't getting what she wants from him.

Guys please advice me, How do I date who I hate and please teach me how to avenge myself?
She hurt me so much when she left that I was bleeped up mentally up to the extent that I lost a huge sum of money and a source of income, I've been struggling since then. I even fell sick after that.

An eye for an eye. I want to avenge myself please. Please teach me all the possible wicked things I can do even if I must took her back.
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@ everyone. Please save a brother.

Feldie:
Onlyfans scammers are whom you are taking seriously. DM them at your own peril. They'll drain your account before you realize it's your fellow guyman

Leave scumbags like dkidd to be disgracing themselves...

dkidd:
I don't have a girlfriend simple... Why are U taking it too personal. And U say it's nothing special, na guys like U even dey kneel beg girl sef. Abeg shift

Kneel beg ur mama abi... You used the pronoun "you" when you mentioned me earlier and still asking me why I am taking it personal, abi u smoke Oshogbo weed or you no go school which one dey worry u

dkidd:
Dey fool urself there.. Nigerian girls do it. Ur serious girlfriend does it a lot so if not with U she does it with the next dude na Ur loss

@ the bolded, I no get girlfriend, na u give me girlfriend, abi na your sister I dey date. What is special in having a girlfriend

All these people are lying, believe them at your own expense... Woman no go fit whyne me...

That been said, if at all they are speaking out of experience, then these are hookers and Only fans models ... they are just trying to advertise their skills in the trade

Let's talk about Ngolo Kante, the G.O.A.T of Simps
N'Golo Kante is one of the greatest Simps of our time...

Please brothers let's pray for him now..🙏

How can you marry someone older than you?, And she deceided not to bear him a child because she had already given birth to a child for another man.

A young successful man with no children of his own... someone else's son and mother inherited his wealth and empire.

Kante started with dangerously low self-esteem, he was rejected a lot by women in his broken days because he was not physically attractive.
Think of it as a shy man like him, this woman is his Boss, she is the king of the house, N'Golo is just another child to her.

God help our black brother.

I'm worried for him.

Ngolo Kante, Gerald Pique and Achraf Hakimi married older women, but Pique and Hakimi played their game well as true sons of their fathers...Kante is a failed project among the brotherhood

Bro, Behind every successful man are countless women he refused to send money to.

OduduwaNow:
So what's your conclusion?

It depends on the part of Igbo land not generally exclusive to Anambra state. There's no uniform marriage culture in Igboland. Like where I come from, if you like pay 100million dollars as bride price. You will not be given a child born by your wife, while she was still in her father's house. The child is not yours, he/she belongs to your in-laws family and will bear her name. Only the man who go her pregnant can claim the child, that's if he was reasonable enough to come and pay for the girl's bride price.

There are communities I know too well in Enugu and Ebonyi States. Once you marry a girl there, she's coming over with the kids she had from other men, while still in her father's house. They will bear your name.

OduduwaNow:
A fellow Ijaw person was arguing this thing with me about Igbo and I say I should get the information from Igbos themselves.


If a person marries an Igbo from Anambra with one child out of wedlock is it true that when the bride price is payed the lawful guy take the child as his own?

Paid

Walking away from a woman you love because she disrespected you is one of the bravest things 99.9% of men don't have the balls to do.

sabbiboi:
She detest you as a weak man, and she will make you suffer for being a weak man.
You think it’s love, it’s not. She disrespects you all the time, and you still go back to ask her in a beautiful voice why she is acting like that towards you, then you forgive and tell her calmly to forget about the issue. Lol, the end of such men is full of guilt. And you will ultimately suffer for your emotional weakness.

Lesson: don’t tolerate her disrespect in any way.

Women are cunning in act. You may not notice it is being disrespectful, but it gets disastrous over time. So, never tolerate her little lies of being busy and unable to text you “how is your day going”, or her plan of visiting a place and you are not aware she is already on the road.
These are the subtle signals of being disrespectful.

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